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Is it better to build up a rapor

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like snowballing but when I say straight away I am always met with silence after exchanging messages or no.

Any help will be great thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steaming in with your sexual preferences and putting it out there straight away may seem a bit forward.

Some people like a build up and a bit of rapport before turning a conversation towards sex.

Lead towards it, rather than jumping straight in may help.

There again I never talk about sex as I'm a stick in the mud who lacks imagination so take any advice from me with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Steaming in with your sexual preferences and putting it out there straight away may seem a bit forward.

Some people like a build up and a bit of rapport before turning a conversation towards sex.

Lead towards it, rather than jumping straight in may help.

There again I never talk about sex as I'm a stick in the mud who lacks imagination so take any advice from me with a pinch of salt."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like snowballing but when I say straight away I am always met with silence after exchanging messages or no.

Any help will be great thanks "

You're joking right? You actually think thats a great opener? Aged 38?

Have a bit of klass man!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like snowballing but when I say straight away I am always met with silence after exchanging messages or no.

Any help will be great thanks

You're joking right? You actually think thats a great opener? Aged 38?

Have a bit of klass man!!"

Never said it was my opener.i alway go with hi. but thankyou for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like snowballing but when I say straight away I am always met with silence after exchanging messages or no.

Any help will be great thanks

You're joking right? You actually think thats a great opener? Aged 38?

Have a bit of klass man!!

Never said it was my opener.i alway go with hi. but thankyou for your help"

Oh, perhaps i read your OP wrongly

" hi, I'm into snowballing" will make all the difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like snowballing but when I say straight away I am always met with silence after exchanging messages or no.

Any help will be great thanks

You're joking right? You actually think thats a great opener? Aged 38?

Have a bit of klass man!!

Never said it was my opener.i alway go with hi. but thankyou for your help

Oh, perhaps i read your OP wrongly

" hi, I'm into snowballing" will make all the difference"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

How soon do you introduce your sexual interests then OP?

Personally I won't go there on anything more than a general level until I'm fairly sure I want to be meeting the person I'm talking to which is after a rapport and connection has been built.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

ERM what's snowballing please?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"ERM what's snowballing please?"

Swapping cum orally by kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to build up a rapport rather than a rapor...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Methinks OP is on a wind up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How soon do you introduce your sexual interests then OP?

Personally I won't go there on anything more than a general level until I'm fairly sure I want to be meeting the person I'm talking to which is after a rapport and connection has been built."
Yeah I have done in the past but a part of me doesn't want to waste their time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to delete messages that detail sexual preferences straight away, I know we're all on a sex site and here to satisfy our own requirements but you wouldn't approach a woman in a bar saying you were into snowballing and then expect her to continue chatting to you, so don't expect it on here.

Chat to people, get a connection going and then if you think it may lead to a meet you then discuss your sexual likes and dislikes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"How soon do you introduce your sexual interests then OP?

Personally I won't go there on anything more than a general level until I'm fairly sure I want to be meeting the person I'm talking to which is after a rapport and connection has been built.Yeah I have done in the past but a part of me doesn't want to waste their time "

Why not put it in your profile (know you already kind of have it covered but perhaps make it clearer that it's an interest) that way people can see it, and make a decision on it, without you having to introduce it from the off in a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex talk from the beginning is like trying to start an old car on a snowy day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, liking something doesn't mean I'll do it with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex talk from the beginning is like trying to start an old car on a snowy day. "
I like this it's true it is a bit uncouth. I wouldn't jump straight into it but say it's what I am. Interested in in the first few. But I do like the old car bit

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Old cars need hand cranking to start them off.

Sally

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not keen on messages that get naughty immediately tbh,yes you should get to know someone a bit before launching into the dirty talk etc

.miss

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