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Why do husbands love watching their wife getting fucked by other guys?

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By *ueenofspades123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Manchester

I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Because it created an evolutionary advantage for his ancestors and therefore it is an inherited trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? "

Because he is slighly bend bi curious and not straight.. ...or maybe fab straight..

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

No idea why either OP just do

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it?

Because he is slighly bend bi curious and not straight.. ...or maybe fab straight.."

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Because it's good to see her enjoying herself

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

I love watching miss c face while shes being fucked by another man. Shes got my cock in her mouth and she gives me a naughty wink and goes to town on my cock. Its even better when he makes her cum and she bites into my cock. I love it. i soon end up exploding in her mouth.

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Because it's fun and horny and works both ways for us x

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

So he can see how real men perform.

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By *unlovingx2Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Its the naughty aspects of it all. The pleasure of a very horny lady being played with/enjoyed relentlessly.

Then left in a spent quivering mess on the bed, but with that naughty smile on her face afterwards.

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

Question is do you women enjoy fucking other men while your hubby watches?

Does it turn you on?

Do you solely do it to please your husbands?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love to see the other having a great time

Hence same room only for us ...

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

This well said

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

The ache in my balls in the lead up to a meet is difficult to describe but utterly addictive.

Seeing Laura comfortable and turned on with another guy, and loosing herself with him is such a mental overload there is jealousy, pride, happiness and loads of other emotions all happening at once.

In many ways the flirting beforehand and the coming together of me and her afterwards are actually better than seeing the actual sex that takes place between Laura and the guy.

It is a very complicated dynamic but if it works for you then you have a wonderful thing together.

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

Says it better than I did.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

The same reason I love watching Si with other ladies,, its erotic and such a turn on x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "
nail on the head

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"So he can see how real men perform."

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

My husband would say very much the same to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "
couldn't agree more...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I'm just lazy "

Best answer yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get back to you on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a guy who doesn't mind watching me get fucked by other guys ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people like watching porn?

It's like that, only much better

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton


"Why do people like watching porn?

It's like that, only much better "

Great Analogy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets him very horny

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By *ervously excitedCouple
over a year ago

perranporth


"We both love to see the other having a great time

Hence same room only for us ...

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this!

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By *eterbeebeeMan
over a year ago

Derby

It's not naughty it's only religion that deems it so - it's just exciting and auxilarating. Just enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well those whole indulge in it have given us their perspectives. I guess it's one of the things that you got to be in it to tell. If unfortunately it's not one's fantasy then one cannot tell. I however admire couples who indulge in this.

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Why do people like watching porn?

It's like that, only much better "

For us the whole dynamic is so much more than this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people like watching porn?

It's like that, only much better

For us the whole dynamic is so much more than this. "

Comes under the 'only much better' section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get turned on seeing her enjoy herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting opinion would love to hear more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe i like it because i know she can take bigger better and longer so she does what she has to fpr me and i feel i owe her a better root so we come up with her playing with guys while i watch. Honestly hot as fuck if everyone being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not married, but I do have a FB that I see often and have probably fallen for.

I love knowing that she is having fun, and who am I to begrudge her that. If having another person join us is what she wants, then I’m happy for that to happen.

The way I see it is that sex is fun and feels good, so who am I to stop someone else from enjoying themselves.

My FB also looks so hot with another person, I feel blessed that we found one another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will look better in divorce court

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause can't beat watch u wife get fuck

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

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over a year ago

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like.

Says it better than I did. "

And saved me a lot of typing.

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By *unlovingx2Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"The ache in my balls in the lead up to a meet is difficult to describe but utterly addictive.

Seeing Laura comfortable and turned on with another guy, and loosing herself with him is such a mental overload there is jealousy, pride, happiness and loads of other emotions all happening at once.

In many ways the flirting beforehand and the coming together of me and her afterwards are actually better than seeing the actual sex that takes place between Laura and the guy.

It is a very complicated dynamic but if it works for you then you have a wonderful thing together. "
totally agree same for me

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By *unlovingx2Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"It's not naughty it's only religion that deems it so - it's just exciting and auxilarating. Just enjoy. "

Oh it is naughty and thats part of why it's fun. Nothing to do with religion (although I see where your coming from) and more to do with just not whats regarded as normal. Feeling jealous is natural and nothing to do with religion, but it also, if handled in the right way adds to the fun and feelings of this is naughty. It's a whole mish mash of feelings and you do kind of tote up all your feelings before deciding if its for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is why I love playing with couples

Hot thread this

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I need a guy who doesn't mind watching me get fucked by other guys ?????? "

They are here

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By *arkcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I do to it’s so good watching Rachael getting fucked by another man,it’s the excitement after arranging the meet helping to pick the outfit then taking her,watching as she takes off her Knickers to expose her cunt then as she orgasms with his penis then the sight of her well used gaping cunt perfect

Taking her home exposing her cunt and tasting it and telling me how much she enjoyed herself while I clean her cunt !!!!!!

Ps even better when Rachael goes on her own while sending the odd pic or video while I’m at home

Hope that helps .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

This is TOTALLY it!

