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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bbws just are sexy am I strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very strange..no one on this site ever seems attracted to BBW's..its a closely kept niche fetish, not really the sort of thing to air on a site like this...

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner only likes slim to average

Curvy on here usually just means FAT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are, some are not.

Just as some slim women are and some are not.

Even some average women are and some are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner only likes slim to average

Curvy on here usually just means FAT "

What does ample mean then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAT!! Lol "

So you class yourself as fat then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really ?

I’m a slim size 10 all over

And never even been on a diet ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assumed ample meant fat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the BBW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a joke: check out our photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is a joke: check out our photos "

Oh , I was worried you were anorexic and saw yourself as being bigger than you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh thanks but I’m fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner only likes slim to average

Curvy on here usually just means FAT "

I’m curvy and I’m not fat ..

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its a not from us but its each to their own OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No u are not fat and are truly a curvy SHaPE

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Eh, I’m not a fan of the whole BBW scene - it’s not like there’s a Slim Beautiful Woman niche. Some men like slim women, some like bigger women - it’s a personal choice. I’m really not attracted to those that fetishise it, though.

I’m big, I’m open about it on here and I don’t get any fewer compliments now in the real world than I did before I was big. I think it’s more about confidence and how you carry yourself than any particular waist size.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Really ?

I’m a slim size 10 all over

And never even been on a diet ever "

Congratulations on having such wonderful genes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sexy is down to someones personality more than it is looks or there figure or body shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really ?

I’m a slim size 10 all over

And never even been on a diet ever

Congratulations on having such wonderful genes "

Your genes look fantastic to me peanut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can people answer No to this without seeing every single bbw in the world

There are some absolutely stunning fat girls take Ashley Graham for instance

I'm fat and ocasionaly hear I would never have considered sex with a bigger girl until I met you

It drives me mad that so many people are still bothered about admiring that they like bigger women/men

I don't judge anyone but I can honestly say that my bigger girlfriends are just as beautiful looking as my skinny friends

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying all fat women are stunning but neither are all skinny or curvy girls

Anyone that has answered No to this I feel a bit sorry for you because if your only ever gonna have sex with skinny girls then trust me your seriously missing out on some extra juicy sex

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By *ulawayoMan
over a year ago

wilton

I love BBW they turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm big and have many complements on how sexy big women are. It is just a personal choice. Like I prefer a well built male more than a skinny one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But they are lovely curves in the the right places and no hidden agendas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sexy but its the individual not the title which is sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More fun fun though with curves though more to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

One persons turn on is another persons turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very sexy but its the individual not the title which is sexy "

Exactly it's not like you would say oh I'm going to have sex with a slim woman tonight so why say oh I'm going to have sex with a BBW there's just no need for it is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very sexy but its the individual not the title which is sexy

Exactly it's not like you would say oh I'm going to have sex with a slim woman tonight so why say oh I'm going to have sex with a BBW there's just no need for it is there "

Sarah you are stunning by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More fun fun though with curves though more to explore"

Hiw di you work that one out???

All females regardless of size has a vagina to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very sexy but its the individual not the title which is sexy

Exactly it's not like you would say oh I'm going to have sex with a slim woman tonight so why say oh I'm going to have sex with a BBW there's just no need for it is there

Sarah you are stunning by the way x"

Sexy for a BBW or just sexy sorry I couldn't not say that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And to be fair you look fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But they are lovely curves in the the right places and no hidden agendas"

what do you mean by 'no hidden agendas'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very sexy but its the individual not the title which is sexy

Exactly it's not like you would say oh I'm going to have sex with a slim woman tonight so why say oh I'm going to have sex with a BBW there's just no need for it is there

Sarah you are stunning by the way x

Sexy for a BBW or just sexy sorry I couldn't not say that xx"

Stunning bbw or otherwise xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair play to you but I was just asking and you are cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bbw and proud to be i have a big heart and big personality to go with it , some comments from you slim ladies on here are shocking , we all bleed the same , bigger just does everything better haha

