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Where to cum when full swapping?

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By *uriousTwosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Sure this has been asked before...

We tend to soft swap mostly so this hasn't been an issue until now, but the boundaries are getting dropped as we go clubbing in Gran Canaria

Cautious of hygiene, so not keen on a bloke cumming inside of her as chance a condom could fail (last time we swapped using a condom we had a pregnancy scare which has made us a tad paranoid!)

She has an aversion to cum, she hates the stuff so BJ, facial, tit shot etc are a no from her

So, how do we politely handle this with another couple, or maybe in a group situation?

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By *tudog1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I would suggest you are completely up front about it and just cum straight out (no pun intended) and let whoever you are with know. Chances are they'll be wondering where to shoot it later if not anyway. So if all know right from the start it avoids any awkward situations later. I have been asked to withdraw before ejaculating whilst wearing a condom and had absolutely no issue with this as the Lady wishes should always be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of politeness I do it in the ashtray

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

Curtains.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Sure this has been asked before...

We tend to soft swap mostly so this hasn't been an issue until now, but the boundaries are getting dropped as we go clubbing in Gran Canaria

Cautious of hygiene, so not keen on a bloke cumming inside of her as chance a condom could fail (last time we swapped using a condom we had a pregnancy scare which has made us a tad paranoid!)

She has an aversion to cum, she hates the stuff so BJ, facial, tit shot etc are a no from her

So, how do we politely handle this with another couple, or maybe in a group situation?

"

just out of curiosity where do u cum then and is she not on any contraceptives either as a secondary percaution just trying to work out which would be best solution for u

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Sure this has been asked before...

We tend to soft swap mostly so this hasn't been an issue until now, but the boundaries are getting dropped as we go clubbing in Gran Canaria

Cautious of hygiene, so not keen on a bloke cumming inside of her as chance a condom could fail (last time we swapped using a condom we had a pregnancy scare which has made us a tad paranoid!)

She has an aversion to cum, she hates the stuff so BJ, facial, tit shot etc are a no from her

So, how do we politely handle this with another couple, or maybe in a group situation?

"

Simple , just supply a suitable receptacle for the guy in the couple you meet . Could be a sock , or a bowl of some sort ?

I do think it would be only fair to tell him first of your wife's aversion to cum though , just in case he gets carried away and misses the receptacle of choice .

Failing that , you could always ask the guy to leave the room at the point of orgasm ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few couples where the lady really doesn't like cum...

So I happily take both loads for her happy cali.. happy other lady. Happy guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal with condom no pregnancy risk then

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I would suggest you are completely up front about it and just cum straight out (no pun intended) and let whoever you are with know. Chances are they'll be wondering where to shoot it later if not anyway. So if all know right from the start it avoids any awkward situations later. I have been asked to withdraw before ejaculating whilst wearing a condom and had absolutely no issue with this as the Lady wishes should always be respected. "

Absolutely this

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

A jar of mayo?

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"A jar of mayo? "

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

Trim

On himself.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You can always go back to own partners to finish. Some people do that.

But as another poster commented, are you without contraception except for condoms? That might need thinking about anyway.

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"Out of politeness I do it in the ashtray "

^^ this response just made me proper laugh out loud

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"Out of politeness I do it in the ashtray

^^ this response just made me proper laugh out loud "

Me too. That's the funniest thing I've seen all day

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Carpet ! Then rub it in with his 120 quid trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't come in the condom inside you, can't come on you! Jesus it's getting complicated, maybe tell whoever you are playing with all of this and get the guy to come on his wife instead, personally I love it sprayed all over me and then rubbing it in body to body with the other lady mmmm

Coco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a lady that following her hysterectomy developed an allergy to cum. Her solution was condoms and a gentle reminder that I was to deal with things myself later.

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By *uriousTwosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We have met a few couples where the lady really doesn't like cum...

So I happily take both loads for her happy cali.. happy other lady. Happy guys x"

This is definitely the best solution

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"how do we politely handle this with another couple, or maybe in a group situation?

"

Agree with those who've said to make it part of the quick 'expectations chat' you have before the play.

Me? I've no such aversions so leave it up the guy/s which bit of skin is best to leave it on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have met a few couples where the lady really doesn't like cum...

So I happily take both loads for her happy cali.. happy other lady. Happy guys x

This is definitely the best solution "
its fun... and takes the pressure off the other lady. .. although my preference is a lady that likes to share but this scenario is my 2nd favourite x

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

In my mouth.

Yum Yum.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

Ive used technique of taking his cock in my hand, with asking to know when hes nearing, then finish with my hand and near/as he cums, put the other lightly on top of his cock, cupped over the tip, catching his cum but also gently wrapped round the top n shaft, can give a different sensation..

Some guys love it. For those who dont.,..well, no mess so still fun for both!

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By *iptopMan
over a year ago

north of newcastle


"Out of politeness I do it in the ashtray "

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

If I am correct OP the missus is going to use condoms but no other protection and is worried that the condom will fail shortly before or when the lucky fella cums (be that in a ashtray or up the holiday apartments drapes).

What about during and she gets pregnant from the sperm in his precum? Perhaps it would be safer if she doesn't swap at all?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Almost always internals when we swing. She loves the feel of cocks pulsing as they cum, and isn't worried about condoms splitting at all.

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By *uriousTwosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We're ok swapping, use the coil, but want to minimise STI risks. Feedback so far suggests it wouldn't be received as rude to go back to own partners for the pop-shot x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP As you say your partner has an aversion to cum I am curious to hear your answer to the question someone asked previously in this thread, where do you cum?

Sally

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By *orovoyeurMan
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Anal with condom no pregnancy risk then "

I think I'm in love

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Anal with condom no pregnancy risk then "

I like your thinking

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork


"Anal with condom no pregnancy risk then "

Ultra hot but wud have always been worried about leakage (for her of course)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too complicated. He should just do it over the hubbys face, all criteria fulfilled then

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland


"Way too complicated. He should just do it over the hubbys face, all criteria fulfilled then "

Whilst he is underneath her, that way she won’t see or smell it either!

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By *LLY69Man
over a year ago

Gorey


"Anal with condom no pregnancy risk then "

Spot on ,very sexy profile pics mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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