FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone Help at all?

By *arried-Geordie OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon tyne

Hi,

I have been on the swinging scene a number of years, this is my single profile but my other half arranges most things on our couples one.

Recently Ive had to come off the pill because of a bad smear test. Looking at other options at the moment.

My partner is on at me at the moment to do some sort of "Pregnancy risk" thing that someone has mentioned to him on here.

Even as an experienced swinger, I'm so so unsure about this and really how to deal with it. I can so its something he is fantasying about and I'm really not sure what to say or do.

HELP :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I have been on the swinging scene a number of years, this is my single profile but my other half arranges most things on our couples one.

Recently Ive had to come off the pill because of a bad smear test. Looking at other options at the moment.

My partner is on at me at the moment to do some sort of "Pregnancy risk" thing that someone has mentioned to him on here.

Even as an experienced swinger, I'm so so unsure about this and really how to deal with it. I can so its something he is fantasying about and I'm really not sure what to say or do.

HELP :-/"

Your partner wants you to fuck randoms in the hope that you get pregnant? Is that what you mean? If it is think long and hard about what sort of man you have got there. Fantasy or not he's messing with your head. Oh and if you do get pregnant think about the future you and your child would have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember that it’s NOT your partner that will get pregnant, it’s you... easy for him to walk away from the situation and not so much for you.

You need to have a long hard think about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry if that sounded harsh. Just that people need to know why a fantasy is a fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I have been on the swinging scene a number of years, this is my single profile but my other half arranges most things on our couples one.

Recently Ive had to come off the pill because of a bad smear test. Looking at other options at the moment.

My partner is on at me at the moment to do some sort of "Pregnancy risk" thing that someone has mentioned to him on here.

Even as an experienced swinger, I'm so so unsure about this and really how to deal with it. I can so its something he is fantasying about and I'm really not sure what to say or do.

HELP :-/"

Sounds crazy!

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

From the sound of it you do not want to get pregnant yet so i'd suggest that as you have had to stop using the pill to go and get a coil fitted.

Like as mentioned before your man can easily walk away if you find yourself pregnant with another mans child from here. No matter how much he likes the idea it's your body, and it's you who will be carrying for 9 months, and if things go wrong it'll be you who's left holding the baby.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I have been on the swinging scene a number of years, this is my single profile but my other half arranges most things on our couples one.

Recently Ive had to come off the pill because of a bad smear test. Looking at other options at the moment.

My partner is on at me at the moment to do some sort of "Pregnancy risk" thing that someone has mentioned to him on here.

Even as an experienced swinger, I'm so so unsure about this and really how to deal with it. I can so its something he is fantasying about and I'm really not sure what to say or do.

HELP :-/"

It's a stupid irresponsible idea, why are you even asking us?? Use your own brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some things are better left as fantasy... he might find the risk exciting, but what if you do get pregnant? Not the best way to bring a child into the world. I'd have a chat with him about it, you could still role play the risk while on contraception...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I have been on the swinging scene a number of years, this is my single profile but my other half arranges most things on our couples one.

Recently Ive had to come off the pill because of a bad smear test. Looking at other options at the moment.

My partner is on at me at the moment to do some sort of "Pregnancy risk" thing that someone has mentioned to him on here.

Even as an experienced swinger, I'm so so unsure about this and really how to deal with it. I can so its something he is fantasying about and I'm really not sure what to say or do.

HELP :-/"

I'm so sorry to say this. But you need to dump his ass. If he truly cared about you he would want you to get pregnant by him not go bareback with whoever so you get pregnant and God knows what else you may get. Sorry my sweet but there are fantasies and fantasies this is not a fantasy. You deserve better

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By *ertsRobMan
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

"Hi,

I have been on the swinging scene a number of years, this is my single profile but my other half arranges most things on our couples one.

Recently Ive had to come off the pill because of a bad smear test. Looking at other options at the moment.

My partner is on at me at the moment to do some sort of "Pregnancy risk" thing that someone has mentioned to him on here.

Even as an experienced swinger, I'm so so unsure about this and really how to deal with it. I can so its something he is fantasying about and I'm really not sure what to say or do.

HELP :-/

Some very good advice on here. Put yourself and your health first.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Someone who has been on over a year with no verifications posting an extreme fantasy. 99% likely it's a bloke looking for wanking material.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know exactly what this pregnancy risk thing is but I think I can guess.

As I said on another thread never do anything just because other people do or just because someone else wants you to.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

How would he feel about bringing up another man's baby if you got pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smell something what is it ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"HELP :-/"

I assume you are already indulging in bareback, if its only the pill preventing you from becoming pregnant, so both you and him have already decided your sexual health is unimportant. In which case, the very idea of you becoming pregnant to satisfy his sexual fantasy is repugnant in the extreme. If he treats you with such contempt now, imagine what he'll be like when you get pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who has been on over a year with no verifications posting an extreme fantasy. 99% likely it's a bloke looking for wanking material. "

Looks like it!

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