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"I do to it’s so good watching Rachael getting fucked by another man,it’s the excitement after arranging the meet helping to pick the outfit then taking her,watching as she takes off her Knickers to expose her cunt then as she orgasms with his penis then the sight of her well used gaping cunt perfect

Taking her home exposing her cunt and tasting it and telling me how much she enjoyed herself while I clean her cunt !!!!!!

Ps even better when Rachael goes on her own while sending the odd pic or video while I’m at home

Hope that helps ........."
... where do i apply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

W says its like watching his favourite porn star live

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By *hyandtwistedCouple
over a year ago

loughborough

I don't like it, I Love it I couldn't tell you why seeing her being fucked is amazing and she has a couple of friends she is 'friendly' with and I enjoy her telling me about that as well

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"The same reason I love watching Si with other ladies,, its erotic and such a turn on x storm x "

yes me too. I love watching him experiencing pleasure. Come to realise it's the centre of all my fantasies rather than me getting pleasured

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? "

Why do you let other men fuck you while hubby watches?

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By *onny1208Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"The ache in my balls in the lead up to a meet is difficult to describe but utterly addictive.

Seeing Laura comfortable and turned on with another guy, and loosing herself with him is such a mental overload there is jealousy, pride, happiness and loads of other emotions all happening at once.

In many ways the flirting beforehand and the coming together of me and her afterwards are actually better than seeing the actual sex that takes place between Laura and the guy.

It is a very complicated dynamic but if it works for you then you have a wonderful thing together. "

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By *onny1208Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

All of the above ... We love it

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Saves them the job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they underestimate just how much WW squirts and the look of shock, surprise, amazement and fascination when she unloads all over them is just the best thing ever.

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I've always fantasised about Sara having sex with other guys so this year we have started meeting guys for a drink and then take them home and watch them fuck her. It's a horny experience watching a guy you have just met undress her and fuck her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching my wife get fucked, I love to join in more.

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By *heekioneMan
over a year ago

Finedon

As a single bloke I think it's a sign of a healthy relationship lol I guess that's why I am divorced.. lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s amazingly erotic to watch my wife be pleasured by another man and that there is ultimate trust in each other to allow it - Mrs loves watching me fuck other woman too for exactly the same reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband probably enjoys the flirting, teasing and the kissing the most. It just gets his heart racing and so turned on.

Also seeing me from a completely different angle, me feminine against a very masculine guy. It's drives him wild but it's very difficult to know what makes it such a turn on.

He would much rather watch me than play himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because he is slighly bend bi curious and not straight.. ...or maybe fab straight.."

Sounds like a crock of ****

You ever watched porn? I take it there was a male in that having sex with a woman... makes you bi also does it???

OP..... My fb enjoys watching me with another man/men as he says he enjoys seeing me in a state of heightened pleasure, much the same way as when he is going down on me, he finds that a massive turn on seeing/hearing how much I’m enjoying it.

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Flames here,

Compersion is one of those internet words that ticks the box for me.

It's seeing her pleasured, unleashing her horny self...

It's watching a real life porn film and my wife is the star...

I get to see things I wouldn't normally...

So many things

We are a hotwife couple...

As an aside - Definitely NOT humiliation, or submissiveness etc - Cuck is not our thing and they are miles apart.

And yeah - I am Bi - But I was Bi before I realised I was in to Hotwifing that's for sure....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flames here,

Compersion is one of those internet words that ticks the box for me.

It's seeing her pleasured, unleashing her horny self...

It's watching a real life porn film and my wife is the star...

I get to see things I wouldn't normally...

So many things

We are a hotwife couple...

As an aside - Definitely NOT humiliation, or submissiveness etc - Cuck is not our thing and they are miles apart.

And yeah - I am Bi - But I was Bi before I realised I was in to Hotwifing that's for sure....

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Completely my hubby is very dominant and doesn't like to be seen a cuck or have anything to do with being humiliated.

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

its just so horny watching a guy slide his cock in her

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By *ocknblondeCouple
over a year ago

Arundel

It’s so erotic watching someone else wanting what is ultimately yours, you have to be rock solid in your relationship.

Absolutely awesome watching her being kissed touched and turned on by another, and love to see how wet she gets

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "
sums it up not cuck or bi or anything else just fun

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Turns del on immensely to see me fucked by others...and we have the most amazing sex after and his orgasms are more intense

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's like watching your favourite porn only better as you join in

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By *ourlauraTV/TS
over a year ago

tidworth


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

completly agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like watching your favourite porn only better as you join in "

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By *ourlauraTV/TS
over a year ago

tidworth


"I need a guy who doesn't mind watching me get fucked by other guys ?????? "

some ones fishing

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By *f and bf xxxCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Matts only been there in person once and got to jel. But he loves getting vids an knowing I m on a meet his heart racing waiting for the text after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

OP..... My fb enjoys watching me with another man/men as he says he enjoys seeing me in a state of heightened pleasure, much the same way as when he is going down on me, he finds that a massive turn on seeing/hearing how much I’m enjoying it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it created an evolutionary advantage for his ancestors and therefore it is an inherited trait. "

How wrong can a person be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both love to see the other having a great time

Hence same room only for us ...

