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Nervous couple first club visit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, all just looking for some advice we are a new couple both looking at going to a club for the first time probably chameleons darlston, just looking for some advice? We're not looking to swap partners yet just experience and play between us. Any tips or advice would be great

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

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"Hi, all just looking for some advice we are a new couple both looking at going to a club for the first time probably chameleons darlston, just looking for some advice? We're not looking to swap partners yet just experience and play between us. Any tips or advice would be great "

Well if you have your rules in place then you will be fine. Just stick to them.

Once inside you will find that most people don't dress any differently than you would expect on a Saturday night out in the town centre.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi, all just looking for some advice we are a new couple both looking at going to a club for the first time probably chameleons darlston, just looking for some advice? We're not looking to swap partners yet just experience and play between us. Any tips or advice would be great

Well if you have your rules in place then you will be fine. Just stick to them.

Once inside you will find that most people don't dress any differently than you would expect on a Saturday night out in the town centre. "

Thankyou I've read that men have to wear towels? And women whatever we want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, all just looking for some advice we are a new couple both looking at going to a club for the first time probably chameleons darlston, just looking for some advice? We're not looking to swap partners yet just experience and play between us. Any tips or advice would be great

Well if you have your rules in place then you will be fine. Just stick to them.

Once inside you will find that most people don't dress any differently than you would expect on a Saturday night out in the town centre.

Thankyou I've read that men have to wear towels? And women whatever we want?"

cotrect.... and thats not a normal Saturday night in our town lol

Chams is great (we visit a lot)

people wont pounce and wont all look like supermodels etc (what we first thought tbh)... just regular people of all shapes and sizes

Go on a Saturday if you are more nervous as its couples only

oh and dont forget yer dancing shoes as there is a Disco room

have fun

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, all just looking for some advice we are a new couple both looking at going to a club for the first time probably chameleons darlston, just looking for some advice? We're not looking to swap partners yet just experience and play between us. Any tips or advice would be great "

Why do you you have a single male profile if you are a couple?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi, all just looking for some advice we are a new couple both looking at going to a club for the first time probably chameleons darlston, just looking for some advice? We're not looking to swap partners yet just experience and play between us. Any tips or advice would be great

Why do you you have a single male profile if you are a couple?"

Only recently became a couple, and I've never played before, want to try a club first

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We love Chams because you don't have to dress up....the most we wear are towels but are usually naked for most of the time. A lot of ladies wear lingerie type outfits and men are fine in boxers if preferred. It's very relaxed and friendly and plenty of space so nothing to worry about. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, all just looking for some advice we are a new couple both looking at going to a club for the first time probably chameleons darlston, just looking for some advice? We're not looking to swap partners yet just experience and play between us. Any tips or advice would be great "

Just go to chams and enjoy the social side nobody will expect you to do anything you dont want and just remember no means no as simple as that we recommend chams it's a great place.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

We went to Chams ladt Thursday it was our first club visit, it was surreal lol there were a lot of single men and we both said next time we would go to a couples night, we didnt play with anyone just ourselves in Jacuzzi we watched others wich was horny and then we were watched have fun

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

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"Hi, all just looking for some advice we are a new couple both looking at going to a club for the first time probably chameleons darlston, just looking for some advice? We're not looking to swap partners yet just experience and play between us. Any tips or advice would be great

Well if you have your rules in place then you will be fine. Just stick to them.

Once inside you will find that most people don't dress any differently than you would expect on a Saturday night out in the town centre.

Thankyou I've read that men have to wear towels? And women whatever we want?"

Sorry missed that bit about going to Chams.

We tend to find most people are shy and have to make the first approach ourselves. But if you're not looking to play with others then probably not too much of an issue.

Don't know if that club has a wet area but saunas, pools and hot tubs tend to allow for more chat.

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I go to Cupid's in swinton/Manchester and they also have a towel/underwear/lingerie dress code. One of my earlier visits back when I was still shiny new and shy and nervous was to a Thursday night event. I didn't play with anyone all night (despite opportunity) and I wasn't drinking as I was driving but it was still one of my best nights out, ever!

The friendly atmosphere was amazing. The people and staff are all so welcoming and my nerves slowly melted away.

Now im a regular and a bit of an exhibitionist with my partner but I always look for the new people and help them to chill the same as I was looked after.

Have fun and keep us posted! X

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