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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After being on here for a couple of months and also before then and having met a few nice ladies I'm now looking to go to a club,in the nwest,I've never been and looking for advice,I've seen posts on here moaning bout single guys at clubs and the way they are,and I dont want to go to one and feel like I'm gonna be put in the same category as im a friendly guy who likes to chat to people and I'm approachable ,just want some advice about how I go about it,thanks

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

read the site rules and adhere to them.

best advice possible...

then when there, make conversation and be polite, if speaking to a couple, engage both.

and don't follow people about.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

apologies site should read club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers dude,That's what I didn't want to do,follow ppl or look a spare part lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just have fun

dont follow people as will look stalker ish

just have fun chat and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers jacqs that's what I didn't want to do as I've seen posts bout guys following and don't want to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where are you going x

im usually on my own so i wonder about end up in the jacuzzi or the social area unless im playing

just take it easy have fun and have respect and should all fall into place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Il be honest jacqs I'm not really sure yet,there is a couple in the nwest and by you,want to find a friendly one,any advice on that?? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go to chams as its friendly and i love the place

thats the only place i go to x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What days you and what are the best days for a single guy etc ??? Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a look on the website

but they dont always let single guys have a membership straight away with the list building up

my advice go to the next social and see how you get on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the others, avoid the 'puppy factor' (men following round with tongue hanging out pricking their ears up everytime I go near a room door)

Smile, relax and just chat with people.

Treat it as a social and anything more a bonus not as 'I have paid for this so expect some!' (Which sadly many do.. male and female!!)

Partners is great for the wet area, and I am really looking forward to heading over there this weekend. I find chilling in the jacuzzi to be really good before engaging in some naughty fun.

I always go with an attitude of 'lets see' and am not then dissapointed :D

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Excellent advice.

Dont assume caus you have paid shed loads to get in that your gonna get some action.

Chat with both the ladies and then man if its a couple.

Introduce yourself with a smile and dont be pushy. chatting is great and once you have been chatting for a bit you can ask if they are looking to play this eve or have they got their eye on anyone....they may say yes, you.

Smell good and have condoms in your pocket. Dont follow people round.

Have fun and enjoy, it is hard to get it right but the same applies for ladies and men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go with the _iew of relaxing in the jacuzzi anything that else happens BONUS

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I never would assume that paying gets me action,I like the social side and like to chat aswell and defo no following ty for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I never would assume that paying gets me action,I like the social side and like to chat aswell and defo no following ty for the advice x"

just go have a good time x

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Good advice 1. If you go to chams, DONT wear the white towel !! It screams im just like ll the rest. start with the towel if you feel comfortable but take a decent pair of shorts when u feel comfortable to differentiate yoursel from the crowd. i know it sounds simple but it shows a little effort and thought especall to the ladies who appreciate that after all many of them dress very sexily while men can wear full dress but \can wear shorts or trunks

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

OOPS that should say CANT wear full dress lol

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Sexy your right. I prefer to see a man in tight fitting boxers rather than a towel as it does show some thought but I find the sight of a man in the towel provided good too. I am sure I look better in a corset and my sexy undies but then hope people find me attractive too in a towel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ty for the advice much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive introduced a few guys to Chams and my advice as always been just to go, be yourself, chat to people, and expect nothing. You will get on far better then. Im a single female and most often go on my own i love it xxx

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By *rSteve6Man
over a year ago

Bolton and Pattaya,Thailand

Like the OP, I'm a single guy and I've been going to Adam & Eves in Eccles for quite a few years now. Totally agree with all the previous comments about just being yourself and chatting to both couples and single ladies.I love the social aspect of the club and made some great friends and had plenty of fun,over the years.

I've discussed the question of guys following people around in the hope of getting a chance to play and everyone has said it's better to chat to singles first to build up some sort of relationship/respect.

Anyway,hope you enjoy your visit,wherever you go and have some success.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Dont stand round watching wanking under your towel

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Like the OP, I'm a single guy and I've been going to Adam & Eves in Eccles for quite a few years now. Totally agree with all the previous comments about just being yourself and chatting to both couples and single ladies.I love the social aspect of the club and made some great friends and had plenty of fun,over the years.

I've discussed the question of guys following people around in the hope of getting a chance to play and everyone has said it's better to chat to singles first to build up some sort of relationship/respect.

Anyway,hope you enjoy your visit,wherever you go and have some success. "

really good advice!!! even if the people you chat to don't wish to play it means you've made friends, will have a better visit as a result and you never know who they might introduce you to...

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

All good advice there mate.

Best clubs for single men

Chams

Liberty Elite on Friday

VA on Friday

Ourplace4fun

Partners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks peeps for all your advice,and don't worry not gonna be a towel wanker lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

if you're watching the activity in an open room from a non-intrusive distance and saving comments/cheerleading/heckling for later then a little self-love in appreciation is not a problem!

btw la chambre in sheffield is single male friendly and a fun social night out.

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