"

Exactly this.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Agree with most of the answers here.

To add my 2p... its fucking awesome and keeps our relationship exciting and fresh. Not sure why it particularly floats my boat but feels natural and not something struggle with.

I hazard to mention that its apparently a kink common to intelligent men.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had the opportunity when I was in a relationship, but if I am in one again I will definitely offer it to my partner.

Not because I would like to see her fucked, per se, but because I would love to give her something that is a rare experience for anyone: the feeling of being pleasured by multiple partners at the same time, with the men focused on pleasing her over and over again.

So to me, I guess it would depend on the meet. I wouldn't personally just bring in another guy to 'nail her and leave' - though I don't begrudge those who do exactly that. I would bring in another man and say, "let's make her head explode with orgasms", making her feel sexy and beautiful. If you love someone, how can you not wish that for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like watching your favourite porn only better as you join in "

That's how my husband has described it in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question is do you women enjoy fucking other men while your hubby watches?

Does it turn you on?

Do you solely do it to please your husbands?"

Can open, worms everywhere. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just love it don't know why but love to see her with male or female , love the noise, the pleasure on her face and theirs all while I just sit back and watch until I take over .

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Its just like watching your own private porn film where you can get to direct .it is awsome when you find a guy she really enjoys .wife gets so horny it great to fuck her after.it can lead to hours of non stop fun .sometimes she enjoys playing with fems after .been together 30 yrs and this has put a real spark back into our sex life .we only do it four or five times a year .as dont want to over do things .but also enjoy it at club when she gets to experience two or three new cocks.wish we had started a few years earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Mrs) I love watching, knowing how good it feels, my husband bringing pleasure to her. The noises, them sexy moans and you can hear how wet they get. I get turned on watching it and feeling it in my pussy with out being touched.

Last time I ended up sitting beside her with a doxy, I came and mr did fucking her. That was horny thinking we cam together but not fucking each other. Lucky I'm bi coz I gladly finished her off then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him "

Worms, worms I tell you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probs has somthing to do with all the porn he's watched!

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

The look of lust in her eyes!!

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By *ed PlanetCouple
over a year ago

Beautiful East Yorkshire


"Turns del on immensely to see me fucked by others...and we have the most amazing sex after and his orgasms are more intense "

Exactly how we are!

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him "

WTF !!!!

Del

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Just like watching live concert, I'm sure husbands like watching live and possibly interactive; porn with the wife as the main actress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people like watching porn?

It's like that, only much better

Great Analogy.... "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s so many reasons why I love watching my wife fuck with another guy. I’ve never been jealous and the love making between us after is amazing. I’m not in to cuckhold or stuff like that sometimes I’ll join in has a mmf other times I’ll just sit and watch her having fun. She also loves to watch me play.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"I need a guy who doesn't mind watching me get fucked by other guys ?????? "

Lol why wouldn't he want too see that..woooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nothing bi curious think about it you get to see your partner fully naked from a different point of view.

Seeing her enjoy herself is a bonus but a general turn on.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Turns del on immensely to see me fucked by others...and we have the most amazing sex after and his orgasms are more intense

Exactly how we are! "

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"So he can see how real men perform."

Wow! You’re a charmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a personal thing some like it others dont it must turn him on tho watching another guy fuck his Mrs knowing that she's enjoying it but will always come home with her hubby

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By *ddyansianCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I love to see Sian enjoy herself that moment she loses it her eyes roll back and lets out that guttural moan.

Nothing like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had the opportunity when I was in a relationship, but if I am in one again I will definitely offer it to my partner.

Not because I would like to see her fucked, per se, but because I would love to give her something that is a rare experience for anyone: the feeling of being pleasured by multiple partners at the same time, with the men focused on pleasing her over and over again.

So to me, I guess it would depend on the meet. I wouldn't personally just bring in another guy to 'nail her and leave' - though I don't begrudge those who do exactly that. I would bring in another man and say, "let's make her head explode with orgasms", making her feel sexy and beautiful. If you love someone, how can you not wish that for them?

"

You should be a master...

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

i just love that look on sweet face.but then i must be strange , as i love the sharing ..

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Pretty much all the posts are spot on.....

J loves sex. And I love seeing the lust in her facial expression, the moaning, hearing her get into the moment to become more demanding, and this potentially going on for hours with several guys. Sure keeps me hard the whole time!

Then the sex together talking about how naughty she's just been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m never sure it’s for my partner s benefit or mine although the sex afterwards together is always amazing!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my guy used to love to lie on his back and kiss me passionately as other guys fucked me to orgasm from behind. He said he would feel my kisses get "sloppy and loose" as i came and he would hold me up so another guy could fuck me. He said it was so very erotic!!

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath


"W says its like watching his favourite porn star live "

Love this!

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

I guess no one answer really covers it, all of the above are on the money tbf.

There's just nothing liking seeing your wife orgasm on anther cock or see her surrounded by men hard for her.

