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Steps to handle unwanted friend requests

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Step one: Check to see if their profile has friends photos. If not, promptly delete request. If they do, move to step two.

Step two: Ensure they are not online and accept request, ogle their friends photos to your heart's content then move to step three.

Step three: Promptly delete friend Take sip and a bow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this A LOT

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Haha this is my usual thing too

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I do this too, but step one should be - If they have no friends pics do not delete friend request, so they can't resend it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Step one: Check to see if their profile has friends photos. If not, promptly delete request. If they do, move to step two.

Step two: Ensure they are not online and accept request, ogle their friends photos to your heart's content then move to step three.

Step three: Promptly delete friend Take sip and a bow. "

I do this lots, but it it often results in a message asking why I deleted them as a friend

Sometimes fab a photo in their friends album tho if they are sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do this too, but step one should be - If they have no friends pics do not delete friend request, so they can't resend it "

Agreed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Step one: Check to see if their profile has friends photos. If not, promptly delete request. If they do, move to step two.

Step two: Ensure they are not online and accept request, ogle their friends photos to your heart's content then move to step three.

Step three: Promptly delete friend Take sip and a bow.

"

Standard!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Genius!

I know how I'm going to pass a boring Sunday evening now! Hehe!

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I've got a couple of pending invites to try this with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd add, if they have no private pictures to perv, don't delete, then they can't send another one...

Otherwise steps 2 and 3 can uncover some things you can't unsee...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Spot on!!

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Accepting a friend request only to ogle pics???

I only accept requests from people I have chatted with and am actually interested in keeping in contact with.

Call me an idiot, but there you have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Step one: Check to see if their profile has friends photos. If not, promptly delete request. If they do, move to step two.

Step two: Ensure they are not online and accept request, ogle their friends photos to your heart's content then move to step three.

Step three: Promptly delete friend Take sip and a bow. "

I'd never do something like that! T

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I don't check anything.

Friend requests and winks a4re just bulk deleted

If I want to find someone to continue contact I'll send a request

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

I totally ignore them. Means they can't resend

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"I totally ignore them. Means they can't resend "

Wrong profile, on this profile they are accepted from forum chums

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

1. I only friend people I've met

2. I never delete friends requests, all the time it sits there they can't request again

3. I do my perving in stealth mode

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By *ornyjcMan
over a year ago

oldham

Haha but some are allways logged in

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Accepting a friend request only to ogle pics???

I only accept requests from people I have chatted with and am actually interested in keeping in contact with.

Call me an idiot, but there you have it."

Agreed lol. I always ask anyone i speak to on a regular basis before even sending a friend request in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i ignore all friends requests and dont look.

if i want them on my friends list ill ask or they would

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Step one: Check to see if their profile has friends photos. If not, promptly delete request. If they do, move to step two.

Step two: Ensure they are not online and accept request, ogle their friends photos to your heart's content then move to step three.

Step three: Promptly delete friend Take sip and a bow. "

My step 3 is to Fab a couple of their friend only pics so they know I have been there before moving onto step 4 - remove from friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. I only friend people I've met

2. I never delete friends requests, all the time it sits there they can't request again

3. I do my perving in stealth mode "

Stealth mode?! I keep hearing this phase! Please tell, what do you mean by stealth mode? And how do I do this witchcraft too please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. I only friend people I've met

2. I never delete friends requests, all the time it sits there they can't request again

3. I do my perving in stealth mode

Stealth mode?! I keep hearing this phase! Please tell, what do you mean by stealth mode? And how do I do this witchcraft too please? "

go into settings and change your looked at me to Block ( so people dont see when you have looked) x

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"1. I only friend people I've met

2. I never delete friends requests, all the time it sits there they can't request again

3. I do my perving in stealth mode

Stealth mode?! I keep hearing this phase! Please tell, what do you mean by stealth mode? And how do I do this witchcraft too please? "

Stops you appearing on peoples who looked list.

As a site supporter you can use 'stealth mode' by going to My Account, Privacy then choosing to 'Hide on looked at me'.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"1. I only friend people I've met

2. I never delete friends requests, all the time it sits there they can't request again

3. I do my perving in stealth mode

Stealth mode?! I keep hearing this phase! Please tell, what do you mean by stealth mode? And how do I do this witchcraft too please? "
go to privacy tab you can do it from there x

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Instantly delete invite and block.

It clearly states in our profile that this is what will happen if you send a friend invite without having chatted to us first. So an out of the blue friend request means one of three things.

1. They haven't read our profile.

2. They're stupid.

3. Both of the above.

None of the above are indications of a good meet, so off they go onto our block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. I only friend people I've met

2. I never delete friends requests, all the time it sits there they can't request again

3. I do my perving in stealth mode

Stealth mode?! I keep hearing this phase! Please tell, what do you mean by stealth mode? And how do I do this witchcraft too please?

go into settings and change your looked at me to Block ( so people dont see when you have looked) x"

Thankyou very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. I only friend people I've met

2. I never delete friends requests, all the time it sits there they can't request again

3. I do my perving in stealth mode

Stealth mode?! I keep hearing this phase! Please tell, what do you mean by stealth mode? And how do I do this witchcraft too please?

Stops you appearing on peoples who looked list.

As a site supporter you can use 'stealth mode' by going to My Account, Privacy then choosing to 'Hide on looked at me'.

"

And thankyou to you too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. I only friend people I've met

2. I never delete friends requests, all the time it sits there they can't request again

3. I do my perving in stealth mode

Stealth mode?! I keep hearing this phase! Please tell, what do you mean by stealth mode? And how do I do this witchcraft too please? go to privacy tab you can do it from there x"

And also thankyou to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant block!!!

Unsolicited friend requests are totally ignorant.

I don’t care what they look like etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this "friend request" you speak of?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

...you could just press 'decline'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave them, they can't send again. If anyone asks why I haven't accepted I say it's quite plainly on my profile the reason why!

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By *irentwoCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Great minds think alike .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...you could just press 'decline'... "

How vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block them immediately.

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By *uniperjuiceMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

If I use "stealth mode", is it reciprocal? What I mean is, if I choose to be able to view profiles without the owner being able to see that I have done so, does it also disable the feature which lets me see who has looked at my profile?

Thanks for telling me about stelath mode by the way. I'd forgotten it existed. I was a bit mystified why some people from our conversatino seem to have read my profile when it looks to me as though they haven't.

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