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I just happened to intensely enjoy my raw naked flesh rubbing on and being rubbed on, by warm soft fleshy naked women so BBW'S are on the top of my list the bigger the better the more flesh for me & my raw flesh to get totally submerged in wile my hands & mouth roam & explore every square inch of heavenly,fleshness,she has to offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For you as a women x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No hassle honesty all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own: but rolls of fat just doesn’t do it for me or my guy even if the bbw

is pretty awesome looking

Not false boobs either

The world would be very boring indeed if we all liked the same things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For you as a women x"

are you replying to my question about our 'agenda'? i still dont know what you mean? that slimmer women have some secret agenda that fatter ones don't? can you explain what you mean please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always enjoyed this analogy

If you own a Ferrari and you are taking it for a drive what road are you going to use the motorway which is long straight and boring, or the B roads with their tight curves and seeping bends. I know which one I would go for

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

That is a to-negative word

Any shape or size will do just fine as long as a woman has an intense sexual appetite for group sex sharing all her soft warm raw flesh with everybody involved that's the most important thing to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely if we all like the same things then the whole sex scene would be boring

Some people don't like rolls of fat and fake boobs

Some don't like skin and bones and no boobs

Some don't like curvy with perfect natural boobs

Some don't like women in general

Each to there own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I made a error of words and wish I never said agenda now I didn't mean it the way it sounded

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Not."

Oh n ur a gorgeous sex symbol I think not!!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Not.

Oh n ur a gorgeous sex symbol I think not!! "

He's entitled to his opinion, and he wasn't asking for other's opinions on himself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I certainly am not not Ian Quasimodo ugly brother but I just don't give a fuck!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not.

Oh n ur a gorgeous sex symbol I think not!! "

Was thinking the same x

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Not.

Oh n ur a gorgeous sex symbol I think not!!

Was thinking the same x"

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ones persons views is some ones else's delight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not.

Oh n ur a gorgeous sex symbol I think not!!

He's entitled to his opinion, and he wasn't asking for other's opinions on himself. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

There's alot of bitchiness in this thread, I hate all the labels people get given, people are people no matter what size they are, and not everyone has to be attracted to everyone else.

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By *ert 1881Man
over a year ago

pagham

im into bbw the bigger the better

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

You wouldn't ever see me with a bbw...

...I make sure the door is locked and the curtains are drawn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP use the Reply & Quote button, makes for a confusing read otherwise!

I don't think anyone is strange for having a preference but I'm having a guess maybe your friends would think you are?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP use the Reply & Quote button, makes for a confusing read otherwise!

I don't think anyone is strange for having a preference but I'm having a guess maybe your friends would think you are?"

thank yiu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You wouldn't ever see me with a bbw...

...I make sure the door is locked and the curtains are drawn! "

Wow really ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"But they are lovely curves in the the right places and no hidden agendas"

Well that's just bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bbw and proud to be i have a big heart and big personality to go with it , some comments from you slim ladies on here are shocking , we all bleed the same , bigger just does everything better haha "

Some comments from larger ladies are shocking too

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You wouldn't ever see me with a bbw...

...I make sure the door is locked and the curtains are drawn!

Wow really ? "

I don't think he ment it like he'd be embarrassed to be seen with her.

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By *INGLEBBWWoman
over a year ago

ocala


"How can people answer No to this without seeing every single bbw in the world

There are some absolutely stunning fat girls take Ashley Graham for instance

I'm fat and ocasionaly hear I would never have considered sex with a bigger girl until I met you

It drives me mad that so many people are still bothered about admiring that they like bigger women/men

I don't judge anyone but I can honestly say that my bigger girlfriends are just as beautiful looking as my skinny friends

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying all fat women are stunning but neither are all skinny or curvy girls

Anyone that has answered No to this I feel a bit sorry for you because if your only ever gonna have sex with skinny girls then trust me your seriously missing out on some extra juicy sex

"

I couldnt agree with you more!!! There is beauty in all shapes n sizes.

