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"Advice I've never had a sex addiction, to the extent that online addiction spills over from being a fansty to effecting your daily life that you can't tell the two apart anymore.. I'm worried that someone i know might not be able to control there urge and i was wondering how do you tackle it cause I've even spelt it out and still not listening.. He's playing a dangerous game that although he's a adult how far would he go... I'm outta options and no law as been broken that I'm aware of.. " If he is addicted to sex I don't see the issue. Why would that be a dangerous game? | |||
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"He's bluntly said that he didn't care if got a street. .. " He does have a problem but it's not necessarily sex addiction. This sounds more like depression leading to self harming. Obviously I'm not an expert but it does sound like he needs to see one anyway. | |||
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"Thanks for your advice and help, I've simply sent the link to the sex addiction site no discussion about it, hopefully he will take note of this. And make the right steps to at least being more sensible.. No one is stopping him but he's just not like he is now " I am sexual compulsive maybe... | |||
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"Well self control and common sense about health are essential to a long term life on the scene. Frankly sounds like he has issues about his self worth. Common in these type of addictions. If your children are involved than bluntly he needs to be reminded that as having helped bring them into the world he ether puts them ahead of himself and his desires or loses them. I have no truck for men or woman who dont get that! Responsability is a pain but frankly thats the point. He has to take fesponsability for his actions and there consequences. Until they reach the age of 18 your hildren own the right to be put 1st always." I don't know about you but I've had several addictions I've overcome... Eventually, with a lot of patience, a lot of love, a lot of support and perseverance.... It's not a clear cut thing to deal with and if he's in a bad place mentally, then taking his kids off him isn't going to help his situation... If he didn't love his kids he wouldn't be parenting them imo... Parenting himself may at this time be beyond his capabilities what with his more pressing day to day responsibilities?!... S'hard to know what's going on as we're not in his shoes x | |||
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"Well self control and common sense about health are essential to a long term life on the scene. Frankly sounds like he has issues about his self worth. Common in these type of addictions. If your children are involved than bluntly he needs to be reminded that as having helped bring them into the world he ether puts them ahead of himself and his desires or loses them. I have no truck for men or woman who dont get that! Responsability is a pain but frankly thats the point. He has to take fesponsability for his actions and there consequences. Until they reach the age of 18 your hildren own the right to be put 1st always. I don't know about you but I've had several addictions I've overcome... Eventually, with a lot of patience, a lot of love, a lot of support and perseverance.... It's not a clear cut thing to deal with and if he's in a bad place mentally, then taking his kids off him isn't going to help his situation... If he didn't love his kids he wouldn't be parenting them imo... Parenting himself may at this time be beyond his capabilities what with his more pressing day to day responsibilities?!... S'hard to know what's going on as we're not in his shoes x" I am not without compation as a person. But Golden Rule kids always come first. If he must lose them fir a time to remind him of that then longer term its in his own and most imlortaintly the childrens best interest. Sorry. | |||
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