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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have always thought I was a below average looking guy (not fishing for compliments) and have never really been happy with my appearance.

Okay without trying to sound like a vain arrogant person (I've seen how quickly people can pounce on people in the forum). Is there anything I can do to improve my profile and chances of getting a meet. I know there are a hell of a lot of guys on here compared to women and couples.

Just looking for some friendly advice

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By *ruesome-twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

You say your below average looking guy yet your status asks if anyone is looking for an attractive guy and your user name is cute guy I think your just fishing for compliments.

And for advice ditch the pics with the tongue out and wanking over the bath

Just my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say your below average looking guy yet your status asks if anyone is looking for an attractive guy and your user name is cute guy I think your just fishing for compliments.

And for advice ditch the pics with the tongue out and wanking over the bath

Just my opinion x"

I see what you mean but by me putting that. It's not be believing I am. It's me trying to put that idea out there. I don't think many people would reply to a guy saying below average or fuck ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few things on your profile that put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are a few things on your profile that put me off."

May I ask what does put you off? Like I said asking for advise to improve my profile. Any feedback is good feedback

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

You state on your profile that you are attractive .....

You may be to some ... not to others .

Lots of people are attracted to personality. ...

Beauty is only skin deep .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't need the close up of your tongue.

Why are you wanking over a bath?

What experience do you have, and what do you want to try.

What can you actually offer someone. Just saying good with hands and tongue is boring, over used and doesn't grab anyone's interest.

I don't touch drugs, so your 420 reference instantly makes me click away.

But whatever you do to your profile, you won't please everyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that trying to target specific demographics make some people think of you as a bit fake, but I disagree.

You don't see girls who are trying to get a footballer shopping in primark or storm, wearing no makeup or spending more time in dominos than the gym.

Are you after shallow, all about the 6 pack girls? If so, smash the gym. Are you after the alternative crowd? Get investing in some tattoos. If your inside voice is telling you you don't want to look like the type of people you fancy, then you may need to rethink your type a little.

There will always be those that don't stick to similar types, but they're few and far between.

The same logic applies with Pictures.

This is only based on my own experience and isn't faultless by any stretch, but there's a reason stereotypes exist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You state on your profile that you are attractive .....

You may be to some ... not to others .

Lots of people are attracted to personality. ...

Beauty is only skin deep ."

Thanks for the advice. Like I said before, me putting attractive on my profile me just trying to drum up interest, nothing to do with how I really think of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures not the best the tongue and the cock out over the bath

Being a single male it can be hard to find a meet with not the greatest profile, maybe add a little wit to it and say what you can bring to a meet it seems your profile is me me me.

But good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few things on your profile that put me off.

May I ask what does put you off? Like I said asking for advise to improve my profile. Any feedback is good feedback "

Some of your photos, you don't accommodate and you are 420 friendly, so I'm guessing you smoke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You state on your profile that you are attractive .....

You may be to some ... not to others .

Lots of people are attracted to personality. ...

Beauty is only skin deep .

Thanks for the advice. Like I said before, me putting attractive on my profile me just trying to drum up interest, nothing to do with how I really think of myself "

I like your last photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few things on your profile that put me off."
same

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Pictures not the best the tongue and the cock out over the bath

Being a single male it can be hard to find a meet with not the greatest profile, maybe add a little wit to it and say what you can bring to a meet it seems your profile is me me me.

But good luck "

Have to agree with these comments.

Why, when asking for advice, is it rarely acted upon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely ditch the tongue out picture and write a bit more of a profile. Say what you are looking to do ect. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im aware i'm wasting my breath, as much as anyone else who has bothered to reply to you has, but yes, lose the pics with your tongue out, and all but one of the others...and you don't need to put you are attractive or not, people can decide for themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im aware i'm wasting my breath, as much as anyone else who has bothered to reply to you has, but yes, lose the pics with your tongue out, and all but one of the others...and you don't need to put you are attractive or not, people can decide for themselves"

Thanks, all the advice given has been taken on board and this evening I will be removing all the photos and totally rewriting my profile. Thank you for your input, any advice is good advice especially when wrapping your head around how the site works

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Well, good to see the OP has taken things on board.

Text removed pending rewrite... Sadly the swathe of cock pics remains.

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