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By *zami OP   Woman
over a year ago

LONDON

Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx"

You have a verification

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx

You have a verification "

Oh dear -another one of those with memory problems

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx

You have a verification

Oh dear -another one of those with memory problems "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx"

I did a lot of searches years ago .... Messaged all the women in my area that professed to be bi or gay.

Not one reply. Many of them had not been online for ages. Dawned on me that most of the members here are male and most of the female members are straight or just 'please the other half bi ' ........

The only advice I can give is try spearing a microbe in a vat of ants it's more easily achieved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same advice I'd give to a single guy really.

socials/parties/clubs..

and at least one cock shot(mine), it'll help bring in other ga/bi girls...

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By *zami OP   Woman
over a year ago

LONDON

I have a verifivation from someone I met for a drink but we didnt have sex.

I dont really care how people define themselves.. bi curious or bisexual it doesnt matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your looking for a regular female and that is going to be hard to find.. and there isn't that many women on here looking for just women..

Profile is your place to show them whats in it for them.. but I think in person at socials or clubs is going to be the easiest x

Good luck

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Your looking for a regular female and that is going to be hard to find.. and there isn't that many women on here looking for just women..

Profile is your place to show them whats in it for them.. but I think in person at socials or clubs is going to be the easiest x

Good luck "

Exactly this.

You're looking for a niche within a very small group in fab. Try a social or a couples and ladies night at a club.

Failing that there's a club on Mondays called the bi fun club that a friend of ours go to, she says it's a good place and I believe you have to be at least bi to go there. Maybe you can try there?

I wish you the best of luck with your search but I imagine it will be tough.

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By *zami OP   Woman
over a year ago

LONDON

Where is bi fun? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were looking for a man, I could solve your problem

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Shame you're so far away...

Female replying x

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By *zami OP   Woman
over a year ago

LONDON

Im not looking for a man

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

“Don’t like to moan” yert you did, kind of lost...

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By *aturewomanloverMan
over a year ago

staffs/cheshire


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx

I did a lot of searches years ago .... Messaged all the women in my area that professed to be bi or gay.

Not one reply. Many of them had not been online for ages. Dawned on me that most of the members here are male and most of the female members are straight or just 'please the other half bi ' ........

The only advice I can give is try spearing a microbe in a vat of ants it's more easily achieved. "

BREAKING NEWS: girls messaged on fab and not one messaged back!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not looking for a man"

Best of luck Awarrior! I think you’ll need it. I’ve sent out about 200 emails over the past 6 weeks! Not one meet and hardly any conversation. One women stood me up, complete time waster! Very disheartening especially when you have enjoyed the lifestyle before.

And I haven’t attached ‘c**k’ pictures, been rude, have string a few paragraphs together and have a veri! Nothing.

I’m not sure if people actually do the human thing and meet and converse anymore! It seems to be very old hat.

It appears there must be a lot of time wasters on here and people are quick to paint with the same brush, that or I’m simply plain ugly and unattractive lol I’m sure that’s not the case though.

Hope you meet someone

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By *rCurious1Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx"

When you get advice please share with me haha

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Where is bi fun? Xx"

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/the_bi_fun_club

Should have all the info you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your after a woman to play with, sadly they are few and far between. Personally your pics do nothing for me so I'd address that issue. Maybe go to a club that's a bi night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your after a woman to play with, sadly they are few and far between. Personally your pics do nothing for me so I'd address that issue. Maybe go to a club that's a bi night. "

I thought OP has lovely pics...I'd say not the best way to approach someone who might be feeling not great about themselves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your after a woman to play with, sadly they are few and far between. Personally your pics do nothing for me so I'd address that issue. Maybe go to a club that's a bi night.

I thought OP has lovely pics...I'd say not the best way to approach someone who might be feeling not great about themselves..."

