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What to say in a message?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit of a daft one this and sure a few may slate me for posting it and not using my initiative but.. I'm a fairly outgoing, friendly and easygoing guy whose not been batterd with the ugly stick but struggling to get meets. Wondered if maybe its in the messages i send. Tend to just show an interest at first rather than a long message as seems waste of time for me and them if no interest on their part. What kind of thing should i be putting in a first message? Ta P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i like a message that shows they have read our profile in full so something that refers to it, also i like to know a bit about the person sending it, i know i can find it on their profile if they have bothered to fill it out properly but if its something that isn't just copied straight from their profile it shows its not just a cut n paste generic mail and a touch of homour goes a long way in my opinion

good luck

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"personally i like a message that shows they have read our profile in full so something that refers to it, also i like to know a bit about the person sending it, i know i can find it on their profile if they have bothered to fill it out properly but if its something that isn't just copied straight from their profile it shows its not just a cut n paste generic mail and a touch of homour goes a long way in my opinion

good luck

xxxxxxxxx "

+ the two of us

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"personally i like a message that shows they have read our profile in full so something that refers to it, also i like to know a bit about the person sending it, i know i can find it on their profile if they have bothered to fill it out properly but if its something that isn't just copied straight from their profile it shows its not just a cut n paste generic mail and a touch of homour goes a long way in my opinion

good luck

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+ the two of us "

+3

Just reading your profile, it seems fab to me but are u targeting D/s couples as a lot of your wish list is in that direction.Also it says what u want but not what you can do for others.

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

I agree and actually posted a similar post initial message. It is difficult messaging aong message I'd you don't even get 80 percent of the time. In the other hand its mode to get a text that shows you are interested. Then again we all know a wink says the same, then always happy to.expand and chat.... difficult but good luck to anyone genuine. Cheers all

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice so far guys, have tried to add bit more to my profile too. Any more advice greatly appreciated ta x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you propose to write a one size fits all opening message?

You can't! You tailor your message to suit the recipient. Rule of thumb: short profile, likes winks...wink followed by short message. Hardly rocket science, just my opinion, but that's your problem, the world and his wife will have one...how will you choose which way to go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i like a message that shows they have read our profile in full so something that refers to it, also i like to know a bit about the person sending it, i know i can find it on their profile if they have bothered to fill it out properly but if its something that isn't just copied straight from their profile it shows its not just a cut n paste generic mail and a touch of homour goes a long way in my opini

good luck

xxxxxxxxx

+ the two of us

+3

Just reading your profile, it seems fab to me but are u targeting D/s couples as a lot of your wish list is in that direction.Also it says what u want but not what you can do for others."
+ 4

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry lol am i being daft, on some of the messages its got +2, +3, +4 (like on the previous one)on what does that mean? x

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich


"Sorry lol am i being daft, on some of the messages its got +2, +3, +4 (like on the previous one)on what does that mean? x"

the +1 means they agree with the point which is quoted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhh thanks hornyhorwich

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