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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fabswingers Etiquette (OR how I learned to stop bitching, relax and enjoy it!)

Dont know if anyone has ever compiled a list of etiquette tips, do's and don'ts etc. but if not, it maybe fun for everyone to feed their best ones into a thread and then I would be happy to compile them all into a single post.

So many people have little gems of info and suggestions - it could cover profiles, meets, emails, photos, forum postings etc.

Just a thought - if its been done before, just ignore me and go about you business! If not, post away with your handy hints and tips!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There's been a few threads about it but I am sure people new to the forum would be happy to read or join in. It will eb a bit quiet today, what with half the ladies at Chameleons.

My top tip is:

No means no! Whether it is on here via messages and chat, or at a social, or at a proper meet or club, if the person says no, stop doing what you are doing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect for others and good manors.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Respect for others and good manors. "

You expect large houses while swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respect for others and good manors. "

I like a nice manor, specially if its got servants and a nice bentley with it

honesty openness and respect are my faves

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh yeah... as are sincerity tact diplomacy and discretion

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A skillfully aimed cum shot can be a useful tallent to learn, theres nothing worse than pulling out to cum on a ladys arse back or pussy and accidentally letting it fly over her back and onto her husbands stomach while hes getting a blow job. Unless of course hes into that in which case, fire away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging should be fun...theres no rules, except to do things the way you like to do them...never be pressured or overly compromise to others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enjoy and go with the flow and be relaxed!!

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We put a fair few in our book, especially around meeting over the internet.

But we mainly cover info and advice on clubbing more than anything.

Enjoy yourself, would always be the bottom line, followed closely by 'not at the expense of others or your partners feelings...'

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Treat others as you wud be treated.

And remember,its just sex!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Read the full profile, craft a message that sells you only if you meet what the other is looking for.

And don't expect a reply, it is a bonus when you get one.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

As a single female, you will get an avalanche of mail, never lose sight of the fact that all females do...never start to belief the hype.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I'm taking my secrets to the grave

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"A skillfully aimed cum shot can be a useful tallent to learn, theres nothing worse than pulling out to cum on a ladys arse back or pussy and accidentally letting it fly over her back and onto her husbands stomach while hes getting a blow job. Unless of course hes into that in which case, fire away "

And if you have a poor aim a few tips on how to remove spunk stains from someone else's sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No willy wipeing on the curtains

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By *YLINDERCouple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

we females do have brains to decide when we want meets pushy men are such a turnoff and will get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single female, you will get an avalanche of mail, never lose sight of the fact that all females do...never start to belief the hype."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the full profile, craft a message that sells you only if you meet what the other is looking for.

And don't expect a reply, it is a bonus when you get one."

Thats a good one, if the couple want a bi male and want to see a pic, then don't reply if your straight and have no pics Its no supprise your message gets deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one, if someone replies with a thanks but no thanks, accept it graciuosly. If you ask why not, then don't be suppried if you get a honest reply

Thats for personal experience, we usually reply with the 'thanks but no thanks' message, but if its carries on after that we can get a little too honest.

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Yup, we compiled rather alot of advice on Etiquette in our book :O)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non pushy guys are getting the most action

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Access to a washroom to wash hands between partners

what's the use of condoms if you are going to swap fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another one, if someone replies with a thanks but no thanks, accept it graciuosly. If you ask why not, then don't be suppried if you get a honest reply

Thats for personal experience, we usually reply with the 'thanks but no thanks' message, but if its carries on after that we can get a little too honest."

Isn't funny how people still try and change you mind

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