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By *wingtasticMan
over a year ago

north west

It takes all sorts. Could I throw this one in? Bbw always have pretty faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also love the phrase your so pretty for a bigger girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't think i've slept with what you'd call a slim lady in so many years now...couldn't tell you why, i tended to be always drawn to the softer figures of fuller ladies. that however has started to change though as when i started seeing my gf she was considerably bigger and has lost about 11 stone or something, my attraction to her hasn't changed at all, still fancy the pants off her so now my eye has started to wonder to other ladies of her size and figure and the sexyness of slim is also becoming evident to me

that's not to say i still don't go all weak at the knees over the big girls, i always will i think

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"How can people answer No to this without seeing every single bbw in the world

There are some absolutely stunning fat girls take Ashley Graham for instance

I'm fat and ocasionaly hear I would never have considered sex with a bigger girl until I met you

It drives me mad that so many people are still bothered about admiring that they like bigger women/men

I don't judge anyone but I can honestly say that my bigger girlfriends are just as beautiful looking as my skinny friends

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying all fat women are stunning but neither are all skinny or curvy girls

Anyone that has answered No to this I feel a bit sorry for you because if your only ever gonna have sex with skinny girls then trust me your seriously missing out on some extra juicy sex

"

For you, I'll come to Manchester again and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i don't think i've slept with what you'd call a slim lady in so many years now...couldn't tell you why, i tended to be always drawn to the softer figures of fuller ladies. that however has started to change though as when i started seeing my gf she was considerably bigger and has lost about 11 stone or something, my attraction to her hasn't changed at all, still fancy the pants off her so now my eye has started to wonder to other ladies of her size and figure and the sexyness of slim is also becoming evident to me

that's not to say i still don't go all weak at the knees over the big girls, i always will i think "

I absolutely love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can people answer No to this without seeing every single bbw in the world

There are some absolutely stunning fat girls take Ashley Graham for instance

I'm fat and ocasionaly hear I would never have considered sex with a bigger girl until I met you

It drives me mad that so many people are still bothered about admiring that they like bigger women/men

I don't judge anyone but I can honestly say that my bigger girlfriends are just as beautiful looking as my skinny friends

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying all fat women are stunning but neither are all skinny or curvy girls

Anyone that has answered No to this I feel a bit sorry for you because if your only ever gonna have sex with skinny girls then trust me your seriously missing out on some extra juicy sex

For you, I'll come to Manchester again and again. "

Well Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes all sorts. Could I throw this one in? Bbw always have pretty faces."

noooo they don't. seen plenty heavy girls that look like they've been twatted in the face by a shovel

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Well we love the fuller figure ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's all a personal choice,

Think can find a sexy female in all shapes and sizes

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Bbws just are sexy am I strange "

No, people like what they like. For some it's a specific type of body, for some it's a specific type of face, for some it's a specific type of personality. For some it's not specific just an amalgamation of various physical, mental and emotional traits that add up to attraction. Strange would be assuming that just because you have a preference means everyone else must share it. Life would be so boring were that true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes all sorts. Could I throw this one in? Bbw always have pretty faces.

noooo they don't. seen plenty heavy girls that look like they've been twatted in the face by a shovel"

My gardening skills aren’t great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You wouldn't ever see me with a bbw...

...I make sure the door is locked and the curtains are drawn! "

Hahaha tray you just wanna keep us for yourself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer being a bbw to when I'm skinny, I am comfortable in my skin. Prefer a guy with flesh on him, it hurts having sex with a skinny man, sharp angles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bbw lover and proud only look for larger women. Find them more sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bbws just are sexy am I strange "

Would you have asked if you were strange if you found slim women sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes all sorts. Could I throw this one in? Bbw always have pretty faces.

noooo they don't. seen plenty heavy girls that look like they've been twatted in the face by a shovel

My gardening skills aren’t great "

they seemed just fine when i saw ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer being a bbw to when I'm skinny, I am comfortable in my skin. Prefer a guy with flesh on him, it hurts having sex with a skinny man, sharp angles!"

comfortable in my skin. that phrase right there will make a person sexier than any amount of pies or gym time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bbws just are sexy am I strange

Would you have asked if you were strange if you found slim women sexy?"

cant really answer that as would never thought of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bbws just are sexy am I strange

Would you have asked if you were strange if you found slim women sexy?cant really answer that as would never thought of it"

You wouldn’t have thought it strange or because you don’t find slim women sexy?