It's jut awesome or some other word they covers it better than that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"W says its like watching his favourite porn star live

Love this! "

Indeed x

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

When she looks up at you while she's is being pleasured just before she's about to explode , can't describe it really just a fantastic that's why we love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard to explain why but just to look into her eyes as she tries a new cock and see the lust and pleasure is enough for me ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? "

Imagine if you will that there is a porn star you find very attractive, and you're regularly searching her name for new scenes..... Now, imagine you have the pleasure of sleeping next to her every night, and knowing that all the naughty stuff you love seeing a woman do is something you get to watch in person. My other half is easily my favourite porn star these days, and I rarely use porn in general now. Not that it was ever excessive, but it was regular. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and as for all of the points before, if she didn't enjoy it, I wouldn't either. Seeing her actually having fun is as much a part of as being naughty

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it?

Imagine if you will that there is a porn star you find very attractive, and you're regularly searching her name for new scenes..... Now, imagine you have the pleasure of sleeping next to her every night, and knowing that all the naughty stuff you love seeing a woman do is something you get to watch in person. My other half is easily my favourite porn star these days, and I rarely use porn in general now. Not that it was ever excessive, but it was regular. Haha"

Too true. Porn all of a sudden seemed very tame once i'd watched the missus playing playing with others. Also, knowing that my filthy fantasies involving her have a strong chance of actually happening is an extra turn on that porn simply cannot compete with.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best

Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else

I love idea watching others play

Very naughty

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over a year ago


"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best

Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else

I love idea watching others play

Very naughty "

For me, I've come to terms with the best that I may not be best lay, may not have the best physique, and may not have the biggest dick of all of the guys she may sleep with.

Anyone who tells you there isn't an ounce of worry on this is either lying or I just don't understand them. But you have to look at it like this. If she sleeps with another guy with a an amazing body, a gorgeous face, a huge penis, who can make her cum in a way you can't and and makes more money than you, then there's a reason beyond the physical that you two are together. if she can still tell you you make her happy and You're who she wants to be with after all that, then you should feel amazing, and not inadequate.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

For us it is a bit like eating. We got out to eat occassionally, sometimes we have fantastic food and a great time, sometimes slightly less good; but both of us enjoy each others cooking way more. It is nice to have a bit of variety and a change, but eating at home is what we both ultimately, happily, return to

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

Ok that's easy, but you need to bear with me.

First, I think sexual pleasure is fundamental in humans, irrespective of love. It's just that sexual pleasure is complicated by love and lots of other things, most of which are the result of "morality". I can ignore all of those caveats and offer my wife pure sexual pleasure. I won't feel jealous. I won't go nuts. I don't want her to feel guilty. So, because of this, I think that it is a fantastic gift that I can give the woman I love; enjoy being fucked. Give in to it. I can allow you. It's a gift most men couldn't give you.

Of course she tells me no one is like me blah blah, but that's not the point. I'm like her favourite meal, maybe a roast dinner. I don't cease being her roast dinner just because she occasionally has a curry or take away or a pasta. And why shouldn't she have all those other lovely meals?

I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure. So I want her to understand she can enjoy all those things, guilt free, and it doesn't affect or detract from us.

So number one, it's a gift for the woman I love.

Every woman should be able to enjoy a long cock or thick cock or huge cock or someone who is awesome with their cock no matter the size. Enjoy their fingers, their tongue. I want her to have it all.

Second, she is the sexiest thing in the world for me. So what is hotter than seeing the sexiest thing in the world in ecstasy? It's the best porn ever. When I am making love to her or fucking her, I'm too close to see all the detail, see how beautiful she is in those moments. With someone else I can sit back and enjoy every bit of her beauty.

Third, she is far too moral and loyal, hung up on all this man-made morality! She feels guilt, shame, embarrassment, etc. She wants to tell me that I am the best ever. That's just crazy. She might think I'm good in bed, but there is no way I am the best in the world. It's like trying to convince yourself that you are the best golfer or painter or football player. I might be good, but some are much better! She feels guilty if a man feels too good, makes her feel too much ecstasy, as if it is a betrayal. I want her to have it all. And the mere fact that for her to enjoy herself, that her physical feelings have to be so strong that they totally over-ride her natural instincts, that is also incredibly hot. She doesn't want to enjoy this, but he or his cock is so good that she cannot help it.

It's about openness. I want her to be honest with me, tell me all her fantasies, ignore how guilty she may feel for having them, dismiss that entirely. Then I can allow her to have them, explore them, enjoy them.

Also, she's fuc£ing amazing. So sexy. her pussy is one of the seven wonders of the world. So when I am in her, I just think "every man should be able to feel this, just once!" I feel a bit smug too - because I have this every night.

Also, she doesn't think she is hot. And she doesn't believe me - I'm her husband so I have to say that. So when another man finds her hot, it makes her feel good about herself, makes her feel the way I want her to feel about herself.

So that's it really. Mostly selfless and because I love her. And that's why if we don't reciprocate I couldn't care less. I enjoy all this just too much to be worried about my own pleasure.

Not that I don't mind joining in...(:

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over a year ago


"Ok that's easy, but you need to bear with me.

