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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi im so new to this but want to explore sex in many ways and want to know how to get into the swinging scene and meet genuine people. I live near southampton.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a swing?

Or tie a tyre to a rope to a tree branch perhaps

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Swing your partner do si do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to get into swinging first thing you need to do is define what swinging means to you.

That is especially important here where some define what we used to call casual sex, which may or may not be called NSA (no strings attached) on here, sometimes, by some... to full on group sex between groups of non defined size, that may or may not have been called orgy's once.

So you have entered the building, what did you come for?

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

How to get into swinging?

It's a question many ask but few get a definitive answer to because there are so many answers.

For me (Mr) it was nearly 30 years ago and pretty much by accident.

In the dark days before the internet and FAB I was in a sexless marriage and just looking for a bit of NSA fun. I used the "Loot" ads (remember them?) in those days and managed to get a few results but swinging was something that I still thought was a myth until I got a message from a couple wanting a younger guy (yes I was young then) to join them.

We met, had a great session, and then started chatting. They started telling me about a swinger club that they used and I thought 'WTF is a SWINGER CLUB'

Needless to say I soon found out as I joined them there the following week. The club was Adam & Eve in Eccles which I believe was the first swinger club in the UK.

After that I dumped the Loot ads and became a semi regular in there.

Eventually I got divorced and drifted in and out of the scene for a good few years both as a single guy and as a couple with a long term ex partner (Cupids was then our favourite venue) and briefly with a shorter term one.

When I moved to Spain I tried a couple of the local clubs but pretty much dropped out of it.

When I met Mrs Hotlove I made no secret of my past and although she always said she wasn't interested in "anything like that" she would quite often bring it up in conversation and always asked lots of questions.

We had been together for around 3 years when the subject came up again one night after a few glasses of wine so I just said stop asking questions and try it for yourself. Fully expecting her to tell me to fuck off I was shocked when she enthusiastically agreed.

We were in Germany at the time and although I didn't know anything then about German clubs I knew that Fun4two in Holland was only a couple of hours drive away and if you are going to start somewhere then why not start at the top?

We went the following week and I could see that she was scared to death at first but she soon relaxed when she saw how many people were actually in the place. I think she was expecting just a handful and that all eyes would be on her.

We didn't play with anyone that night, just watched what was happening around the club and in the playrooms. However the look on her face when a guy started playing with her tits in a playroom doorway was priceless and something I will never forget.

That was 9 years ago and since then we have been to around 40 clubs in 5 countries and as I, and quite a few other fabbers, can assure you she has had a lot more than her tits played with.

I'd wanted to put that in the forum for a while but was waiting for the right thread, so thanks to the OP for giving me the opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How to get into swinging?

It's a question many ask but few get a definitive answer to because there are so many answers.

For me (Mr) it was nearly 30 years ago and pretty much by accident.

In the dark days before the internet and FAB I was in a sexless marriage and just looking for a bit of NSA fun. I used the "Loot" ads (remember them?) in those days and managed to get a few results but swinging was something that I still thought was a myth until I got a message from a couple wanting a younger guy (yes I was young then) to join them.

We met, had a great session, and then started chatting. They started telling me about a swinger club that they used and I thought 'WTF is a SWINGER CLUB'

Needless to say I soon found out as I joined them there the following week. The club was Adam & Eve in Eccles which I believe was the first swinger club in the UK.

After that I dumped the Loot ads and became a semi regular in there.

Eventually I got divorced and drifted in and out of the scene for a good few years both as a single guy and as a couple with a long term ex partner (Cupids was then our favourite venue) and briefly with a shorter term one.

When I moved to Spain I tried a couple of the local clubs but pretty much dropped out of it.

When I met Mrs Hotlove I made no secret of my past and although she always said she wasn't interested in "anything like that" she would quite often bring it up in conversation and always asked lots of questions.

We had been together for around 3 years when the subject came up again one night after a few glasses of wine so I just said stop asking questions and try it for yourself. Fully expecting her to tell me to fuck off I was shocked when she enthusiastically agreed.

We were in Germany at the time and although I didn't know anything then about German clubs I knew that Fun4two in Holland was only a couple of hours drive away and if you are going to start somewhere then why not start at the top?

We went the following week and I could see that she was scared to death at first but she soon relaxed when she saw how many people were actually in the place. I think she was expecting just a handful and that all eyes would be on her.

We didn't play with anyone that night, just watched what was happening around the club and in the playrooms. However the look on her face when a guy started playing with her tits in a playroom doorway was priceless and something I will never forget.

That was 9 years ago and since then we have been to around 40 clubs in 5 countries and as I, and quite a few other fabbers, can assure you she has had a lot more than her tits played with.

I'd wanted to put that in the forum for a while but was waiting for the right thread, so thanks to the OP for giving me the opportunity."

Maybe you can take OP under your wing?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Hi im so new to this but want to explore sex in many ways and want to know how to get into the swinging scene and meet genuine people. I live near southampton.

Thanks"

How do you get into swinging?

You just get into swinging!

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"How to get into swinging?

It's a question many ask but few get a definitive answer to because there are so many answers.

For me (Mr) it was nearly 30 years ago and pretty much by accident.

In the dark days before the internet and FAB I was in a sexless marriage and just looking for a bit of NSA fun. I used the "Loot" ads (remember them?) in those days and managed to get a few results but swinging was something that I still thought was a myth until I got a message from a couple wanting a younger guy (yes I was young then) to join them.

We met, had a great session, and then started chatting. They started telling me about a swinger club that they used and I thought 'WTF is a SWINGER CLUB'

Needless to say I soon found out as I joined them there the following week. The club was Adam & Eve in Eccles which I believe was the first swinger club in the UK.

After that I dumped the Loot ads and became a semi regular in there.

Eventually I got divorced and drifted in and out of the scene for a good few years both as a single guy and as a couple with a long term ex partner (Cupids was then our favourite venue) and briefly with a shorter term one.

When I moved to Spain I tried a couple of the local clubs but pretty much dropped out of it.

When I met Mrs Hotlove I made no secret of my past and although she always said she wasn't interested in "anything like that" she would quite often bring it up in conversation and always asked lots of questions.

We had been together for around 3 years when the subject came up again one night after a few glasses of wine so I just said stop asking questions and try it for yourself. Fully expecting her to tell me to fuck off I was shocked when she enthusiastically agreed.

We were in Germany at the time and although I didn't know anything then about German clubs I knew that Fun4two in Holland was only a couple of hours drive away and if you are going to start somewhere then why not start at the top?

We went the following week and I could see that she was scared to death at first but she soon relaxed when she saw how many people were actually in the place. I think she was expecting just a handful and that all eyes would be on her.

We didn't play with anyone that night, just watched what was happening around the club and in the playrooms. However the look on her face when a guy started playing with her tits in a playroom doorway was priceless and something I will never forget.

That was 9 years ago and since then we have been to around 40 clubs in 5 countries and as I, and quite a few other fabbers, can assure you she has had a lot more than her tits played with.

I'd wanted to put that in the forum for a while but was waiting for the right thread, so thanks to the OP for giving me the opportunity."

Thanks for sharing your experience, makes such a refreshing change to hear a lovely perspective and some real life situations! Really pleased you're both enjoying yourselves!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Go to a club for the ultimate swinging experience

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By *bacus04Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Go to a club, watch, chat and go from there. It worked for me. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another that recommends a club.

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