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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have gone for the honest approach and been open and explained myself well (i think.) I have pics with face ones on request im not hiding. I get a lot of looks and messages from guys and thats fine!! But i do like woman and am struggling to get any female attention!!! What am i doing wrong

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By *TheBoneMan
over a year ago

Bury, Lancashire

Well if you cant accom and cant travel how they meant to arrange a meet

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone

It's a matter of numbers.

There are thousands of single men, and a few thousand couples with only a few hundred single women.

As a lone woman, I am not looking for single men, (and I know I am not alone in that position), I already have enough in my list who I trust.

You may need to make the first move.

Get chatting on here it helps us women find someone who interests us.

Hope this helps a bit.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your profile name indicates u r shy. I like my men to be confident

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good advice and glady taken thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops i didnt mean no on both and hadn't noticed!! Knew rhis was a good idea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think you are doing something wrong? There are too many men to go round on a Fab. It's mathematically impossible (or certainly unrealistic) for all men to get a meet. However if you want to improve your chances you should scrap the photos you have chosen as they are unflattering, and choose photos that show you in a more flattering light (doesn't have to be naked). And what on earth would possess you to tell everybody you don't have a big cock? If I fancy a man I'll enjoy his cock whatever size. But if you tell me it's small before I gave a chance to fancy him, then the damage is done.

Mrs

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

It's just a numbers game mate, and unfortunately you are one of a huge number, chasing a very small number!

Grow a thick skin, absorb rejection, and gradually block all the profiles who either don't match what you are looking for, or those too busy to reply to you and straight delete your message. This will eventually leave you with a small number of 'potentials', who you can concentrate on.

Don't put any hopes on meeting someone from the forums, as I have been a member in here for 5 years now, post in threads daily, and have yet to meet anyone as a direct result of any interaction in the forums. Just use them for advice and fun.

Best piece of advice; look at some of the 'successful' male profiles in here, and try to emulate how they market themselves.

Good luck

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I think showing yr cock more than once and flashing yr ass is likely to attract more men than women.

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Revamp the profile and good luck fella..

If all else fails, I too live in Bristol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you think you are doing something wrong? There are too many men to go round on a Fab. It's mathematically impossible (or certainly unrealistic) for all men to get a meet. However if you want to improve your chances you should scrap the photos you have chosen as they are unflattering, and choose photos that show you in a more flattering light (doesn't have to be naked). And what on earth would possess you to tell everybody you don't have a big cock? If I fancy a man I'll enjoy his cock whatever size. But if you tell me it's small before I gave a chance to fancy him, then the damage is done.

Mrs"

Okay I can actually see the point here!! Will look at the photos and see how to improve on that!! Change the wording in the profile as well, I do have a "to honest" issue which does haunt me lol!! Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's just a numbers game mate, and unfortunately you are one of a huge number, chasing a very small number!

Grow a thick skin, absorb rejection, and gradually block all the profiles who either don't match what you are looking for, or those too busy to reply to you and straight delete your message. This will eventually leave you with a small number of 'potentials', who you can concentrate on.

Don't put any hopes on meeting someone from the forums, as I have been a member in here for 5 years now, post in threads daily, and have yet to meet anyone as a direct result of any interaction in the forums. Just use them for advice and fun.

Best piece of advice; look at some of the 'successful' male profiles in here, and try to emulate how they market themselves.

Good luck "

Okay could work i guess, either that or i will be destined for the dreaded blue line forever ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you think you are doing something wrong? There are too many men to go round on a Fab. It's mathematically impossible (or certainly unrealistic) for all men to get a meet. However if you want to improve your chances you should scrap the photos you have chosen as they are unflattering, and choose photos that show you in a more flattering light (doesn't have to be naked). And what on earth would possess you to tell everybody you don't have a big cock? If I fancy a man I'll enjoy his cock whatever size. But if you tell me it's small before I gave a chance to fancy him, then the damage is done.

Mrs

Okay I can actually see the point here!! Will look at the photos and see how to improve on that!! Change the wording in the profile as well, I do have a "to honest" issue which does haunt me lol!! Thank you"

Maybe you didn't realise that for many women the cock is not the be all and end all, and that many won't even notice the size if you don't tell them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so if my pics are a little bit one sided and boring or just plan stupid!! What do people look for on pictures!?? Have to admit as i have looked predominantly guys post cock pics lol!! Hence mine. That is pribably not what the woman want to see though so again any help is greatfully received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so if my pics are a little bit one sided and boring or just plan stupid!! What do people look for on pictures!?? Have to admit as i have looked predominantly guys post cock pics lol!! Hence mine. That is pribably not what the woman want to see though so again any help is greatfully received "

Only you can know what makes you look sexy. If your cock is one of your best features by all means include it in your gallery. If it's your arse then let's see it. Maybe you look hot wearing a suit. Maybe there is a particular pair of jeans that is flattering on you. Do you have some normal pictures that you think you look good in. What do you normally do when you want to be attractive to women? Dont be a sheep and copy all the other chancers on Fab and stick up poorly thought out pictures of cocks, because those guys probably aren't getting meets either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so if my pics are a little bit one sided and boring or just plan stupid!! What do people look for on pictures!?? Have to admit as i have looked predominantly guys post cock pics lol!! Hence mine. That is pribably not what the woman want to see though so again any help is greatfully received "

Look at the guys who are well verified to see what they do.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

OP..i noticed you have verified a man, lots of women who see this will automatically block you or won't be interested as they consider you to be 'high risk'.

Sad but true, which is why lots of bi guys identify on here as straight to increase their chances of meeting a woman..

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