First, I think sexual pleasure is fundamental in humans, irrespective of love. It's just that sexual pleasure is complicated by love and lots of other things, most of which are the result of "morality". I can ignore all of those caveats and offer my wife pure sexual pleasure. I won't feel jealous. I won't go nuts. I don't want her to feel guilty. So, because of this, I think that it is a fantastic gift that I can give the woman I love; enjoy being fucked. Give in to it. I can allow you. It's a gift most men couldn't give you.

Of course she tells me no one is like me blah blah, but that's not the point. I'm like her favourite meal, maybe a roast dinner. I don't cease being her roast dinner just because she occasionally has a curry or take away or a pasta. And why shouldn't she have all those other lovely meals?

I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure. So I want her to understand she can enjoy all those things, guilt free, and it doesn't affect or detract from us.

So number one, it's a gift for the woman I love.

Every woman should be able to enjoy a long cock or thick cock or huge cock or someone who is awesome with their cock no matter the size. Enjoy their fingers, their tongue. I want her to have it all.

Second, she is the sexiest thing in the world for me. So what is hotter than seeing the sexiest thing in the world in ecstasy? It's the best porn ever. When I am making love to her or fucking her, I'm too close to see all the detail, see how beautiful she is in those moments. With someone else I can sit back and enjoy every bit of her beauty.

Third, she is far too moral and loyal, hung up on all this man-made morality! She feels guilt, shame, embarrassment, etc. She wants to tell me that I am the best ever. That's just crazy. She might think I'm good in bed, but there is no way I am the best in the world. It's like trying to convince yourself that you are the best golfer or painter or football player. I might be good, but some are much better! She feels guilty if a man feels too good, makes her feel too much ecstasy, as if it is a betrayal. I want her to have it all. And the mere fact that for her to enjoy herself, that her physical feelings have to be so strong that they totally over-ride her natural instincts, that is also incredibly hot. She doesn't want to enjoy this, but he or his cock is so good that she cannot help it.

It's about openness. I want her to be honest with me, tell me all her fantasies, ignore how guilty she may feel for having them, dismiss that entirely. Then I can allow her to have them, explore them, enjoy them.

Also, she's fuc£ing amazing. So sexy. her pussy is one of the seven wonders of the world. So when I am in her, I just think "every man should be able to feel this, just once!" I feel a bit smug too - because I have this every night.

Also, she doesn't think she is hot. And she doesn't believe me - I'm her husband so I have to say that. So when another man finds her hot, it makes her feel good about herself, makes her feel the way I want her to feel about herself.

So that's it really. Mostly selfless and because I love her. And that's why if we don't reciprocate I couldn't care less. I enjoy all this just too much to be worried about my own pleasure.

Not that I don't mind joining in...(:"

Very, very well put.

The key line to me is,

"I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure."

This is love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok that's easy, but you need to bear with me.

First, I think sexual pleasure is fundamental in humans, irrespective of love. It's just that sexual pleasure is complicated by love and lots of other things, most of which are the result of "morality". I can ignore all of those caveats and offer my wife pure sexual pleasure. I won't feel jealous. I won't go nuts. I don't want her to feel guilty. So, because of this, I think that it is a fantastic gift that I can give the woman I love; enjoy being fucked. Give in to it. I can allow you. It's a gift most men couldn't give you.

Of course she tells me no one is like me blah blah, but that's not the point. I'm like her favourite meal, maybe a roast dinner. I don't cease being her roast dinner just because she occasionally has a curry or take away or a pasta. And why shouldn't she have all those other lovely meals?

I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure. So I want her to understand she can enjoy all those things, guilt free, and it doesn't affect or detract from us.

So number one, it's a gift for the woman I love.

Every woman should be able to enjoy a long cock or thick cock or huge cock or someone who is awesome with their cock no matter the size. Enjoy their fingers, their tongue. I want her to have it all.

Second, she is the sexiest thing in the world for me. So what is hotter than seeing the sexiest thing in the world in ecstasy? It's the best porn ever. When I am making love to her or fucking her, I'm too close to see all the detail, see how beautiful she is in those moments. With someone else I can sit back and enjoy every bit of her beauty.

Third, she is far too moral and loyal, hung up on all this man-made morality! She feels guilt, shame, embarrassment, etc. She wants to tell me that I am the best ever. That's just crazy. She might think I'm good in bed, but there is no way I am the best in the world. It's like trying to convince yourself that you are the best golfer or painter or football player. I might be good, but some are much better! She feels guilty if a man feels too good, makes her feel too much ecstasy, as if it is a betrayal. I want her to have it all. And the mere fact that for her to enjoy herself, that her physical feelings have to be so strong that they totally over-ride her natural instincts, that is also incredibly hot. She doesn't want to enjoy this, but he or his cock is so good that she cannot help it.

It's about openness. I want her to be honest with me, tell me all her fantasies, ignore how guilty she may feel for having them, dismiss that entirely. Then I can allow her to have them, explore them, enjoy them.

Also, she's fuc£ing amazing. So sexy. her pussy is one of the seven wonders of the world. So when I am in her, I just think "every man should be able to feel this, just once!" I feel a bit smug too - because I have this every night.