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I don't know if I've said this on here before but this is my take on this issue; and for the sake of this illustration I am going for slightly extreme examples:

HH cup vrs A cup bra... I'll go for HH.

25 inch hip vrs 40 inch hip ( plus bum), I'll go for 40 inch; all other things equal.

The reality with my choices is that a huge bust + a generous booty = a not so flat belly. It is a judgement call I have to make at the tip of an erection.

If I find what I desire on a not so bbw gal, why not?! However, truth be told, what I love is mostly found on a bbw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bbws just are sexy am I strange

Would you have asked if you were strange if you found slim women sexy?cant really answer that as would never thought of it

You wouldn’t have thought it strange or because you don’t find slim women sexy?"

Bbws are so sexy

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By *uck cpl southwestCouple
over a year ago

Brixham

I think my bbw wife is very sexy what do you guys think

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"You wouldn't ever see me with a bbw...

...I make sure the door is locked and the curtains are drawn!

Wow really ?

I don't think he ment it like he'd be embarrassed to be seen with her. "

It's ok. Some people just want to be offended. It would be rude to disappoint them.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"You wouldn't ever see me with a bbw...

...I make sure the door is locked and the curtains are drawn!

Hahaha tray you just wanna keep us for yourself lol "

I would if I could but that's just being selfish!

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I've been everything from size 10 to size 16, (currently size 16), and I won't lie I'm a lot happier when I'm size 10-12 than I am at the moment, but SOME guys have said they like me as I am and wouldn't want me to be slimmer. It just depends on taste I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be a liar if I said I had not fraternized with one or more big beautiful women in my time. It really comes down to how ones carry themselves. Big women can indeed be sexy...most definitely.

The only problem is when said size inhibits the sexual process...at that point it may indeed be counter-intuitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner only likes slim to average

Curvy on here usually just means FAT "

Yep! FAT as fuck, but generally nice to other people

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Many single guys on fab agree with you, but ask a single guy on the street or down the pub and you will get a very different answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes all sorts. Could I throw this one in? Bbw always have pretty faces.

noooo they don't. seen plenty heavy girls that look like they've been twatted in the face by a shovel"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many single guys on fab agree with you, but ask a single guy on the street or down the pub and you will get a very different answer."

I must admit this. My gymfit/sporty male friends were very open to sexual encounters with bigger women but often were not as willing to date them seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many single guys on fab agree with you, but ask a single guy on the street or down the pub and you will get a very different answer."

I only date larger women ex wife was a size 26

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about confidence for me, doesn't matter what shape you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn out feet up going to be one of those posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Lordy

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sexy isn't a body shape or dress size. There are some truly hot, sexy women of all shapes and sizes.

As usual these kind of threads descend into body shaming of women of all sizes which I hate.

If you are happy in your own body, great. This leads to confidence which is the sexiest thing ever. There is no need to bring others down because they are different to you no matter what their size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a body shape or dress size. There are some truly hot, sexy women of all shapes and sizes.

As usual these kind of threads descend into body shaming of women of all sizes which I hate.

Very well said so true.it's all about body confidence.

If you are happy in your own body, great. This leads to confidence which is the sexiest thing ever. There is no need to bring others down because they are different to you no matter what their size.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Many single guys on fab agree with you, but ask a single guy on the street or down the pub and you will get a very different answer.

I must admit this. My gymfit/sporty male friends were very open to sexual encounters with bigger women but often were not as willing to date them seriously. "

Now there's a surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people are worried about trying things that they don't normally like in case they actually like it

I have always said I don't have a type because I am attracted to lots of different types of people. I also beleive chemistry plays a massive part I've been to clubs ect and not straight away been attracted to someone but then after spending some time together realised that I absolutely want to take things further because the chemistry was on fire

This post is turning into a bit of a write off everyone is allowed there own view and opinion I just think a few people should be a bit more open minded that's all

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By *aughty Wigan CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wigan

Another 'fat' girl making comment but definitely do not consider myself a BBW (would never be so presumptuous to consider myself beautiful, but definately a Big Woman).

We really do not think that sexiness has anything to do with a persons size, whether that be very slim, average, or on the larger side. For us sexiness is all about the person, the confidence, a cheeky smile, a sexy glint in the eye, a bit of sassiness and knowing exactly what you want.

