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By *kin Bohner OP   Man
over a year ago

derby

Many people (according to profiles) will not meet unverified folk... how do I get verified if no one will meet me even for a coffee?

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

if you webcam or speak to someone on fone u can get verified

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By *kin Bohner OP   Man
over a year ago

derby

Happy to do either but cant even get that far lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend a social event to get yourself known etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there is a big party at the Chameleons club in Darlaston this Sunday, in the theme of a Beach Party. Lots of forums regulars will be there, myself included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are just as many who don't hold any value with verifications you just need to find them .

Good luck x

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By *kin Bohner OP   Man
over a year ago

derby

I may be going to Chams tonight, I'll think about tomorrow. Is it a day time event?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may be going to Chams tonight, I'll think about tomorrow. Is it a day time event? "

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All day event tomorrow.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I thought Chams was couples only on saturdays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought Chams was couples only on saturdays."

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Single gents are allowed in on Saturday from 12:00h onwards, however, they need to leave by 19:30h.

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By *kin Bohner OP   Man
over a year ago

derby


"I thought Chams was couples only on saturdays."

Chams is couples only after 1930... I do have a 'friend' that I go with but she is strictly vanilla... I need a little more spice, and yes she knows that.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

If you are going to chams,get verified there,most people we meet are on fab,ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been informed by one of my playmates that he received PMs from peeps after posting to say he may be joining us in the Beach Party thread!

Another indication that social events may help to improve one's chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many people (according to profiles) will not meet unverified folk... how do I get verified if no one will meet me even for a coffee? "

We take no notice of verifications by other people and don't understand why some people do (unless they know the verifiers personally )

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet."
if they dont turn up just report there profile.

i would like to be verified to prove to people i am genuine - some dont like it that is there choice.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet.if they dont turn up just report there profile.

i would like to be verified to prove to people i am genuine - some dont like it that is there choice.

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And what will reporting there profile do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet."

equally just because someone has veries for turning up to some meets doesn't mean they turn up to all arranged meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree just because someone is verified is no sure fire thing they will turn up

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet.

equally just because someone has veries for turning up to some meets doesn't mean they turn up to all arranged meets"

That's right.. But if it was a social then it's proven who they are and for me, that is good enough for a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam verification's can show that, if it's a couple that both are actively involved, not where one is pretending or pressuring their partner to swing.

It also shows if their photographs are up to date.

I've heard about folk meeting up with others only to find that the photos used are either 10 years old or of a completely different person.

From people I have talked to here on this site, verification's aren't always honestly given & some people aren't reported when really they should be.

There are rotten apples in every barrel.

Some of us aren't really interested in going to clubs or socials.

If we have arranged to meet up with someone we have ALWAYS shown up. In our experience it's others (including those that are verified in person) that have let us down & been a no show.

Please don't tar everyone with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i think verifications are aload of tosh

i have met people with no verifications and had a great time and

i have met people with verifications and was cancelled 10 mins before a meet

so its up to you how things are done

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Agreed. Treat potential meets with an open mind and take people on face value. I don't take any notice whatsoever of veris and don't have them on my profile.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Can't really see the point in them either. Really easy to fake.

The only veri we put much faith in is the site one but even thats easy enough to get round if you really wanted to.

Personnaly we would like to see the site one expire say every 3 months and have to be renewed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i need someone to see me ill go into the chatroom or phone them

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