Also, she doesn't think she is hot. And she doesn't believe me - I'm her husband so I have to say that. So when another man finds her hot, it makes her feel good about herself, makes her feel the way I want her to feel about herself.

So that's it really. Mostly selfless and because I love her. And that's why if we don't reciprocate I couldn't care less. I enjoy all this just too much to be worried about my own pleasure.

Not that I don't mind joining in...(:"

Excellent, well said !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's because he loves the see what really turns her on and he can make a mental note of it for when they're alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? "

Some guys just get pleasure from seeing their partners enjoy them selves..

I know if I'm with a woman part of my enjoyment is knowing she is getting pleasure so it's the same just up a level or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its the naughty aspects of it all. The pleasure of a very horny lady being played with/enjoyed relentlessly.

Then left in a spent quivering mess on the bed, but with that naughty smile on her face afterwards. "

sounds like my hotel room.

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

So many kindred spirits

We love it for all the above reasons although sometimes listening can be just as thrilling.

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

It is the most erotic turn on I have ever experienced, Watching another man penetrate my lovely wife, and now we only meet black guys because the experience of seeing black skin against my very pale white wife is something you can't believe.

Beware if you try this...it's addictive

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Agree, it is very addictive, lol and also since we both love it. Long may it stay so.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Agree, it is very addictive, lol and also since we both love it. Long may it stay so."

Its very addictive as a single guy - hard to keep away from a lovely hotwife!

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"It is the most erotic turn on I have ever experienced, Watching another man penetrate my lovely wife, and now we only meet black guys because the experience of seeing black skin against my very pale white wife is something you can't believe.

Beware if you try this...it's addictive

"

Agreed. The beauty of the contrast of black on white is incomparable. And the fact that it is usually a BBC. That she is writhing on is just a bonus!

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It is the most erotic turn on I have ever experienced, Watching another man penetrate my lovely wife, and now we only meet black guys because the experience of seeing black skin against my very pale white wife is something you can't believe.

Beware if you try this...it's addictive

Agreed. The beauty of the contrast of black on white is incomparable. And the fact that it is usually a BBC. That she is writhing on is just a bonus!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ache in my balls in the lead up to a meet is difficult to describe but utterly addictive.

Seeing Laura comfortable and turned on with another guy, and loosing herself with him is such a mental overload there is jealousy, pride, happiness and loads of other emotions all happening at once.

In many ways the flirting beforehand and the coming together of me and her afterwards are actually better than seeing the actual sex that takes place between Laura and the guy.

It is a very complicated dynamic but if it works for you then you have a wonderful thing together. "

Agree ..but also seems so natural watch look on strangers face when he knows his pulled & damp patch on his boxers of pre cum then when he empties his load inside her ...afterwards when his gone & be alone with my wife the smell of anougher man on her make sure she dsnt shower till next day ...but historically other cultures have shared their wives for thousands of yrs the ancient Romans the Celts Persians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

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By *dge of HeavenMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I play with a few couples where the husbands watch. Bottom line is that I'm told it adds spice to their relationship and the men love to see their wives turned on and receiving pleasure. Simple really!

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By *dge of HeavenMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Well if you want to put that to the test Broken I have a wonderful, sexy lady I play with who would be interested in joining us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it very sexy and feel pride that another man wants to have my wife ,after dressing her in sexy lingerie ,thats me xx

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best

Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else

I love idea watching others play

Very naughty "

It's this mentality that's a bit annoying tbh, 'having better with somebody else' is just nonsense. It's not about that at all and often the sex between the couple is very good in the first place, it's 'an addition' to their sex life.

Pretty sure I'm like most of the guys on his thread and that it's a real buzz seeing your other half in such a way that most men never, ever will see, it's like (for me anyway) like an outer body experience and seeing how we have sex but from the third person perspective, seeing her in this way is impossible when it's just us. Also the things you didn't realise she does is also great to see. I never realised she smiles every time someone cums, like she's done a good job, or when she curls her toes at certain times, or how her back muscles contract, yes they do, lol, and there's so, so much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s the whole senario. I watch her bath, pamper herself and I help her get ready for a meeting by shaving her pussy for her. . I see her get sexily dressed in her sexy knickers and bra and nice clothes. Then with happy heart I see her out the door for another man to enjoy, to engage with her, to stimulate her and at the at the end of an evening to fuck her senseless, either in his car or bring her home and have her in our living room while I wait upstairs. She comes to me satisfied, happy, smelling of sweat, of another man, of sex and quite often his seed on her hot clammy body, sometimes spunk in her hair or on her face or on her tits. The anticipation of seeing her after a meet is overwhelming, I cant explain the rush, but it’s very real.

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best

Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else

I love idea watching others play

Very naughty

It's this mentality that's a bit annoying tbh, 'having better with somebody else' is just nonsense. It's not about that at all and often the sex between the couple is very good in the first place, it's 'an addition' to their sex life.