Each to their own and be very boring world if we all liked the same thing but to be embarrassed about meeting bigger girls???? Gobsmacked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love a sexy bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been bigger than I am now, I've been smaller than I am now, but I'm always sexy! As some one said earlier, be comfortable in your own skin, that's where the sexiness comes from regardless of size or shape. I personally find people that body shame a complete turn off!

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By *INGLEBBWWoman
over a year ago

ocala


"I think a lot of people are worried about trying things that they don't normally like in case they actually like it

I have always said I don't have a type because I am attracted to lots of different types of people. I also beleive chemistry plays a massive part I've been to clubs ect and not straight away been attracted to someone but then after spending some time together realised that I absolutely want to take things further because the chemistry was on fire

This post is turning into a bit of a write off everyone is allowed there own view and opinion I just think a few people should be a bit more open minded that's all "

Great view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite funny to see how threads like this one evolve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is everything or everyone on here given a label. Surly it’s the person that you are attracted to not there size. Someone could be the best looking person with the perfect figure but have the worst attitude ever does that make them sexy. Not to use it doesn’t. Mental attraction is more important than a physical one.

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By *slan1971Man
over a year ago

hull

i think that BBW girls rock. I am much more attracted to them than skinnier girls.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Sexy, like curvy comes in all sizes. I'm definitely curvy not fat.

As a rule we don't those who are particularly large or very slim attractive. Though there are some very sexy larger ladies and very slim ladies about.

Sexiness is sometimes as much attitude as anything else, and very much an individual thing.

Nita

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

So an overweight woman is a BBW.

Is an overweight man a BBM? or just a fat bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many single guys on fab agree with you, but ask a single guy on the street or down the pub and you will get a very different answer.

I must admit this. My gymfit/sporty male friends were very open to sexual encounters with bigger women but often were not as willing to date them seriously. "

This is far from surprising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's alot of bitchiness in this thread, I hate all the labels people get given, people are people no matter what size they are, and not everyone has to be attracted to everyone else."

A lot! And from both sides as well!!

You lot know it's possible to be into a type of woman without slandering other types?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a woman we met last weekend completely change our mind on this and we are so shocked. That's the type of experience you want in this arena though. Shot right out of left field. Amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner only likes slim to average

Curvy on here usually just means FAT "

Careful, average nowadays IS fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bbw and proud to be i have a big heart and big personality to go with it , some comments from you slim ladies on here are shocking , we all bleed the same , bigger just does everything better haha "

You don't look big enough to be a bbw. As for being proud? Strange terminology unless you've worked at being the size you are.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"So an overweight woman is a BBW.

Is an overweight man a BBM? or just a fat bloke."

BHM - Big Handsome Male

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By *igga_manMan
over a year ago

near Reading

Personally I enjoy the curvy ladies. But it's all a matter of personal preference.

Some women only want black men , some don't.

Isn't it just an matter of reading profile and going from there ??

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

No they are sexy I want a bbw fb

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm larger lady.

I make no pretence about that you can take me or leave me.

But sexiness doesn't come with a size label it comes with the confidence of accepting who you are and not being afraid to show the rest of the world

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

Wow all these opinions and arguments about what it is to be sexy blah blah blah etc.etc. The OP was a simple general question and folk seem to hijack the thread spewing their reasons, excuses, caveats and feelings about fat ladies.

For US 'generally' it's not hot

simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bigger girl, much bigger than curvy! I’m very honest about that on my profile and when I chat to guys. I hate the BBW reference though personally.

I don’t struggle getting attention on here or in real life. It’s all about dressing well for your shake and being comfortable in your own skin . Would I like to stop a dress size or 3,? Sure! But I’m not going to be a misery arse about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."

You sound delightful! If we all liked the same life would be boring as hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."

Is that why you put curvy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

Is that why you put curvy?"

I am naturally curvy I have boobs and a bum and I'm not overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."

Wow how very catty and maybe you shouldn't pre judge all large ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."

Wow!! Nothing sexy about a bitch either....no disrespect?? Pah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

Is that why you put curvy?

