FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Cyber

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??"

It's not proper cheating but if you have cyber sex without you partner knowing it is a bit iffy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??"

Good question, I'd say if it's with a regular cyber partner then YES.

What ever attention you give to a cyber partner detracts from what you give to your actual partner.

I think I could forgive a partner a 'one night fumble' I really would never forgive an 'attachement' to another of any kind.

If it's with different cyber partners every time I'd say it's like serial shagging. The cyberist is getting something from it and it doesn's ADD or SAVE a relationship in any way.

To be fair if it's regular ... check out the relationship. I do know people who have split over it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??"

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays."

Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter?? "

Aren't the stars lovely n twinkly

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter??

Aren't the stars lovely n twinkly "

its cloudy here, cant see the stars

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter?? "

He's a peanut farmer.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter??

He's a peanut farmer."

JUST a peanut farmer ? ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays."

Does that mean you think its just a bit of fun and nothing to worry about??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Does that mean you think its just a bit of fun and nothing to worry about??"

I would say if you partner knows it is just a bit of fun. The danger may be you start to really like the other person. They press all the right buttons verbally so to speak and get you really hot. You end up thinking wow if this person is that good with words I wonder how good they are for real.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cite6662002Couple
over a year ago

glos

i have see you in the cam room

mmmmmmmmmmmm

cant help but have a wank

cyber sex is is not like having affair

its just good fun for all

oooo shit got to go wife just got home

lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter??

He's a peanut farmer.

JUST a peanut farmer ? ??"

Of course not. Nobody is JUST a peanut farmer

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Does that mean you think its just a bit of fun and nothing to worry about??"

That would be passing a moral judgement on others' behaviour. I don't do moral judgements where consenting adults are concerned.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??

If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.

Does that mean you think its just a bit of fun and nothing to worry about??

That would be passing a moral judgement on others' behaviour. I don't do moral judgements where consenting adults are concerned."

As long as ALL parties are consenting Jim but as the OP asked if it can be held akin to an affair I'd assumed that their is a deceived partner somewhere.

Is he an M n S peanut farmer then ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I'm not in favour of deception full stop but I suppose that's tantamount to a moral judgement

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not in favour of deception full stop but I suppose that's tantamount to a moral judgement "

Does that mean you think cyber sex is deceptiful??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how horny she is lol....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how horny she is lol....

"

Jim ..... she ? Now ya tell me!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cyber sex with another person when you are taken is currently seen as the most common form of unfaithfulness these days. there was an article in the news about it. people who do it regularly with the same people think its "okay and not really cheating", but a poll showed 95% of people thought it was just as bad as cheating in the flesh.

also to have erotic cyber that turns both people on means you have made a connection that should be directed at your partner

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cyber sex with another person when you are taken is currently seen as the most common form of unfaithfulness these days. there was an article in the news about it. people who do it regularly with the same people think its "okay and not really cheating", but a poll showed 95% of people thought it was just as bad as cheating in the flesh.

also to have erotic cyber that turns both people on means you have made a connection that should be directed at your partner"

Correct! and it's not even half the fun ... Fnnnarrr x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too right!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your comments. I was suprised to see there is an article where 95% saw cyber sex just as bad as cheating in the flesh.

Must admit, in the chat room when on cam, there are certain individuals that turn me on more than others - just the way "they say things" can have an effect on me, even if their cam is off and they are watching. However, someone could say nearly the same thing but in a different way and I could be completely turned off and they could be drop dead georgeous. I am rambling now lol. But thanks anyway xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bit of cyber sex but it is rare to get a man who is good at it. After reading the stories in the Stories and Fantasies section I think I may have spotted someobdy who may be good at it lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top