Pretty sure I'm like most of the guys on his thread and that it's a real buzz seeing your other half in such a way that most men never, ever will see, it's like (for me anyway) like an outer body experience and seeing how we have sex but from the third person perspective, seeing her in this way is impossible when it's just us. Also the things you didn't realise she does is also great to see. I never realised she smiles every time someone cums, like she's done a good job, or when she curls her toes at certain times, or how her back muscles contract, yes they do, lol, and there's so, so much more. "

Absolutely! Out of body experience is the way to describe it.

As for better with someone else - we’ll sex isn’t purely physical. I feel completely confident that no matter how good a guy makes Cleo feel, it’s never better than with me. Or, it’s not a threat. I am so secure in her that this is not a threat. At all.

If it were we wouldn’t do it.

So before you can even think about it, you need to be in that secure place. If you’re not, you’re not ready.

And the only assurance I have that it isn’t a threat, is what she tells me. I believe her. I trust her. So don’t think I feel inadequate and want to see someone who “properly” fucks her. It is something I don’t like about cuck porn - it’s all focused on her having something special she can’t with her partner.

I mean I could be deluded, but it’s a nice delusion. (:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way i see it when people ask myself why do we swing

I like to make my wife happy i like to know shes happy an safe why would i stop her from doing something she enjoys an wants to do

After each meet were both extra horny so it adds the extra spice to the sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like.

This well said"

Quite possibly the best analysis I've read.

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By *dirtydancersUKCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

Have to agree, completely hit yhe nail on the head, petfectly put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? "

Because it goes back to childhood and sharing your most prized possession with another male gives you a buzz inside... knowing that you've shared it, how good it is..but it's still yours to take back..

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best

Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else

I love idea watching others play

Very naughty

It's this mentality that's a bit annoying tbh, 'having better with somebody else' is just nonsense. It's not about that at all and often the sex between the couple is very good in the first place, it's 'an addition' to their sex life.

Pretty sure I'm like most of the guys on his thread and that it's a real buzz seeing your other half in such a way that most men never, ever will see, it's like (for me anyway) like an outer body experience and seeing how we have sex but from the third person perspective, seeing her in this way is impossible when it's just us. Also the things you didn't realise she does is also great to see. I never realised she smiles every time someone cums, like she's done a good job, or when she curls her toes at certain times, or how her back muscles contract, yes they do, lol, and there's so, so much more.

Absolutely! Out of body experience is the way to describe it.

As for better with someone else - we’ll sex isn’t purely physical. I feel completely confident that no matter how good a guy makes Cleo feel, it’s never better than with me. Or, it’s not a threat. I am so secure in her that this is not a threat. At all.

If it were we wouldn’t do it.

So before you can even think about it, you need to be in that secure place. If you’re not, you’re not ready.

And the only assurance I have that it isn’t a threat, is what she tells me. I believe her. I trust her. So don’t think I feel inadequate and want to see someone who “properly” fucks her. It is something I don’t like about cuck porn - it’s all focused on her having something special she can’t with her partner.

I mean I could be deluded, but it’s a nice delusion. (:"

Speaking my language, Sir.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

It means I get to go to bed earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? "

Maybe because it's she's so desirable but he's the one going home with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best

Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else

I love idea watching others play

Very naughty

It's this mentality that's a bit annoying tbh, 'having better with somebody else' is just nonsense. It's not about that at all and often the sex between the couple is very good in the first place, it's 'an addition' to their sex life.

Pretty sure I'm like most of the guys on his thread and that it's a real buzz seeing your other half in such a way that most men never, ever will see, it's like (for me anyway) like an outer body experience and seeing how we have sex but from the third person perspective, seeing her in this way is impossible when it's just us. Also the things you didn't realise she does is also great to see. I never realised she smiles every time someone cums, like she's done a good job, or when she curls her toes at certain times, or how her back muscles contract, yes they do, lol, and there's so, so much more.

Absolutely! Out of body experience is the way to describe it.

As for better with someone else - we’ll sex isn’t purely physical. I feel completely confident that no matter how good a guy makes Cleo feel, it’s never better than with me. Or, it’s not a threat. I am so secure in her that this is not a threat. At all.

If it were we wouldn’t do it.

So before you can even think about it, you need to be in that secure place. If you’re not, you’re not ready.

And the only assurance I have that it isn’t a threat, is what she tells me. I believe her. I trust her. So don’t think I feel inadequate and want to see someone who “properly” fucks her. It is something I don’t like about cuck porn - it’s all focused on her having something special she can’t with her partner.

I mean I could be deluded, but it’s a nice delusion. (:

Speaking my language, Sir. "

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

london

I will indulge in a wife scenario one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the most erotic turn on I have ever experienced, Watching another man penetrate my lovely wife, and now we only meet black guys because the experience of seeing black skin against my very pale white wife is something you can't believe.

Beware if you try this...it's addictive

"

I'm addicted to watch videos or looking at pictures of black on white

Mmmm

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Question is do you women enjoy fucking other men while your hubby watches?

Does it turn you on?

Do you solely do it to please your husbands?"

Can't speak for others but I love it and reading this thread has worked a treat

Madame Boo

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By *eemCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I love it, find it incredibly horny. I don't think Mrs Beem believes me though!

