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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " No one is forcing you to stay here. | |||
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"Ignorant in what way exactly?" If it's because 'they're not replying', I think I might cry in a corner somewhere. | |||
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"Ignorant in what way exactly?" I would hazard a guess that it's the perennial complaint about people not replying to messages | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " You can't be that unhappy with this site as you've been using it for nine years. | |||
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"Because some single guys in here are compete tools, unfortunately this has had a negative impact on all the single guys here. Best thing we can advise... Read the profile in total, Taylor your message to fit. And include any details you need necessary. " Exactly. It isn't rocket science. Of course being in the vast majority here, guys just don't get the volume of messages females and couples get which can run into many tens and even hundreds a week. It has nothing to do with being 'up themselves', it boils down to numbers and being able to be choosy. Guys need to be selective about whom they approach and how they do it if they want to be more successful. | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " Why do some men come out with ignorant statements. I think if your having problems looking in a mirror might reveal the cause. | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " Are you sure you're not mistaking ignorance for choice ? | |||
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"There's a lot of ignorance about what the word ignorance means "i was tempted to add a (sic) but thought that may be a little off ! | |||
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"There's a lot of ignorance about what the word ignorance means i was tempted to add a (sic) but thought that may be a little off !"That would have been good. I have never understood why people confuse arrogance and ignorance so often? | |||
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"Because most men are ingnorant and don't read out profiles before messaging us or do and disregard it anyway with messages like "I know I'm not what your looking for but...." type messages, so we decide to treat them with the same curtesy by not reading their messages "  | |||
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"OP you haven't done too badly, 4 veris in 4 months is better than ok, no need for this thread really "cant see him getting anymore after this thread x female replying x | |||
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"OP you haven't done too badly, 4 veris in 4 months is better than ok, no need for this thread really cant see him getting anymore after this thread x female replying x"Why? | |||
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"There's a lot of ignorance about what the word ignorance means i was tempted to add a (sic) but thought that may be a little off !
That would have been good. I have never understood why people confuse arrogance and ignorance so often? "I think it's a regional thing. In Sheffield where I grew up and not far from the OP "ignorant" means rude as well as lacking in knowledge. | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " That’s a rather broad statement to make ! In what way we they up themselves ? | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves "  . Boo hoo | |||
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"OP you haven't done too badly, 4 veris in 4 months is better than ok, no need for this thread really cant see him getting anymore after this thread x female replying x
Why? "For his ignorance and posting this then not even coming back to answer others posts x | |||
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"Of course there is no irony/double standards that the OP seems to often post ... then never replies ... hmmm. " I love a double standard! | |||
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"Im not on here all the time. I do do stuff on a weekend "Ah, but now that you ARE here... | |||
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"Im not on here all the time. I do do stuff on a weekend "Well I've been on a fair bit and you've always been online then so you clearly aren't that busy today | |||
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"From speaking to couples and single ladies A lot of guys on here disrespect them and message them. Some just message “up for a shag” and send a dick pic and when rejected they swear at them. So kind of ruine it for everyone else x" No they ruin it for themselves | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " are they up themselves or do they just not want you up 'em? | |||
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"Because most men are ingnorant and don't read out profiles before messaging us or do and disregard it anyway with messages like "I know I'm not what your looking for but...." type messages, so we decide to treat them with the same curtesy by not reading their messages " exactly this x | |||
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"Im not on here all the time. I do do stuff on a weekend "(Snort) hahahaha... you said do do! That's like poo dude, and you said it!  | |||
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"Im not on here all the time. I do do stuff on a weekend "which is why I said posts ... (Yes. I went stalking. No. I don't have anything else better to do on a Sunday morning. Other than my msc ... #procrastination) | |||
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"Of course there is no irony/double standards that the OP seems to often post ... then never replies ... hmmm. " Maybe he wants to remain ignorant about where he's going wrong. | |||
