FabSwingers.com forum: Help me ????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys I've been on here a month or two very little messages and I thought my photos were decent? Any chats I have had seem for people to want to get off on talking about it but not doing it... I'm an athletic guy looking for hot sex where am I going wrong oh wise ones of fab??

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

You have only been on Fab a very short time OP and men far outnumber women.

I'm afraid you generally need more than just a fit body.

Maybe look at some of the numerous similar threads, as well as those asking for profile advice.

Nita

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Body pics---good, if you are the type for the woman you are trying to attract.

Profile? nonexistant. Maybe try putting a bit more personality into it? Many women want a person to go along with the body.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You have only been on Fab a very short time OP and men far outnumber women.

I'm afraid you generally need more than just a fit body.

Maybe look at some of the numerous similar threads, as well as those asking for profile advice.

Nita"

And definitely more info on bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be a girl to find true success on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to be a girl to find true success on here.

That's just not true lol, may be easier for girls in some ways but I see plenty of guys that have cracked it and are having fun with meets and party invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to be a girl to find true success on here.

That's just not true lol, may be easier for girls in some ways but I see plenty of guys that have cracked it and are having fun with meets and party invites"

Ah, but even they don’t get such an easy ride as they would if they followed my lead and turned femme.

I never wanted to be like this. I’m just easily led

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"You need to be a girl to find true success on here.

That's just not true lol, may be easier for girls in some ways but I see plenty of guys that have cracked it and are having fun with meets and party invites

Ah, but even they don’t get such an easy ride as they would if they followed my lead and turned femme.

I never wanted to be like this. I’m just easily led

Easily led?! Nah...you're just a strumpet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have more to say other than, "look at my body"

You don't stand out at all, and just because you go to the gym, that isn't going to get you noticed.

Sex isn't just about what you look like.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP.

ou have some nice pictures there, which will undoubtedly attract some people. A face pic wouldn't go amiss though.

Your profile text though is not very attractive, it reads as 'I want sex' and does nothing to show other people why they should want sex with you. Expand it and put some personality into it, to sell yourself better. Put it this way, most people will have a quick flick at a profile before deciding to reply. If we were to look at your profile it shows a lack of effort, so why would we bother if you don't?

Your preferences are yours and yours alone, no one can argue with that. However your preferences are at odds with your short profile. If you are only looking for women, how do you intend to meet with couples, or have group sex?

When people ask why they are not having much luck the advice tends to focus on the profile. However there is far more to it than that. How are you using the site? Are you waiting for people to come to you, or are you actively contacting them? If you are initiating the conversation make sure you do your homework. Use the search facility to find people that meet your profile, and who's profile you meet. Read their profiles and then send an engaging message. This will improve your chances and save you some time also.

The forum is a great way to show people a little of your personality, so join in. Likewise the chatrooms are a good way to meet people and have some social interaction. It would also be a great way for you to get yourself verified, which will help you as well.

Good luck

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Great pic's in my opinion,however your write up is a bit lacking. If you were a woman you'd get away with it,as a man you need to bulk it out with more information.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of fab op! Check out the club chat forums and get your self to a club

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

Your age range is slightly restrictive. Your choice of course but it rules me out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have more to say other than, "look at my body"

You don't stand out at all, and just because you go to the gym, that isn't going to get you noticed.

Sex isn't just about what you look like."

Works for me though

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