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By *w.mark OP   Man
over a year ago

north west town

When is the bi curious tag appropriate? I have used this as I am comfortable in 3some and group scenarios. It reflects comfort with those situations but I have no interest in guys per se. It seems to put Some off me. Am I more accurate using straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people on here think they avoid bi guys by only meeting those who claim to be straight. Trust me; they don't.

It's your profile so it's up to you.

I prefer to be honest

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"When is the bi curious tag appropriate? I have used this as I am comfortable in 3some and group scenarios. It reflects comfort with those situations but I have no interest in guys per se. It seems to put Some off me. Am I more accurate using straight? "

Join the club! I think the more accurate term is "hetero-flexible". This is precisely why I hate labels. While they are generally inaccurate tools, I know that a lot of people only feel comfortable when they know what box an item fits into. Also, by using Fab (or any other website), you're at the mercy of the developers as to what words you can select from the menu. Apparently, some sites allow you to describe yourself in more detail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bi curios tab is acceptable if your enjoying watching man on man porn and getting turned on etc and the idea and fantasy of being with a man turns you on.

But once they've sucked your cock you are then bisexual x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"When is the bi curious tag appropriate? I have used this as I am comfortable in 3some and group scenarios. It reflects comfort with those situations but I have no interest in guys per se. It seems to put Some off me. Am I more accurate using straight? "

If you think you might want to try playing with other men then bi curious but if you are just comfortable with other men being involved in group play then straight I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem with the profile.

I have no interest in pure 1-1 male only play with no female presence, or male penetration but adore a MMF or group situation where the guys are touching and sucking each other, Consequently I use the bi-curious designation.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I have the same problem with the profile.

I have no interest in pure 1-1 male only play with no female presence, or male penetration but adore a MMF or group situation where the guys are touching and sucking each other, Consequently I use the bi-curious designation."
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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

In my opinion.

If a person is bi curious, they wonder what it would be like to be with somebody of the same sex.

If they try it and want more of it as well as the opposite sex then.....bisexual

If they try and its not for them......straight.

If they find same sex partner better then thats another question.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would if forced to put it in a label call it bi playful.

But as long as you know what you are happy with then it doesn't really matter what it is called.

You may find you only attach a label, to rip it off like a wax strip ready to apply another.

Just enjoy being you, and have fun.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Being comfortable in an mmf doesn't mean you are bi-curious. It simply means that you aren't put off by another naked man being there.

If you feel that you would like to play with the guy also, then you would be bi-curious. It's only down to which sex you do, or would like to, have some form of sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being comfortable in an mmf doesn't mean you are bi-curious. It simply means that you aren't put off by another naked man being there.

If you feel that you would like to play with the guy also, then you would be bi-curious. It's only down to which sex you do, or would like to, have some form of sex with."

"Orally Bi" is the term I tend to use. Fairly obvious I guess i.e I love sucking & masturbating guys but dont want to perform/recieve anal sex (with either partner for that matter.

Like anything else, a bit of open discussion between the parties involved and the jobs usually a good'un.

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By *irtee1Man
over a year ago

Sandown


"I have the same problem with the profile.

I have no interest in pure 1-1 male only play with no female presence, or male penetration but adore a MMF or group situation where the guys are touching and sucking each other, Consequently I use the bi-curious designation."

The very same reason I use the tag 'curious'

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I (female) have a similar dilemma. Up until last month I had never done anything with a woman. Nothing. Not even a kiss.

Now after having been in clubs I've kissed a woman and licked another woman's boob.

But I still don't fancy women, and it wouldn't bother me at all if I never had another same sex experience.

However I'm easy going, so if it happens again I think I'd just go with the flow.

I couldn't bring myself to go down on a woman though, I just can't do that, but if a woman wanted to go down on me... well it would feel the same as a man doing it really wouldn't it? A tongue is a tongue.

I don't desire women. I don't have any interest in seeking out sexual fun with women. But I'm just easy going in spur-of-the-monent situations.

I like the "hetero-flexible" term someone used earlier. That fits me I think.

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By *w.mark OP   Man
over a year ago

north west town

Thanks for your contributions, it seems I am safe from the swingers stasi then

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Bi-friendly? Pretty much says it all we think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When is the bi curious tag appropriate? I have used this as I am comfortable in 3some and group scenarios. It reflects comfort with those situations but I have no interest in guys per se. It seems to put Some off me. Am I more accurate using straight? "

There are just as many couples and females (ok males too) that prefer a bi guy... so honesty pays dividends.

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