I am naturally curvy I have boobs and a bum and I'm not overweight."

Well we will have to take your word for that as you’re too shy or self conscious to put any pics up.

It does tend to be people who don’t have any public pics themselves who are rude about people who are brave enough to show their lumps and bumps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

Is that why you put curvy?

I am naturally curvy I have boobs and a bum and I'm not overweight."

No pics either 10/1 your probably a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

Wow!! Nothing sexy about a bitch either....no disrespect?? Pah!"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

You sound delightful! If we all liked the same life would be boring as hell! "

Pay it no mind stereotypical trolling profile

Attention is all that she's seeking by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

You sound delightful! If we all liked the same life would be boring as hell!

Pay it no mind stereotypical trolling profile

Attention is all that she's seeking by it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

You sound delightful! If we all liked the same life would be boring as hell!

Really don't care what you think, I must of struck a nerve because your overweight. "

Yawwwwwwwwn!!! Bore off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

You sound delightful! If we all liked the same life would be boring as hell!

Pay it no mind stereotypical trolling profile

Attention is all that she's seeking by it "

I'm not trolling or attention seeker its a forum. Your aloud to have an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."

Oh my who pissed in your cornflakes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggestion BBW is a 'big beached whale' isn't an opinion. It's just nasty.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese.

You sound delightful! If we all liked the same life would be boring as hell!

Pay it no mind stereotypical trolling profile

Attention is all that she's seeking by it

I'm not trolling or attention seeker its a forum. Your aloud to have an opinion."

So why keep responding if your not after attention?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Suggestion BBW is a 'big beached whale' isn't an opinion. It's just nasty. "

The type of "opinion" that will se a person banned from the forums as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hump my humps my humps my humps my lovley lady lumps check em out .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's having an opinion and then there's just being nasty

I'm fat I know it call it what you want bbw fat whale huge large

This post is awful at the end of it all were all here for the same thing to have a good time with people that are into us

So many people are to bothered about shaming others and yes I agree we're all allowed out opinions but come on there's worse things in the world going on that we could be arguing about instead of this

Sexy is definitely not defined by size skinny curvy chubby fat whatever we want to call it

I know that yes I'm fat does it bother me not a chance I know I'm going out this weekend and will have every inch of my body devoured by someone that is into big girls and I know that's exactly the same for a lot of women weather your a size 0 or a 26

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hump my humps my humps my humps my lovley lady lumps check em out ..... "

Checked 'em out at length.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes before the spelling police jump on it I meant whether not weather and our not out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yes before the spelling police jump on it I meant whether not weather and our not out "

How dare you spell something incorrectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."
good job your not looking for new friends coz with an attitude like that I doubt you would find many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's having an opinion and then there's just being nasty

I'm fat I know it call it what you want bbw fat whale huge large

This post is awful at the end of it all were all here for the same thing to have a good time with people that are into us

So many people are to bothered about shaming others and yes I agree we're all allowed out opinions but come on there's worse things in the world going on that we could be arguing about instead of this

Sexy is definitely not defined by size skinny curvy chubby fat whatever we want to call it

I know that yes I'm fat does it bother me not a chance I know I'm going out this weekend and will have every inch of my body devoured by someone that is into big girls and I know that's exactly the same for a lot of women weather your a size 0 or a 26 "

Damn rite girl

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."

You sound hot. We should totally, like, hook up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."

Wow, with a personality like that I'm sure your 'curvy no pics self' will be inundated with offers.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Suggestion BBW is a 'big beached whale' isn't an opinion. It's just nasty.

The type of "opinion" that will se a person banned from the forums as well "

Whoa, hang on there. Opinions get someone banned? We would agree that threats or name calling or certain references may be admonish-able but opinions? no no no.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Suggestion BBW is a 'big beached whale' isn't an opinion. It's just nasty.