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"Green arrow... "just an observation here but why do most men on here get treated like cunts and shite? and why do they get fucked over at clubs for entry prices? surly this is discrimination. Just an observation from being on here on and off for yrs, not a moan on my part."" We don't treat anyone as shite unless they deserve it. As for club prices etc. it's called supply and demand. If guys were in the minority it'd be the other way around. | |||
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"Green arrow... "just an observation here but why do most men on here get treated like cunts and shite? and why do they get fucked over at clubs for entry prices? surly this is discrimination. Just an observation from being on here on and off for yrs, not a moan on my part." We don't treat anyone as shite unless they deserve it. As for club prices etc. it's called supply and demand. If guys were in the minority it'd be the other way around." exactly | |||
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"Because half of them are idiots lol. I don’t have a block on single men messaging me because I have a couple of men that I keep in contact with on here, but I do ignore / delete messages off men. It says quite clearly more than once in my bio that I do not want to meet single men, yet daily the messages flood in. I literally just had one and asked him if he’d even bothered to read my profile and he admitted no, he hadn’t bothered, he’d just looked at the picture and messaged straight away. And they wonder why they get a bad rep? " If you block single men it only stops new ones from contacting you not ones that already have | |||
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"Because half of them are idiots lol. I don’t have a block on single men messaging me because I have a couple of men that I keep in contact with on here, but I do ignore / delete messages off men. It says quite clearly more than once in my bio that I do not want to meet single men, yet daily the messages flood in. I literally just had one and asked him if he’d even bothered to read my profile and he admitted no, he hadn’t bothered, he’d just looked at the picture and messaged straight away. And they wonder why they get a bad rep? " If you message a single man then he will be able to reply even if you've blocked single males. Likewise if you wink at a single male, he can wink back, despite a block. | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " The problem is not the couples and women who are ignorant towards guys. The problem is the many many guys who are ignorant towards couples and women and just plainly ignore their profiles, and that behaviour is from people who we would call 'up themselves'. We feel that people who ignore profiles do so with a certain arrogance. Sadly, the behaviour of the many has labelled all the single guys, and therefore the decent ones are grouped with the others because single women and couples are so fed up with that type of behaviour. Hope that answers your question! | |||
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"From speaking to couples and single ladies A lot of guys on here disrespect them and message them. Some just message “up for a shag” and send a dick pic and when rejected they swear at them. So kind of ruine it for everyone else x" Very true, and some single guys disrespect others by simply ignoring their profiles and bothering them. We all produce profiles so others know what we are looking for, and if we are matched. It is a shame that just so many people ignore them and just make contact regardless. We have to add that couples can be guilty of that too, but in the main it is single guys. | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves The problem is not the couples and women who are ignorant towards guys. The problem is the many many guys who are ignorant towards couples and women and just plainly ignore their profiles, and that behaviour is from people who we would call 'up themselves'. We feel that people who ignore profiles do so with a certain arrogance. Sadly, the behaviour of the many has labelled all the single guys, and therefore the decent ones are grouped with the others because single women and couples are so fed up with that type of behaviour. Hope that answers your question! " So true.... we have had multiple guys do no shows and yet they have veris and proclaime to be non time wasters etc etc... one even knew us and done all the biz in regards to setting up a meet and even on the day confirm the meet.... then done a no show. Bottom line is is that guys on here make eachothers lives within the swinging scene difficult. Single guys that moan have no right to moan in our opinion!!! | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " I think the majority of replies support your theory. Some did ask you to clarify. The rest just 'knew' what you meant because they know everything.  | |||
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"Because half of them are idiots lol. I don’t have a block on single men messaging me because I have a couple of men that I keep in contact with on here, but I do ignore / delete messages off men. It says quite clearly more than once in my bio that I do not want to meet single men, yet daily the messages flood in. I literally just had one and asked him if he’d even bothered to read my profile and he admitted no, he hadn’t bothered, he’d just looked at the picture and messaged straight away. And they wonder why they get a bad rep? If you message a single man then he will be able to reply even if you've blocked single males. Likewise if you wink at a single male, he can wink back, despite a block." I didn’t know that, that’s awesome :D | |||
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"Because most men are ingnorant and don't read out profiles before messaging us or do and disregard it anyway with messages like "I know I'm not what your looking for but...." type messages, so we decide to treat them with the same curtesy by not reading their messages " | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " I in turn would ask you, why are most guys on here so ignorant towards couples and ladies? | |||
