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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having reviewed my profile, I realise I haven't given any indication of the sort of women I like.

Therein lies my problem.

I am happy to chat and get on with any lady, irrespective of age, creed, sexual preferences, colour of eyes or nationality. I do have an age guide, due to the fact that ladies significantly younger or older than I may not share the same life experiences as I do, but I don't filter.

Is an open arms policy seen as welcoming or just desperate?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Having reviewed my profile, I realise I haven't given any indication of the sort of women I like.

Therein lies my problem.

I am happy to chat and get on with any lady, irrespective of age, creed, sexual preferences, colour of eyes or nationality. I do have an age guide, due to the fact that ladies significantly younger or older than I may not share the same life experiences as I do, but I don't filter.

Is an open arms policy seen as welcoming or just desperate?"

Probably seen as desperate. None the less I don't have an age restriction on who can message me. I have mentioned it on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why anyone would see it as desperate. Not everyone has very specific requirements.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Having reviewed my profile, I realise I haven't given any indication of the sort of women I like.

Therein lies my problem.

I am happy to chat and get on with any lady, irrespective of age, creed, sexual preferences, colour of eyes or nationality. I do have an age guide, due to the fact that ladies significantly younger or older than I may not share the same life experiences as I do, but I don't filter.

Is an open arms policy seen as welcoming or just desperate?"

I think anyone who views being open minded as desperate isn't worth getting to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not desperate at all mate, I wouldn't put restrictions on who I would be friends with, or speak to, so why should swinging be any different. I understand some people might be looking for certain things, but ill speak to anybody to everybody as long as they hold a decent conversation. Good sex is as much in the mind as the body, age means nothing.(as long as its above the legal requirments)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Within certain limits I'm not bothered by looks or size but I do have limits so I would never say that those things are irrelevant to me. I think there's a difference between being open minded and being willing to fuck anyone at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a prefernce. There's no set tick list of must haves. I wouldn't ever read it as desperate.

There are certains things I prefer over others, but generally I'll go off the tone of profile and pics. And messages, if they get that far.

Unless people are here for something very specific, I'd rather learn a little about them from their profile, not compare myself to a list of wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is lovely OP, cheerful & chatty, nice to read. The only point I'd like to raise is how can you prefer Ace cafe to Costa ?lol

Ax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see that people will meet ages 18-99 I think 'any hole is a goal'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have updated my profile to say I'm an equal oportunities type of guy.

However age and gender stipulations still apply.

Thank you all for your thoughts so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met couples and singles of all ages and all sizes and I'm still happy to chat with anyone. I am back on the site after an 18 month sabbatical and have stated that I would prefer to play with girls that are petite, tall, small breasted or curvy girls as long as they have more than one curve.

Be interesting to see how I get on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have updated my profile to say I'm an equal oportunities type of guy.

However age and gender stipulations still apply.

Thank you all for your thoughts so far."

It's a nice insight.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

OP everyone has their own preferences, and most people respect them. Yours do not make you sound desperate, and your profile is quite refreshing.

Good luck out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the best profile text I have ever read.

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