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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else ever suffer this? I can get hard and go for hours lol but when it's crunch time I can find it hard to release esp through a blow job,,

Ideas will be appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rub the end with a bit of sandpaper first will make it much more sensitive.

You're welcome

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"Rub the end with a bit of sandpaper first will make it much more sensitive.

You're welcome "

i love that frame around your profile pic.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"Anyone else ever suffer this? I can get hard and go for hours lol but when it's crunch time I can find it hard to release esp through a blow job,,

Ideas will be appreciated x"

don't know really, maybe go the doctors?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Is this only the case when with someone or all the time

If the latter of get an appointment with your doctor to have a chat

The former... wrong person?

Or try thinking of something you know tips you over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rub the end with a bit of sandpaper first will make it much more sensitive.

You're welcome

i love that frame around your profile pic."

Thanks, found in google

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"Rub the end with a bit of sandpaper first will make it much more sensitive.

You're welcome

i love that frame around your profile pic.

Thanks, found in google "

you're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else ever suffer this? I can get hard and go for hours lol but when it's crunch time I can find it hard to release esp through a blow job,,

Ideas will be appreciated x"

Can you via wanking OP?

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

I have managed that trick too and can keep it hard as long as I want, however the sensitivity needs "switching back on"; I find a very slow diy wank works for me rather than her doing it or if we've played vaginal then switch to anal at that point, any slight change is usually enough to switch the sensitivity back on again. Blow jobs simply don't work unless it's very rough!!

Hope that helps

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm the same, I can make myself cum pretty easy but with sex I find it very difficult. I'm currently seeing a girl I find VERY attractive but still I've never cum with her. I'm going to speak to my doctor about it at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of connection?

Swinging can be very cold!

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

Lucky for some lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could well be completely normal but if you suffer from general numbness then perhaps consider looking for the cause of the problem.bad bicycle saddles can damage critical nerves for example.

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Lucky for some lol "

Not really! Imagine being really horny but unable to climax. I wouldn't wish it on anyone it's the fucking worst haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else ever suffer this? I can get hard and go for hours lol but when it's crunch time I can find it hard to release esp through a blow job,,

Ideas will be appreciated x"

Get the lady to chew a scotch bonnet first?

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone


"Lucky for some lol

Not really! Imagine being really horny but unable to climax. I wouldn't wish it on anyone it's the fucking worst haha. "

Not wishing to imply anything, but some medicines cause this issue. Particularly SSRI's.

Talking to GP is a great idea.

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Lucky for some lol

Not really! Imagine being really horny but unable to climax. I wouldn't wish it on anyone it's the fucking worst haha.

Not wishing to imply anything, but some medicines cause this issue. Particularly SSRI's.

Talking to GP is a great idea.

"

I was on medication for depression and that did bring it on. I've not been on meds for over a year now though

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Lucky for some lol

Not really! Imagine being really horny but unable to climax. I wouldn't wish it on anyone it's the fucking worst haha.

Not wishing to imply anything, but some medicines cause this issue. Particularly SSRI's.

Talking to GP is a great idea.

"

This

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone


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Talking to GP is a great idea.

I was on medication for depression and that did bring it on. I've not been on meds for over a year now though "

Yes, it can take some time to get back to normal.

Try some dirty talk, it'll keep your mind busy and not in the frustration frame of mind.

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

Calling out my wife's sisters name normally gets me off.... not sure she appreciates it though ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else ever suffer this? I can get hard and go for hours lol but when it's crunch time I can find it hard to release esp through a blow job,,

Ideas will be appreciated x"

It's happened to me occasionally over the years and I'm sad to say I've faked it...obviously you can't with a bj but then again it's very rare that I cum from bjs anyway. Really don't know what to suggest in truth so I'm curious to see if anyone else has experienced it and if they've resolved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very much like a thing called retard ejaculation. Google it.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"Lucky for some lol

Not really! Imagine being really horny but unable to climax. I wouldn't wish it on anyone it's the fucking worst haha.

Not wishing to imply anything, but some medicines cause this issue. Particularly SSRI's.

Talking to GP is a great idea.

I was on medication for depression and that did bring it on. I've not been on meds for over a year now though "

The side-effects of some SSRIs can linger after coming off them.

At least, a lot of people would argue that - I certainly would and my doctor does too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you can cum through wanking then the Lady in question is not ticking the right boxes for you sexually?

maybe theres just one little thing that tips you over the edge that she just does not do? eith mentally or physically ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if you can cum through wanking then the Lady in question is not ticking the right boxes for you sexually?

maybe theres just one little thing that tips you over the edge that she just does not do? eith mentally or physically ?

"

If you have spent a long time wanking you can develop a death grip. No women can copy that. The grip and angle also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if you can cum through wanking then the Lady in question is not ticking the right boxes for you sexually?

maybe theres just one little thing that tips you over the edge that she just does not do? eith mentally or physically ?

If you have spent a long time wanking you can develop a death grip. No women can copy that. The grip and angle also "

True but I for one have never failed to cum from getting a decent blowjob

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