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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else come across the fake profiles on here from guys obviously pretending to be female though ( as they using own names still ) what do they get out of it i wonder and ruining the site for genuine guysn girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men pretending to be women?? On FAB?? Surely not??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea, but they're not ruining anything for me. In fact, it makes finding the good folk a lot easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what do you mean by 'using their own names'? some one said the same yesterday..i can see theres plenty of, usually easy to spot, men with fake female profiles, but ive never seen one called Dave or similar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always report them.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"what do you mean by 'using their own names'? some one said the same yesterday..i can see theres plenty of, usually easy to spot, men with fake female profiles, but ive never seen one called Dave or similar?"

You mean you haven't exchanged messages with Alf36DD!

You're missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes one has many many accounts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male of the profile speaking.

If you think about it, it's really profoundly sad.

Not only are these men so lonely and unable to find attention that they pretend to be someone else on here, they continue to try to lie even though there is a huuuuge stigma about it in the forum's and on the vast majority of profiles they read. They literally have to read about how annoying and sad they are for lying daily.

Also, if they do get a bit of attention as their alter who's, male or female, it serves no other purpose in the long run other than to convince them that they themselves are not worthy of anyone's attention or sexual advances. They must just end up feeling a bitter sense of resentment for either the other gender, or for the more attractive members of the site.

I literally couldn't think of a worse existence on here, I'd rather be honest and lonely, than never be able to take things further than a flirt pretending to be someone else.

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By *nddyoneMan
over a year ago

bicester

Yes does it turns them on but Piss me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get that crap on any site these days, I think they just get a kick out of it.

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport

I see this being said so many times and reiterated by so many people who really have no idea who is making the fake profile. Yes no doubt some will be men, the majority maybe because men are the majority on her, but equally some are men from couples profiles, having seen it myself and my own theory is that a lot are created by kids just that they can view the cams and pictures and wind people up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea this site is full of them sadly

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By *wheels4funMan
over a year ago

colchester

I must be really naive but how do you tell so easily?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men pretending to be women?? On FAB?? Surely not??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men pretending to be women?? On FAB?? Surely not??

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Iv said this on a previous post,if they say they are interested then ask them to prove they are a woman via a witheld phone call or cam, if they refuse just just move on. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person verifications is the only id meet soneone. Says alot. In fact nothung says genuine then reading in person veris. Plus I only do coffee socials before potential sexual meets. If they're fake or not look as they say, I've only lost 1hr of my time and the cost of buying my own drink. Worth it in my opinion. Rather that then get all dolled up, make the effort to travel to his house at my cost and time for him to not be who he said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been accused of being a male and blocked because they didnt like being told no thanks. X

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

Yep it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep it happens "

Some of us ladies are fakes pretending to be men......

Ok so not really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if there are any females using fake male profiles on here, I do sometimes wonder how that would work out for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have heard tell of it. No doubt that some women would get a kick out of it...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Yep it happens

Some of us ladies are fakes pretending to be men......

Ok so not really!"

I'm pretending to be a threesome

Oh wait, I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had several abusive messages from People I've never spoken to accusing me of being a time wasting man some even reported me I'm not sure what on my profile gives the impression I'm a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing new

Most couples profiles are just a sad little man wanking on the keyboard

Ditto for most female profiles

- Mrs. J -

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

I was a female last time I looked lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So far ive not came across any but bets there is somewhere on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes one or two - one even managed to get me to call 'them' but 'she' was too shy to chat on the phone - reported and removed and into the wilderness 'he ' went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else come across the fake profiles on here from guys obviously pretending to be female though ( as they using own names still ) what do they get out of it i wonder and ruining the site for genuine guysn girls "
At least 10 new ones join my local 10 mile search every time I search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife does it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if there are any females using fake male profiles on here, I do sometimes wonder how that would work out for them."

It would certainly cut down the amount of messages and dic pics you get?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if there are any females using fake male profiles on here, I do sometimes wonder how that would work out for them."

They would get loads of messages from men wanting to fk their arses, if they like anal they can put on some men's clothes, bandage their tits flat, then bend over. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if there are any females using fake male profiles on here, I do sometimes wonder how that would work out for them.

They would get loads of messages from men wanting to fk their arses, if they like anal they can put on some men's clothes, bandage their tits flat, then bend over. XXX"

No I've not had any such messages,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if there are any females using fake male profiles on here, I do sometimes wonder how that would work out for them.

They would get loads of messages from men wanting to fk their arses, if they like anal they can put on some men's clothes, bandage their tits flat, then bend over. XXX"

No I've not had any such messages,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had several abusive messages from People I've never spoken to accusing me of being a time wasting man some even reported me I'm not sure what on my profile gives the impression I'm a man "

I've had this a couple of times too! Maybe it's because i never replied to their messages? Not been reported yet but been blocked numerous times. If they're that petty and ridiculous it's hardly my loss is it? Xx

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"I must be really naive but how do you tell so easily?"

Genuine profiles will have more than 2 Verifications from other verified people by meeting in person. They will have pics of them both together if a couple. Their verifications will be within the last 6 months. They won't try to get you on kik or whatsapp or anything like.

Any couple or female using the word 'gosh' in a message is a definite fake profile, 100%!.

New profiles will be furnished quickly if real as it doesn't take long, face pics and demanding face pics is a red flag too. Too shy to chat means not real, as they'd deffo be too shy to meet

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I've been accused of being a male and blocked because they didnt like being told no thanks. X"

I've had this from couples single men and women on numerous occasions lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I wonder if there are any females using fake male profiles on here, I do sometimes wonder how that would work out for them."
shall we try it

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By *amie4funTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

It's an outrage.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else come across the fake profiles on here from guys obviously pretending to be female though ( as they using own names still ) what do they get out of it i wonder and ruining the site for genuine guysn girls "

What do they get out of it? Fantasy wank fodder.