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By *IXED AND BBCCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

that's right.

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love it, find it incredibly horny. I don't think Mrs Beem believes me though! "

Absolutely right lol

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

Great thread.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Can't beat it, it's so horny seeing her face contort with pleasure and pulling the guy into her.

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By *IXED AND BBCCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

very well express ur views n ideas great n we love it thats the spirit for man to women xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy.

I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other.

I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship

Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy.

I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other.

I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship

Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star "

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy.

I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other.

I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship

Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star "

You stole this out of my head!! (:

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him "

Spare a thought for those who have to read your drivel and learn how to use punctuation marks

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. "

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy.

I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other.

I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship

Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star "

hit the nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been looking for a parter who is in to this would love a hot girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy.

I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other.

I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship

Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star "

And that's just one of the many reasons I absolutely love you completely, and fancy the pants off you too!

V x

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him "

Plain obvious why you have no veri’s you incredible stud!! (:

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By *hruster1969Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Want to do this

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By * inch dickMan
over a year ago

Tyne and wear

Would love the wife to come to a club but she wont.tryed everything.also dogging in tyne and wear.any advice

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By *ros and PsycheCouple
over a year ago

London


"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like.

This is TOTALLY it! "

"Seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate". Very well said!

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? "

I’d love to see that too. Mmm x

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? "

Is south Manchester close to Birmingham?

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By *ngelcandyWoman
over a year ago

wirral

This thread sums up exactly why me and my husband are looking to try this, hopefully it won’t be long till we do it’s a major turn on that needs to become a reality and reading all these posts makes us more certain that it’s for us! We have been together a long time and hubby just wants me to see me enjoy myself

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

It's wonderful i.love three sums. Have done a few and I am very envious of couples who have this dynamic

One couple told me their sex life improved way beyond what they had before. Enjoy relax and enjoy some more !!

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By *ueenofspades123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Manchester


"Ok that's easy, but you need to bear with me.

First, I think sexual pleasure is fundamental in humans, irrespective of love. It's just that sexual pleasure is complicated by love and lots of other things, most of which are the result of "morality". I can ignore all of those caveats and offer my wife pure sexual pleasure. I won't feel jealous. I won't go nuts. I don't want her to feel guilty. So, because of this, I think that it is a fantastic gift that I can give the woman I love; enjoy being fucked. Give in to it. I can allow you. It's a gift most men couldn't give you.

Of course she tells me no one is like me blah blah, but that's not the point. I'm like her favourite meal, maybe a roast dinner. I don't cease being her roast dinner just because she occasionally has a curry or take away or a pasta. And why shouldn't she have all those other lovely meals?

I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure. So I want her to understand she can enjoy all those things, guilt free, and it doesn't affect or detract from us.

So number one, it's a gift for the woman I love.

Every woman should be able to enjoy a long cock or thick cock or huge cock or someone who is awesome with their cock no matter the size. Enjoy their fingers, their tongue. I want her to have it all.

Second, she is the sexiest thing in the world for me. So what is hotter than seeing the sexiest thing in the world in ecstasy? It's the best porn ever. When I am making love to her or fucking her, I'm too close to see all the detail, see how beautiful she is in those moments. With someone else I can sit back and enjoy every bit of her beauty.

Third, she is far too moral and loyal, hung up on all this man-made morality! She feels guilt, shame, embarrassment, etc. She wants to tell me that I am the best ever. That's just crazy. She might think I'm good in bed, but there is no way I am the best in the world. It's like trying to convince yourself that you are the best golfer or painter or football player. I might be good, but some are much better! She feels guilty if a man feels too good, makes her feel too much ecstasy, as if it is a betrayal. I want her to have it all. And the mere fact that for her to enjoy herself, that her physical feelings have to be so strong that they totally over-ride her natural instincts, that is also incredibly hot. She doesn't want to enjoy this, but he or his cock is so good that she cannot help it.

It's about openness. I want her to be honest with me, tell me all her fantasies, ignore how guilty she may feel for having them, dismiss that entirely. Then I can allow her to have them, explore them, enjoy them.

Also, she's fuc£ing amazing. So sexy. her pussy is one of the seven wonders of the world. So when I am in her, I just think "every man should be able to feel this, just once!" I feel a bit smug too - because I have this every night.

Also, she doesn't think she is hot. And she doesn't believe me - I'm her husband so I have to say that. So when another man finds her hot, it makes her feel good about herself, makes her feel the way I want her to feel about herself.

So that's it really. Mostly selfless and because I love her. And that's why if we don't reciprocate I couldn't care less. I enjoy all this just too much to be worried about my own pleasure.

Not that I don't mind joining in...(:"

Explained really really well. Thanks. There have been lots of great messages on this thread, so thanks to everyone who has messaged. We have both read every one. We feel normal now, lucky even, not freaks! Thanks again to everyone who responded. XXxXX

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By *ueenofspades123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Manchester


"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him

Spare a thought for those who have to read your drivel and learn how to use punctuation marks "

Very well said OptimusD.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"It's not naughty it's only religion that deems it so - it's just exciting and auxilarating. Just enjoy. "

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