FabSwingers.com forum: Am I really....

By *r on the Edge OP Man
over a year ago

accrington

.....so un-meetable?

So I've been here for a short time in comparison to many, but I have tried to write an appealing profile, added pics, banter in the forums, appreciate the mass numbers of sgl guys and unbalanced ratios, but I am getting very few replies, I try to script a message based on there profile mixed with what I'm looking for, the couple of people I have managed to chat with have said they would meet but then when I try to arrange with them they go silent?

I am in the process of lining up my first club visit.

Wondered if you guys would shed some light on my profile if you wouldn't mind?

TIA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile reads ok - be better once you have done the club and got a veri maybe -

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I ignore profiles with non location locations

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By *r on the Edge OP Man
over a year ago

accrington

"I ignore profiles with non location locations

Changed

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I ignore profiles with non location locations

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A mint detail but thanks

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Looking at the pics it seems you haven't changed your pants for 3 days.

Sally

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By *r.PringleMan
over a year ago

Bradford

As a single gent who is new to the scene. One bit of advice I was given when I asked for advice and comments on my profile was that I should have face pics as women like to see who they might be talking to or eventually meeting. All other pics have been set to friends only.

I hope this has been helpful, and once you have been to a club and other couples and singles verify that you are genuine you may find that you will get a better response in the future. Just remember it takes time, don't expect things to happen overnight.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Pictures are ok (in they are not cock) but a little unimaginative perhaps.

The narrative read imho as if you wrote it then tagged on another bit later. Misses on flow and seems to repeat.

Other than that... It's better than a lot I've "read

Patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at the pics it seems you haven't changed your pants for 3 days.

Sally"

Come on people that was funny !!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at the pics it seems you haven't changed your pants for 3 days.

Sally

Come on people that was funny !!?"

True too

. Would also agree that your profile text repeats itself, might be worth a bit of editing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely some more photos would be good all a bit boring which didn't give me the encouragement to read the profile sorry . Mrs c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....so un-meetable?

I am in the process of lining up my first club visit.

Wondered if you guys would shed some light on my profile if you wouldn't mind?

TIA

I liked your profile, nice pix and good in depth text. I am clear about what you want and don't want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....so un-meetable?

I am in the process of lining up my first club visit.

Wondered if you guys would shed some light on my profile if you wouldn't mind?

TIA

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soon as I read you travel with work i stopped reading a lot if wemon want regular meets not just when you are around with work xx female replying xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like your profile, although a bit more imagination in the pics would be good. I totally disagree with PPs comment about face pics needing to be public though. Available yes, public no. There's a counter argument too that putting face pics up isn't very discreet and if people who are looking at you are hot on discretion they may be put off meeting someone who is less concerned about privacy.

However for us the fact you are trying to for meets in around work travel would be a straight no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No disrespect, but your photos are not really inspiring. A few camera selfies taken at the same angle.

People tend to look at your photos first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice here though you cannot please everyone and you only need to please those who you could possibly meet.

From this advice, i see that my photos all look similar.

That will be a struggle as i always take pics the same way.

I've just done a search on men's profiles and lots of them with verified meets are only showing cock pics. They aren't impressive cocks either. Whats that all about?

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By *r on the Edge OP Man
over a year ago

accrington

All comments much appreciated, I'll start to make some changes thanks

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