The type of "opinion" that will se a person banned from the forums as well

Whoa, hang on there. Opinions get someone banned? We would agree that threats or name calling or certain references may be admonish-able but opinions? no no no. "

Hence why I used air quotes hey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely on the fatter side nowadays,but wished I had the motivation to do something about it . But saying that I have never had a problem with men what ever size I am, but I have from women who would be bitchy and body shame each other, usually because of their own insecurities. Whatever body size I am, I love sex and socialising which is why we are on here isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m definitely on the fatter side nowadays,but wished I had the motivation to do something about it . But saying that I have never had a problem with men what ever size I am, but I have from women who would be bitchy and body shame each other, usually because of their own insecurities. Whatever body size I am, I love sex and socialising which is why we are on here isn’t it? "

Same here and I was a size ten until health problems hit in my early 30s

Never had a problem with guys I have with some woman though they think that I should hide my body In frumy clothes and hide haha never going to happen end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m definitely on the fatter side nowadays,but wished I had the motivation to do something about it . But saying that I have never had a problem with men what ever size I am, but I have from women who would be bitchy and body shame each other, usually because of their own insecurities. Whatever body size I am, I love sex and socialising which is why we are on here isn’t it?

Same here and I was a size ten until health problems hit in my early 30s

Never had a problem with guys I have with some woman though they think that I should hide my body In frumy clothes and hide haha never going to happen end of"

Exactly , smile wave and flash my fat arse and say kisses it

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By *haremoreMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Eh, I’m not a fan of the whole BBW scene - it’s not like there’s a Slim Beautiful Woman niche. Some men like slim women, some like bigger women - it’s a personal choice. I’m really not attracted to those that fetishise it, though.

I’m big, I’m open about it on here and I don’t get any fewer compliments now in the real world than I did before I was big. I think it’s more about confidence and how you carry yourself than any particular waist size."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Nothing sexy about a BBW nothing nice about someone who is obese. No disrespect but its more like Big Beached Whale and alot put curvy when they are obese."

Isn't it funny how these comments are always made by people to embarrassed or afraid to show people what they look like

Opinions are like arse holes.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy comes through the person not their shape !!! Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate these threads

Always someone bashing some one

It makes no difference what shape we are we all have a heart and feelings

So please let's all respect one an other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello.

Ok I'm a big girl. Some of these suggestions in this post are unkind but each to their own.

Myself and Mr like lovers of all sizes.

I think every one is beautiful and let's face it were on a sex website. If we didn't think we got something we wouldn't be here.

I have been a size 6 right through to a size 26 and now an 18. However I have a medical condition that means my weight bounces up and down. Any way no sympathy needed just adding another point that fat isn't always neglect and laziness.

Right if your big stunning. If your slim stunning. If your inbetween stunning.

If your male / female/ tv/ ts/ gay straight bi Some one will find you beautiful so ignore the haters and be happy.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion.

So to your question op. No it's not strange but it's still a taboo to some people. Fill your boots

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Just embrace the love to everyone guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just embrace the love to everyone guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not a fan of bbw at all

Each to their own like others have said

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

Numbers are for accountants, sex appeal is a personal taste that comes in all shapes and sizes. Just pray you're one of the lucky one's who appeal to most, because if you ain't got mojo, any amount of diets isn't going to change that and you might not get what you're looking for either...just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m curvy and I don’t consider myself as fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any of you sexy bbws up for a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sexy & I fucking know it! Don’t need anyone to tell me yes or not;)

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Adored for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were all the same colour, creed, shape and size how boring would this world be? Incredibly so.

The fact that people are attracted to different things is a good thing and no one should be made to feel shit about how they are, just because we don't conform to what the media portrays or others believe how we should be. Seriously who wants to be normal or average, I'm sure as shit I don't.

Be you, be proud of who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we were all the same colour, creed, shape and size how boring would this world be? Incredibly so.

The fact that people are attracted to different things is a good thing and no one should be made to feel shit about how they are, just because we don't conform to what the media portrays or others believe how we should be. Seriously who wants to be normal or average, I'm sure as shit I don't.

Be you, be proud of who you are

"

Hi 5 to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet slim/skinny guys. Im afraid I might squash them

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By *amcubusWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think the problem here is double standards. If I started a thread saying "look at me I'm slim sexy and gorgeous 'cos I eat healthy and go to the gym regular" I would get panned for it. Yet many bigger women seem to big (sorry, pun alert) themselves up and expect everyone to go oooh yea you're lovely.

Just saying

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