FabSwingers.com forum: Do I carry on?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.

Is it really worth carrying on??

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.

Is it really worth carrying on??"

Go to a club or social & enjoy yourself.Meeting face to face is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.

Is it really worth carrying on??

Go to a club or social & enjoy yourself.Meeting face to face is better

Agree. Ive done better at clubs

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I've met some lovely people on this site. Where are you going wrong I wonder?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

What subscription?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age

What if he caps it at 60 and misses a hot 70 yr old?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age

I'd give her CPR first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age

What if he caps it at 60 and misses a hot 70 yr old?"

Good point , best keep it to a 99 might even get a flake with it

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age

That I would like to see....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age

That I would like to see...."

Not sure I would though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha"

Women pay attention to everything honey...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha"

Doesn't make you look desperate fella

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Women pay attention to everything honey...!! "

Soooo true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women pay attention to everything honey...!!

Soooo true

Even the tiniest , tiniest of details

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well then I'll change it

any other tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha"

We pay attention to everything, amazing what people pick up on. The fact you seem to list every option under interests also stands out. It reads that you're either not fussy or don't know what you want to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women pay attention to everything honey...!!

Soooo true

"Mr Stupendous"!!!

Socials are the way forward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.

Is it really worth carrying on??"

I really don't get it. Great pics, great profile.

Get to clubs! You'll get there in the end. You're too cute and have an aura. If only you were 30 and in Plymouth

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Well then I'll change it

any other tips?"

Do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' and read the good bits.

Especially the bits about cock pics and profiles all about the male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials first and clubs there after. That will get you on the right track.

And when you go into a club: have zero expectations in terms of getting laid. Go to have a good time, like you would going to a bar/club anywhere else and you'll soon see things change.

Do not get mislead because sex and all things related to it are so up front here compared to other places.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Hello

you say you're looking for someone to show you the ropes. That would put me off because i want someone who knows how to handle a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha

I disagree with this. He states his interests. No different from you or I.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I very much know how to handle a woman, but I'm new to this scene so experience and guidance is always benifical

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish I had done this a while back, super benifical! And thank you for the support baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very much know how to handle a woman, but I'm new to this scene so experience and guidance is always benifical

Gotta know what you're doing in this game fella could get chewed up & spat out with a comment like that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha

I disagree with this. He states his interests. No different from you or I. "

It's a matter of opinion, I was just giving mine. Clearly the profile gives you a different impression but if he's struggling, and going by other comments on this thread, maybe I'm not the only one thinking along those lines.

No one will ever appeal to everyone, my advice to OP is be honest about what you are looking for, it might narrow the field but you should find the right people for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The point of the post is I kinda don't know what I'm doing in this game haha I was hoping people with experience would be kind and helpful

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The point of the post is I kinda don't know what I'm doing in this game haha I was hoping people with experience would be kind and helpful

Believe me that, even if we seem harsh or negative, we are actually being kind and helpful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know I know

I fully appreciate. I might make a post on how to improve the profile haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha

Women pay attention to everything honey...!! "

Except everything written on a profile

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Unfortunately some people on here will decline your offer to meet simply because of your age. But there are plenty of others that won't, so look for them. Use the search facility, and tick the litle box that says 'I must match their age requirements too'

To improve your profile I'd suggest proof reading it. There are several spelling mistakes, that do detract from the overall impression. Also, reconsider your use of double question marks, especially when you don't seem to actually be asking a question.

You have already been given some good advice from others, and your profile doesn't look too bad overall. However you've not directly asked for profile advice, so please forgive us.

Is it worth carrying on? Well that depends on how much you have enjoyed it so far. We are regular chatroom users and will often while away the hours chatting to all and sundry. We don't get to meet as often as we would like, but we would definetly miss the chatrooms if we just quit. Would you miss anything?

Good luck out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women pay attention to everything honey...!!

Soooo true

Even the tiniest , tiniest of details "

Especially lovers of small cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up the fags. A big no no for us and we suspect many others too.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Leave it and go back to normal life..

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha"

Sadly yes. Ive always thought there should be an option to remove the age thing all together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha

Women pay attention to everything honey...!! "

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Also socials yes. Clubs no. Unless you already had clubs in mind in which case yes go for it. Too many people push the club thing on here. They aren't for everyone. Just my opinion of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.

Is it really worth carrying on??"

Yes it's worth carrying on this site. Two months is nothing. You are one of thousands of single guys on here. Go to clubs and meet real people. It works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well then I'll change it

any other tips?"

Yes, move to Somerset and I will fk you XXX

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.

Is it really worth carrying on??"

By 'subscription' I guess you mean site membership? It's a fiver, don't be so bloody tight! Lol! You're a good looking guy, you could do well on here with a bit more effort, give up the fags and renew your membership if money is that much if an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.

Is it really worth carrying on??

Go to a club or social & enjoy yourself.Meeting face to face is better

Totally agree - meet real swingers in swingers clubs, keep fabs profile for staying in touch.....that has worked well for us for 3years now

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Get yourself to the Townhouse. They have some great events such as Milf Monays and im sure they recently advertised one for younger guys seeking older women. Bite the bullet and dont rely on being good looking and young on fab, you need to be way more than that x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I suggest you try the newbie night at the Townhouse. Don't be shy of being on your own as lots of others will be. You are a tall, good looking lad.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.

Is it really worth carrying on??"

Yes. At first we struggled. Mainly because of the age gap between me and Mr. People where put off by how young I was but liked his age.

However we stuck by it. Had a few meets. One of which is now a good friend and regular fun. As per prev comment only list what you want from fabbers. Listing everything can be confusing also a little scary.

Most important thing we learnt was just to have fun. Don't see rejection as something bad on you we are all adults with preferences. It's not that your not good enough ECT it's just on a site like this people have options.

Try and be yourself and have fun. It will happen but at the right time with the right people.

Also you don't need to be a site supporter to enjoy fab. Just removes a couple of perks

The Mrs

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