FabSwingers.com forum: Wanting to take wife into a club

By *IG THROBBING OP Man
over a year ago

Hello

I really want my and my wife 2 experience a club

Our sex life as a married couple is great and that's both off us agreeing to this

She thinks I am sick in the head wanting to go to a club and experience things

Any advice would be helpful

My wife is stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she don't want to go you can't make her. .......

What's her view on your profile on here ?

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

It's a joint decision, if your doesn't want to go, then you can't force it, her opinion matters as much as yours.

Just take things slowly, she may surprise you one day.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Her views seem clear. So not much else to be said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more interested in knowing if your wife knows you have a fab profile!?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The fact that she's stunning has no bearing on whethe she wants to go to a club or not.

Step back, give her space and ask her why she thinks you're sick for wanting this. It's uncomfortable having your nearest and dearest dismiss your sexual fantasies as sick and its equally uncomfortable being nagged to do something you really don't want to do.

Take a breather approach the subject gently and try and find a compromise if you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect her wishes.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"If she don't want to go you can't make her. .......

What's her view on your profile on here ?

I was thinking the same ting. Dies she know about it and for how long,has she looked at the site and how it works,has she spoken to anyone besides you about this lifestyle. I'm a nosey so and so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she thinks you're "sick in the head" for wanting to go to a swing club, it illustrates you're poles apart (& that she's very straight laced).

Two options...

1. Tolerate being married to someone woefully straight laced....be unhappy.

2. Find yourself a filthy slut.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

I predict this is not going to go well.....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I predict this is not going to go well....."
it's not

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I see the is straight. If she said it you would really turn her on to have a guy fuck you up the arse, would you do it. Because that is how she views going to a club.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Popcorn, get your hot popcorn!!!

Wise old saying, unstoppable force hitting an immovable object springs to mind?

The more you push, the more she digs in... Also if she doesnt know about you having a profile on here, how is it going to go down when your at a club and bump into someone you have met before or talked to?

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By *elen321Woman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury

Maybe you'd be better off suggesting meeting with someone at home or hotel first, rather than a club. But to be honest if that's the way she feels about clubs I

don't think she will be open to the idea of swinging at all.

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By *appy 2 lickMan
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Op has still not answered the question yet does wife know he's on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get her all dressed up sexy for a night out tell her you're taking her to a club ,but befany of the above show her your single guy profile oh yes best pack you bags first hey

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

I think you might be trying to run before you are walking. You both need to go through a good few smaller steps before you try a club.

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By *parkle......Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Hello

I really want my and my wife 2 experience a club

Our sex life as a married couple is great and that's both off us agreeing to this

She thinks I am sick in the head wanting to go to a club and experience things

Any advice would be helpful

My wife is stunning "

is that your wife in the pics?

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By *IG THROBBING OP Man
over a year ago

This is what I am going to do arrange a meet in a bar and see what happens

Get the couple to talk to her about it in a friendly way

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

If I had a gorgeous sexy lady I would not be sharing her on here .

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"If I had a gorgeous sexy lady I would not be sharing her on here . "

So you think only men with ugly partners should swing?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what I am going to do arrange a meet in a bar and see what happens

Get the couple to talk to her about it in a friendly way "

You might struggle to find a couple willing to to this, surprising your wife this way is likely to badly, very badly. She already thinks your sick in the head for suggesting a club how will she feel if she finds out you've gone behind her back to arrange this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"This is what I am going to do arrange a meet in a bar and see what happens

Get the couple to talk to her about it in a friendly way "

Don't set your wife up. Just don't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If I had a gorgeous sexy lady I would not be sharing her on here . "

How would you feel if she was to be on here?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Get a divorce. But who's to say, she might get into it with the next guy. A good gangbang and she could be hooked, with an insatiable appetite for cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say you are going to eat as much salad as you can night at local Harvester....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most disappointing thing about this site is the amount of people who don't know their photos appear on here.

I always think when I see an unverified couples profile it's private relationship pics that the wife has no knowledge of.

I take it Mrs doesn't know she is onyour profile!?

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

You really shouldn't spring this on your wife in a bar, it's highly unlikely it will turn her round to the idea. Show her how much your love is unconditional, treat her with love and respect (leave fab) then work on your communication and trust with each other, both those things have to be at 100% before you even consider swinging, once your relationship is in a good place try sharing your fantasies with each other, sooner or later the question "would you like to do that for real?" Will come up and that's where you start from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you and your wife made it to the club yet? Before March obviously

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By *IG THROBBING OP Man
over a year ago

Not married anymore

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"If I had a gorgeous sexy lady I would not be sharing her on here . "

This attitude baffles me

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"If I had a gorgeous sexy lady I would not be sharing her on here .

This attitude baffles me"

Wants access to other people’s wives but wouldn’t share his own - that’s exactly the attitude that makes people say single men can’t be swingers.

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By *eteandMJCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"If I had a gorgeous sexy lady I would not be sharing her on here .

This attitude baffles me"

Indeed especially being on this site and saying that...

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"Not married anymore "

I’m shocked.

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By *ticky 69Man
over a year ago

Stirling

"Not married anymore

I’m shocked. "

Why? You recommended divorce and now he's no longer married.

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By *izzy_RascalsCouple
over a year ago

Not quite over the hill

"Not married anymore

I’m shocked.

Why? You recommended divorce and now he's no longer married."

Apply the irony filter

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a joint decision, if your doesn't want to go, then you can't force it, her opinion matters as much as yours.

Just take things slowly, she may surprise you one day."

Looks like she did

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Not married anymore "

How have you gone from married and wanting to take your wife to a club to "not married anymore" in 1 day?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Not married anymore

How have you gone from married and wanting to take your wife to a club to "not married anymore" in 1 day?

The thread is over a year old

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"Not married anymore

How have you gone from married and wanting to take your wife to a club to "not married anymore" in 1 day?

The thread is over a year old

People don't read profiles.

They don't read threads either.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Wonder what happened in that year?

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Not married anymore

How have you gone from married and wanting to take your wife to a club to "not married anymore" in 1 day?

The thread is over a year old

People don't read profiles.

They don't read threads either.

Whoops, read the thread but not the date. Sorry OP

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"Not married anymore

How have you gone from married and wanting to take your wife to a club to "not married anymore" in 1 day?

The thread is over a year old

People don't read profiles.

They don't read threads either.

Whoops, read the thread but not the date. Sorry OP"

Easy done.

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By *IG THROBBING OP Man
over a year ago

Look at the dates

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By *IG THROBBING OP Man
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *IG THROBBING OP Man
over a year ago

It was a tough decision and people making comments from not basic reading does have a impact on people’s mental health. Many thanks for correcting them

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By *IG THROBBING OP Man
over a year ago

It’s ok - just be more careful next time

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