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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My friend is married and his wife is getting on well with a boy at work (19 years old) she gets on so well they have started messaging each other on Facebook and Snapchat. He told me he looked at her phone and seen the messages to which she showed him a pic of some toys he brought from love honey si he asked have you showed anyone the stuff he brought asking if he showed him she said she hasn't and wouldn't dare to think about doing anything like that with a 19 year old or cheat on him and she is really looking forward to the Christmas party which she was booking a room bit she said she is not staying do you think anything is going on? She keeps telling him she loves him and would never cheat. I think she is interested in him but i havent told him that o maybe wrong

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"My friend is married and his wife is getting on well with a boy at work (19 years old) she gets on so well they have started messaging each other on Facebook and Snapchat. He told me he looked at her phone and seen the messages to which she showed him a pic of some toys he brought from love honey si he asked have you showed anyone the stuff he brought asking if he showed him she said she hasn't and wouldn't dare to think about doing anything like that with a 19 year old or cheat on him and she is really looking forward to the Christmas party which she was booking a room bit she said she is not staying do you think anything is going on? She keeps telling him she loves him and would never cheat. I think she is interested in him but i havent told him that o maybe wrong "

Difficult to say, but sounds like there is definitely an attraction there. The thing is, if you work full time, you probably spend more time with your work colleagues, than your partner, so the availability is there.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"My friend is married and his wife is getting on well with a boy at work (19 years old) she gets on so well they have started messaging each other on Facebook and Snapchat. He told me he looked at her phone and seen the messages to which she showed him a pic of some toys he brought from love honey si he asked have you showed anyone the stuff he brought asking if he showed him she said she hasn't and wouldn't dare to think about doing anything like that with a 19 year old or cheat on him and she is really looking forward to the Christmas party which she was booking a room bit she said she is not staying do you think anything is going on? She keeps telling him she loves him and would never cheat. I think she is interested in him but i havent told him that o maybe wrong "
I can’t give advice to people I don’t know especially when the info comes from a third party. Advice for you though op is don’t interfere it’s not your circus and not your monkeys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea thats what i thought but she keeps telling him your being silly and that she would never do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My friend is married and his wife is getting on well with a boy at work (19 years old) she gets on so well they have started messaging each other on Facebook and Snapchat. He told me he looked at her phone and seen the messages to which she showed him a pic of some toys he brought from love honey si he asked have you showed anyone the stuff he brought asking if he showed him she said she hasn't and wouldn't dare to think about doing anything like that with a 19 year old or cheat on him and she is really looking forward to the Christmas party which she was booking a room bit she said she is not staying do you think anything is going on? She keeps telling him she loves him and would never cheat. I think she is interested in him but i havent told him that o maybe wrong I can’t give advice to people I don’t know especially when the info comes from a third party. Advice for you though op is don’t interfere it’s not your circus and not your monkeys. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know i shouldnt but he asked me so i dint know what to say or tell him tho

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Yea thats what i thought but she keeps telling him your being silly and that she would never do that "

People don't always own up to it and in most cases people don't normally cheat if they are happy in their marriage, so he needs a good long talk with her.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I know i shouldnt but he asked me so i dint know what to say or tell him tho "

I think its something you shouldn't get too involved in. It's tricky giving advise to friends sometimes, he has to sort it out with his wife.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you should tell your friend to stop asking other people what they think and own up to his wife that he looked at her phone.

Then they can get everything out in the open and talk to each other.

Is your friend entirely faithful himself? Does he have a profile on here or anything?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I think you should tell your friend to stop asking other people what they think and own up to his wife that he looked at her phone.

Then they can get everything out in the open and talk to each other.

Is your friend entirely faithful himself? Does he have a profile on here or anything?"

Sound advice

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I know i shouldnt but he asked me so i dint know what to say or tell him tho "

Well if you don't know what to say and you know him we complete strangers don't stand a cat in hells chance of advising him do we?

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