There have been fake women profiles on sites such as these for years. Don't know how they are ruining it for other people. Either chat and let them have a nice wank or say no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be really naive but how do you tell so easily?

Genuine profiles will have more than 2 Verifications from other verified people by meeting in person. They will have pics of them both together if a couple. Their verifications will be within the last 6 months. They won't try to get you on kik or whatsapp or anything like.

Any couple or female using the word 'gosh' in a message is a definite fake profile, 100%!.

New profiles will be furnished quickly if real as it doesn't take long, face pics and demanding face pics is a red flag too. Too shy to chat means not real, as they'd deffo be too shy to meet "

I must stop using gosh I'm my messages

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By *aturewomanloverMan
over a year ago

staffs/cheshire

dont speak to newish profiles that dont have a green flag! simple.

the fact your getting a reply must mean its a lonely male!! jokes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont speak to newish profiles that dont have a green flag! simple.

the fact your getting a reply must mean its a lonely male!! jokes!"

Funny... but true!!

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By *aturewomanloverMan
over a year ago

staffs/cheshire

true and funny!! but seriously no green flag?? fuck it off straight away xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men pretending to be women?? On FAB?? Surely not??"
lol nice one

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By *trapon1981TV/TS
over a year ago

Balloch / Dumbarton


"Men pretending to be women?? On FAB?? Surely not??"

I find the very idea of men pretending to be women offensive

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Has anyone else come across the fake profiles on here from guys obviously pretending to be female though ( as they using own names still ) what do they get out of it i wonder and ruining the site for genuine guysn girls

What do they get out of it? Fantasy wank fodder.

There have been fake women profiles on sites such as these for years. Don't know how they are ruining it for other people. Either chat and let them have a nice wank or say no thank you. "

Or just block and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This subject winds me up as I've had many men accuse me of being a man, when I'm not interested in them. Especially with a new profile. It's very off putting when you first join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha we have had loads of fakes, they are even sending faked live camera pictures on kik

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Haha we have had loads of fakes, they are even sending faked live camera pictures on kik"

How do you fake a live pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This subject winds me up as I've had many men accuse me of being a man, when I'm not interested in them. Especially with a new profile. It's very off putting when you first join. "

Yes once you have veris it’s easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha we have had loads of fakes, they are even sending faked live camera pictures on kik

How do you fake a live pic

"

PM'd you

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By *i - juicy JCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often don't trust the profiles that ask for a face pic on their profile or the first message. It makes me suspicious.

I am guessing that some are blokes who want to set up a meet then who knows what happens when someone turns up...bribery maybe or trouble even.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!"

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet. "

Maybe im looking at it differently from most but, if after a few messages and they say they are interested but won't speak on the fone then just move on and forget about them??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

Maybe im looking at it differently from most but, if after a few messages and they say they are interested but won't speak on the fone then just move on and forget about them?? "

Haha true, but some people are shy an may think it's abit soon for a phone call I know I'd be abit nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

Maybe im looking at it differently from most but, if after a few messages and they say they are interested but won't speak on the fone then just move on and forget about them??

Haha true, but some people are shy an may think it's abit soon for a phone call I know I'd be abit nervous"

I suppose we are all different, as a MF couple you hold all the aces remember so be more confident

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By *i - juicy JCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet. "

That's also so true, why bother messaging in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

Maybe im looking at it differently from most but, if after a few messages and they say they are interested but won't speak on the fone then just move on and forget about them??

Haha true, but some people are shy an may think it's abit soon for a phone call I know I'd be abit nervous

I suppose we are all different, as a MF couple you hold all the aces remember so be more confident "

You've got a good point there like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

That's also so true, why bother messaging in the first place? "

So they can gain your trust an get you to send photos of yourselves full body pictures with faces they like haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

Maybe im looking at it differently from most but, if after a few messages and they say they are interested but won't speak on the fone then just move on and forget about them??

Haha true, but some people are shy an may think it's abit soon for a phone call I know I'd be abit nervous

I suppose we are all different, as a MF couple you hold all the aces remember so be more confident

You've got a good point there like "

I was due one haha

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By *i - juicy JCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

That's also so true, why bother messaging in the first place?

So they can gain your trust an get you to send photos of yourselves full body pictures with faces they like haha "

Yes that maybe so but I've learnt from past experiences hence why I don't send pics anymore! Also cam or phone call is good so you get to see or hear each other's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

That's also so true, why bother messaging in the first place?

So they can gain your trust an get you to send photos of yourselves full body pictures with faces they like haha

Yes that maybe so but I've learnt from past experiences hence why I don't send pics anymore! Also cam or phone call is good so you get to see or hear each other's. "

Haha we learnt the hard way too! I think we will haft to start doing that instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also annoyed at this... as it makes it so hard for the rest of us whom are genuine grrr!

Yeah we are finding it quite hard too! They waste so much of your time when you could be talking to someone genuine, who actually wants to get to know you...an possibly meet.

That's also so true, why bother messaging in the first place?

So they can gain your trust an get you to send photos of yourselves full body pictures with faces they like haha

Yes that maybe so but I've learnt from past experiences hence why I don't send pics anymore! Also cam or phone call is good so you get to see or hear each other's.

Haha we learnt the hard way too! I think we will haft to start doing that instead "

Yous can have my number anytime

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

HOT TIPS TO SPOT THEN

photos were they are all selfies

I.e non taken together

status

male half only available today to meet single females or couples

verifications that are from users no longer on site

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Lol who has a second fake account

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