Where does it say she's not feeling good about herself? She asked why she wasn't getting meets from other females, I simply answered what I saw. Not being bitchy, all she needs to do is take better pics has she's a gorgeous figure.,

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Your after a woman to play with, sadly they are few and far between. Personally your pics do nothing for me so I'd address that issue. Maybe go to a club that's a bi night.

I thought OP has lovely pics...I'd say not the best way to approach someone who might be feeling not great about themselves..."

If it was a single male with pics that did nothing people would have no issue in saying so. Seems a bit sexist to say the same advice can't be given to a female.

If you take out the fact she is female that comment can be found on many single male threads asking why they can't get a meet.

As for the OPs question, you are fishing in a very small pond on fab but some clubs do run bi ladies nights so you may have more success in person. Wrong part of the country for you but cupids hold a monthly one and it gets a fair few attendees.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx"
......move to Lincolnshire ...;-)

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By *zami OP   Woman
over a year ago

LONDON


"Where is bi fun? Xx

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/the_bi_fun_club

Should have all the info you need "

Thanks xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is bi fun? Xx"

mostly found in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx

I did a lot of searches years ago .... Messaged all the women in my area that professed to be bi or gay.

Not one reply. Many of them had not been online for ages. Dawned on me that most of the members here are male and most of the female members are straight or just 'please the other half bi ' ........

The only advice I can give is try spearing a microbe in a vat of ants it's more easily achieved.

BREAKING NEWS: girls messaged on fab and not one messaged back!!"

You are fake news! Lol

Sorry had to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx

I did a lot of searches years ago .... Messaged all the women in my area that professed to be bi or gay.

Not one reply. Many of them had not been online for ages. Dawned on me that most of the members here are male and most of the female members are straight or just 'please the other half bi ' ........

The only advice I can give is try spearing a microbe in a vat of ants it's more easily achieved.

BREAKING NEWS: girls messaged on fab and not one messaged back!!

You are fake news! Lol

Sorry had to"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your after a woman to play with, sadly they are few and far between. Personally your pics do nothing for me so I'd address that issue. Maybe go to a club that's a bi night.

I thought OP has lovely pics...I'd say not the best way to approach someone who might be feeling not great about themselves...

If it was a single male with pics that did nothing people would have no issue in saying so. Seems a bit sexist to say the same advice can't be given to a female.

If you take out the fact she is female that comment can be found on many single male threads asking why they can't get a meet.

This....all of it

Ive put up one of these threads on my old profile

If i guy does it all anyone does is shitpost or just make jokes about the OP for [insert reason here]

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on here for a while but Ive yet to meet anyone. Any advice? Xx

I did a lot of searches years ago .... Messaged all the women in my area that professed to be bi or gay.

Not one reply. Many of them had not been online for ages. Dawned on me that most of the members here are male and most of the female members are straight or just 'please the other half bi ' ........

The only advice I can give is try spearing a microbe in a vat of ants it's more easily achieved.

BREAKING NEWS: girls messaged on fab and not one messaged back!!

You are fake news! Lol

Sorry had to

lol

I wish we could post pics...would have been funnier"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u must be fake or u have no intention to meet that could be the reason

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Where is bi fun? Xx

mostly found in clubs"

Think she meant bi fun club

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London


"u must be fake or u have no intention to meet that could be the reason "

I don't know how you jumped to that conclusion, maybe I am missing something about OP?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"u must be fake or u have no intention to meet that could be the reason

I don't know how you jumped to that conclusion, maybe I am missing something about OP?

"

Because this site is over run with bi women looking to meet,

or maybe not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this thread weird or maybe I'm weird I'm not sure

Anywaaaaay ...

I love moaning - so I'll try and answer your question.

I'm not sure how you're trying to approach women on here - but as one yourself then you need to maybe look at changing your profile a bit.

A month isn't that long - and as a women I'm sure you know that some women need time and want to chat and get to know you a bit before meeting.

I'm sure this was completely unhelpful but there it is

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