FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckolding

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I'd like some advice regarding cuckolding.I finally plucked up the courage to tell my other half how turned on I would be if she went with another man.She is very very reluctant to do so as she says she would feel too guilty at fucking someone else.Ive tried explaining that she shouldnt feel guilty as it's my suggestion.Do u think I should stop asking her?

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Try watching cuckold porn together,

Xhamster have some good stuff,

And tell her how much you enjoy it!

Maybe then, she will understand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop asking she will feel pressured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try watching cuckold porn together,

Xhamster have some good stuff,

And tell her how much you enjoy it!

Maybe then, she will understand!

Some very good stuff on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't push the subject, it could do more harm than good for your relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I've got a dead cert' on the 3:30 at Newmarket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She obviously doesn't want to so best leave it at that.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

don't push it. but when the opportunity to talk about it arises do go into detail about why you would enjoy it, phrase it in ways that you are sure won't put her off.

sometimes when we love someone we want to only be with them, we enjoy the sex no matter if it's great or not coz it's that closeness that brings you together. it can be hard to get your head round fucking someone else coz you associate sex with intimacy and bonding.

she needs to get it into her head maybe that sex can be hedonistic and selfish.

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Tips?

Don't push her. Back off and leave the topic completely for a few months then ask her again.

She'll know then that it's a serious issue for you.

If she says no a second time I'd resign myself to it never happening as she's just not into it.

Keep pestering her and it could do real harm to your relationship.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally get this, I'm really keen for my husband to fuck someone, it's a massive turn on for me, but I'm not keen to do it myself. I think I'd feel too guilty.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

It's not for everyone. Remember that. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may feel ok about it but she may not want to because of how she feels about it. You saying you would like it, and that may help her, but she will wonder if your fantasy finally becomes a reality if you could react badly. It's very complex. So don't rush into anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I've got a dead cert' on the 3:30 at Newmarket.

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Try introducing a nice realistic vibrator or dildo into your bedtime fun , preferably bigger than you. Spend time gently using it , what you want is for her to orgasm stronger and better with it than with you . Once this is the case you want to make sure you orgasm before she does , then use the toy to bring her to orgasm . Repeat this over a few weeks until it almost becomes the norm , then explain to her how it turns you on so much the fact she orgasms stronger with the substitute cock than with you and how you'd love her to try another guy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in the same boat as you , tried everything to ease Mrs mind but she's dead against it , I've just given up on the idea altogether.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I've wanted a D/s cuckhold scenario taken off my bucket list for ages, L has a reverse fascination too.

Still, Earl Grey isn't everyone's cup of ...

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"Try introducing a nice realistic vibrator or dildo into your bedtime fun , preferably bigger than you. Spend time gently using it , what you want is for her to orgasm stronger and better with it than with you . Once this is the case you want to make sure you orgasm before she does , then use the toy to bring her to orgasm . Repeat this over a few weeks until it almost becomes the norm , then explain to her how it turns you on so much the fact she orgasms stronger with the substitute cock than with you and how you'd love her to try another guy . "

This has to be good advice. Not neccesarily in detail but in the though process OP needs to go through. I think there is a difference between a man who wants to see his partner with another man and a cuckold.

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By *es deux lapinCouple
over a year ago

dublin

What is cuckholding never heard of it

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