FabSwingers.com forum: Nervous newbie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks. Sorry if this is the wrong place to post or if something similar has been posted before. I'm a single male who has just hurtled past the big five o. I've long wanted to attend an adult club but can't quite get the nerve together to do it. I'd be interested to know how other single guys have found it on their first night. I'm no adonis and certainly not 'hung' but I'd still like to experience an adult club. It looks really liberating. And these days that can only be a good thing. Thanks for reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest visiting a local club to socialise only. See how you feel about the situation, as it can sometimes be intimidating for a newbie to say the least. Chat to anyone present, keep it none sexual so there is no pressure on either party. If something happens, great! If not, but you enjoyed the night, try again! Just remember there is an etiquette and rules, stick by them, you cant go wrong.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not a single man, I'm the female half of a couple. All I wanted to say is that you don't need to be a hung Adonis

Hope you get to go to a club and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply. I wasn't sure how it works. I'm thinking of trying Atlantis one Friday. I hear it's very well run there. Thanks for the advice. I've read up on the etiquette and am more than happy to abide by it. I think it's something I really must try as I'm sure I'll regret it if I don't. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you female half of a nice couple. I hope so too. It's kinda just me holding myself back at the moment. It's just making that first move I think. I'm almost certain I'd enjoy the experience of being around like minded people even if I didn't join in straight away. Thanks again for replying.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Go for it OP what have you to lose?!

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By *ustme02Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"Thank you female half of a nice couple. I hope so too. It's kinda just me holding myself back at the moment. It's just making that first move I think. I'm almost certain I'd enjoy the experience of being around like minded people even if I didn't join in straight away. Thanks again for replying.

Defo go for it once you get over the first night your love it .... just approach just to say hi everyone is always friendly it's not always sexual

enjoy Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi folks. Sorry if this is the wrong place to post or if something similar has been posted before. I'm a single male who has just hurtled past the big five o. I've long wanted to attend an adult club but can't quite get the nerve together to do it. I'd be interested to know how other single guys have found it on their first night. I'm no adonis and certainly not 'hung' but I'd still like to experience an adult club. It looks really liberating. And these days that can only be a good thing. Thanks for reading.

You look pretty well hung to me, it's nice to see a good picture of a man's bollocks, a change from all the knob only pics XXX

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You're welcome. I admit that I wouldn't have the courage to go to a club alone. I admire those that do immensely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

Nice profile and nice to see good comments

Ju and i was the same and we went to a club it is great no one says a word that is nasty

I am no adonis and not big in the cock area, but have a nice chatty personalty

ju is the one they like but her legs are not good but she loves fun now xxx

Have fun and ever go o attic let us know xx

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

I've been there, was literally shaking on the way in lol. Perhaps I've been lucky and it wasn't a particularly busy night but plenty of folk where happy to chat, much more so than would sometimes be the case at a regular bar!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps you have a friend you can go with it maybe arrange to meet someone there, OP, whatever you do have fun, let us know how you get on xx

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