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"The OP's has hidden his profile. I wonder how long it will be before we see "profile no longer registered"?" Didn't take too long | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves I in turn would ask you, why are most guys on here so ignorant towards couples and ladies? " exactly! | |||
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"The OP's has hidden his profile. I wonder how long it will be before we see "profile no longer registered"? Didn't take too long" He has started similar threads before, with the same result. He has already stated he has been on ond off for many years, so if he quits and rejoins will anyone notice. What I will say is that he messaged us earlier and was very polite, the opposite of how I thought he may come across jusging by this thread. Maybe he has got what he wanted, by all the attention and people posting here. Who knows. | |||
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"The OP's has hidden his profile. I wonder how long it will be before we see "profile no longer registered"? Didn't take too long He has started similar threads before, with the same result. He has already stated he has been on ond off for many years, so if he quits and rejoins will anyone notice. What I will say is that he messaged us earlier and was very polite, the opposite of how I thought he may come across jusging by this thread. Maybe he has got what he wanted, by all the attention and people posting here. Who knows. " nice to know he has manners then | |||
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"Because some single guys in here are compete tools, unfortunately this has had a negative impact on all the single guys here. Best thing we can advise... Read the profile in total, Taylor your message to fit. And include any details you need necessary. " This is so right. I don’t think us single blokes have any idea how many messages and how many idiots that women have contacting them. Go over to fabguys. Put up a profile with a couple of photos and see what sort of responses you get. There are a few decent people but the rest will give you a little insight to what women have to trawl through here. | |||
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"Im not on here all the time. I do do stuff on a weekend "And that's why he deleted his profile on a Sunday lol. | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves I in turn would ask you, why are most guys on here so ignorant towards couples and ladies? " Both the op and this reply are veey sweeping and generalising statements. Neither are helpfull. | |||
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"Because some single guys in here are compete tools, unfortunately this has had a negative impact on all the single guys here. Best thing we can advise... Read the profile in total, Taylor your message to fit. And include any details you need necessary. " | |||
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"Because most men are ingnorant and don't read out profiles before messaging us or do and disregard it anyway with messages like "I know I'm not what your looking for but...." type messages, so we decide to treat them with the same curtesy by not reading their messages " | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves I in turn would ask you, why are most guys on here so ignorant towards couples and ladies? Both the op and this reply are veey sweeping and generalising statements. Neither are helpfull." That was the point. Though I admit sarcasm does not come off well when it's just text on a screen. | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves I in turn would ask you, why are most guys on here so ignorant towards couples and ladies? Both the op and this reply are veey sweeping and generalising statements. Neither are helpfull. That was the point. Though I admit sarcasm does not come off well when it's just text on a screen." Yeah fair enough. I should have guessed that. Oops. Sorry  | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " You may find that they are that way in their Non-Fab lives too, we know plenty like that! Manners cost nothing , but in today's society they are sadly lacking (mostly down to a lack of parenting skills from the previous and current generations) | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves " totally agree with you,its us innocent ones that miss out | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves You may find that they are that way in their Non-Fab lives too, we know plenty like that! Manners cost nothing , but in today's society they are sadly lacking (mostly down to a lack of parenting skills from the previous and current generations)" | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves I in turn would ask you, why are most guys on here so ignorant towards couples and ladies? Both the op and this reply are veey sweeping and generalising statements. Neither are helpfull. That was the point. Though I admit sarcasm does not come off well when it's just text on a screen. Yeah fair enough. I should have guessed that. Oops. Sorry "It's cool, like I said sarcasm does not come off well in plain text, in my head I was doing a sarcastic tone too as I wrote it. | |||
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"Why are most couples and women ob here ignorant towards us guys? This site is full of people up themselves I in turn would ask you, why are most guys on here so ignorant towards couples and ladies? Both the op and this reply are veey sweeping and generalising statements. Neither are helpfull. That was the point. Though I admit sarcasm does not come off well when it's just text on a screen. Yeah fair enough. I should have guessed that. Oops. Sorry
It's cool, like I said sarcasm does not come off well in plain text, in my head I was doing a sarcastic tone too as I wrote it. " | |||
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