FabSwingers.com forum: Now what????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so here it is all you more experienced ones have prob come across this time and time again I however have not....

extremely hot guy messages me on here we got on after around 3 weeks of banter we move off here to what's app so now have each other's number his original profile said he had been a member for 9 months but had no veri or none published anyway

I log in and was quite shocked that he had deleated profile we carry on chatting but it's more an emotional relationship type of chat with the odd naughtiness thrown in ( he video called from work when on duty and played!!!) I loved it but refused to show face in uniform!!!! RED FLAG!!!!!!!

I then push for meeting... swerved with work duties!!!!

So I start digging like Mi5

Long story short he is married to a stunning looking lady with children and he has used his best mates pics!!!

Crushed as he was fit as fuck so basically Iv been cat fished!!!!

So got the fit ones real name and details so do I contact him to say look do what you will with the info but Iv just been chatting to your mate for a month thinking it's you he is using your pics

or wait for the one to ring then spill ??

I mean what the fuck?? What is the point?

As if I wouldn't notice

Not that he clearly has any intention of meeting feeling bit gutted but proud Iv Held back at involvement so anyway back to original question.... now what??? Lol thanks peeps xx

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Is his best friend available for you?

Sorry no help I know.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Block/forget

Lesson learnt

Move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not sure but lives in Wales so bit far for coffee!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So no teaching him a lesson ??

His poor wife has no clue I was thinking enough to scare him from doing it again? He also doesn't know a member of my family is married to someone in his work place and a close friend is a member at his rugby club!!! He would totally SHIT himself

His wife is stunning why risk it?? Would love to ask him!!

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Bloody nightmare - all lies and deceit, doesn't feel nice plus you mention on your profile that you don't play with married men. Does his friend know, I doubt it!

Block and move on otherwise there's going to be a lot of drama, do you need the hassle??

Good luck x

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

What a snake ! You're not the first to be catfished and won't be the last.

Personally I'd say something directly too him and then block and forget.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Move on, and learn for next time.

The other stuff is a can of worms, don't do any of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of real single guys on here. You were played! Move on and choose wiser next time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I don't and have tried to make it clear enough Iv had a few chance their arm!!

He no longer has a profile on here I honestly just don't get it... so would you tell the hot friend what he has done??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought I had learnt a lot of lessons lol never stop the education eh!!! Thanks

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Avoid the drama. Just delete everything about him and move on.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"No I don't and have tried to make it clear enough Iv had a few chance their arm!!

He no longer has a profile on here I honestly just don't get it... so would you tell the hot friend what he has done?? "

No! It's got disaster written all over it.

A dreamer strang you along. Learn the signs and enjoy finding real, fun people.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"No I don't and have tried to make it clear enough Iv had a few chance their arm!!

He no longer has a profile on here I honestly just don't get it... so would you tell the hot friend what he has done?? "

Nah, I'd just tell him that you found out and have told his mate.

Then block all contacts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Move on, and learn for next time.

The other stuff is a can of worms, don't do any of that."

I know Kinda thinking that really but think should learn his lesson his actual wife is gorgeous !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is his best friend available for you?

Sorry no help I know. "

He is seriously delicious !!!

First man to fully excite me in a LONG time!!!!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Move on, and learn for next time.

The other stuff is a can of worms, don't do any of that.

I know Kinda thinking that really but think should learn his lesson his actual wife is gorgeous !! "

It doesn't matter if she's ugly, cheating is wrong. Forget him and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I don't and have tried to make it clear enough Iv had a few chance their arm!!

He no longer has a profile on here I honestly just don't get it... so would you tell the hot friend what he has done??

No! It's got disaster written all over it.

A dreamer strang you along. Learn the signs and enjoy finding real, fun people."

Ok thanks he was !! Massively!!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that you should do what you plan to do anyway.

You know you're going to anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think that you should do what you plan to do anyway.

You know you're going to anyway "

lol I know you know me well Mr A76 but I won't now Iv just had your sound advice...Denise Roberts! Xx

It's done he is a prick

And as my other forum members suggest block and I will find a really nice one who deserves all I have to give! I will find a substitute!!

Thanks all xxx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It really does amaze me the lengths some people will go to!!

Block and forget about it OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It really does amaze me the lengths some people will go to!!

Block and forget about it OP

I know LL I promise I will... im already over it!!

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