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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Ladies and gentlemen

I would like some advice, i am going to a club and really this is the first time. My first experiance was when we started swinging a long time ago and to be honest i think it scared the living daylights out of us as we havent been since.

Anyway i am eager to try it again and was wondering what to ware when i read the clubs advice it says dress as sexy as you dare. But what exactly do ladies ware, i dont want to go over dressed and i am a bit shy showing my lumps and bumps off.

Thanks for the advice in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to wear a nice corset or baby doll.... teamed up with something that I feel shows off my assets...

For me that is the theory of... Show of a fantastic cleavage and no one notices how many lumps and bumps you have other places..

If its a club that wants clothes I would have no idea as only been to ones where they have a towel policy...

So its been sexy underwear...

Just wear something your comfy in.. I find basques cover a multiude of sins..

Cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hi Ladies and gentlemen

I would like some advice, i am going to a club and really this is the first time. My first experiance was when we started swinging a long time ago and to be honest i think it scared the living daylights out of us as we havent been since.

Anyway i am eager to try it again and was wondering what to ware when i read the clubs advice it says dress as sexy as you dare. But what exactly do ladies ware, i dont want to go over dressed and i am a bit shy showing my lumps and bumps off.

Thanks for the advice in advance "

If corsets or underwear arent your thing,think sexy night out on the town...remember confidence is sexy,if you feel good u look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The club I use in Sheffield asks ladies to dress 'as sexily as they feel comfortable with' - for my first few visits, I wore a 'little black dress' with pretty underwear, stockings and stilettos. That was as sexy as I felt comfortable with, and some of the ladies wear something similar every visit.

As my confidence grew, I progressed through miniskirts/hotpants/see through tops to basques, and the key thing is.... at no point was I ever made to feel that I was wrongly dressed.

So you wear whatever you like, and remember that people who use swingers clubs are on the whole very accepting people, who won't care what you're wearing. And they're all normal people, with lumps and bumps of their own, who won't even notice yours!

Good luck and happy swinging x

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

^ +1

Just wear what you feel sexy in, no one will complain & by the end of the evening you probably wont be wearing it anyway

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By *tevelizCouple
over a year ago

northampton

depends where you are going, as some clubs will have a lot of people in towels. Whatever you feel go in will be good. As for the lumps and bumps, we all have them and i'm sure yours are great.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

i always feel more comfortable in dresses than just lingerie in clubs. sometimes its quite demure, sometimes its more skimpy and fitted. i work on the principle that if i'm comfortable then i'm confident, if i'm confident then i'm sexy. no-one in my local club has ever made me feel over-dressed or uncomfortable. the one hint is to make sure whatever you wear you can slip off what you want or need to if you decide to play

i had a dilemma with the beach party at chameleons as they have a lingerie or towel policy for ladies. i resolved it on by wearing a bikini and beach dress for the beach party, and since i had so much fun i stayed an extra day, i wore lingerie with a slip over the top the next night. again everyone was very welcoming and inclusive and the only comments i got on my apparel were compliments

have lots of fun at your first club night, wear something that you feel confident, comfortable and sexy in. i'm sure you'll be welcomed and included, we're a very sociable and inclusive bunch!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou everyone for your help and suggestions I feel a little more comfortable now knowing what to wear xxx

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