FabSwingers.com forum: Time waster

By *untimescolchester OP Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Have a wank. There's nothing you can do except report them to admin. Use it as a learning curve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just forget it and move on shame its full of timewasters have had me fair share what gos round comes round

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By *loriajonCouple
over a year ago

near u

Did you chat on cam, make sure there genuine and interested in you ?

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I'd say, next time rethink the 4 hour travel to meet someone. I assume you did all the checks to be sure your meet was real....phone call, etc?

I mostly only will meet locally, when I do, to eliminate the few time wasters I've encountered. If they are willing to come to me, all's good. And if not, I'm in my area so have other things I can do instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?"

Short answer, nothing. They've left the site.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I wouldn't travel that far for a potential shag

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Did you do all the checks OP or just message on the internet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

Short answer, nothing. They've left the site. "

He didn't say that.

Report them to admin as a no show OP.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

First thing to do is fill the car up with fuel after that drive

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?"

Did you confirm it was a real woman via cam or phone?

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By *untimescolchester OP Man
over a year ago

Colchester

No so I'm the fool really. Just someone mentioned should probably report them and don't know how

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"No so I'm the fool really. Just someone mentioned should probably report them and don't know how"

Report her and don't travel 4 hours/spend £50 on fuel for the sake of a shag again.. You could use a fit little east European girl in a sauna locally for that money..

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Click on their profile and click report .

This will then give you the option yo tick the box where it says they arranged to meet and didn't show up .

You can also add a description regarding what you did etc...

It may make you feel a bit better doing this , but probably won't make much difference .

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

To the OP, stick to people closer to home that way at least if they don't turn up you haven't wasted a whole lot of time and money.

There are some very odd people here who evidently get off on generally messing people about. It's not possible to avoid them all but what you can do is mitigate the hassle they can create for you by setting and sticking to some very simple rules such as restricting the distance you'll travel, asking to see them on camera and checking how long they've been site members etc.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"No so I'm the fool really. Just someone mentioned should probably report them and don't know how"

I really find that difficult to understand. Given we all know how many fakes there are, why would you travel so far without checking the person was real?

The sad fact is some pathetic people get off on pulling stunts like that. Don't give them the satisfaction.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

If I was you I suggest going to arranged socials or clubs. We to have been let down by time wasters.you can arrange to meet people at clubs at least then if they don't turn up there are others to chat or play with. You have mingles in your area or jaydees or Va within an hours drive

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

We've all fallen prey to this stunt, even if you do your homework (always do your homework!). Don't let it put you off, there's loads of great people on here who have the innate courtesy to cancel/aren't pretending to be something they're not. Pinkie promise.

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By *untimescolchester OP Man
over a year ago

Colchester

They've blocked me from viewing their profile.

"Click on their profile and click report .

This will then give you the option yo tick the box where it says they arranged to meet and didn't show up .

You can also add a description regarding what you did etc...

It may make you feel a bit better doing this , but probably won't make much difference ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep get a flesh torch and bang one out, think there's some silly people out there that don't turn up for meets... But it's there loss you sex god . Lol dicky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and reporting to admin will do what ?? the site provides the tools to meet they cant do anything else ?? people are responsible for there own actions off the site not admin or the mods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep get a flesh torch and bang one out, think there's some silly people out there that don't turn up for meets... But it's there loss you sex god . Lol dicky"

A flesh torch is that the fleshlights distant cousin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and reporting to admin will do what ?? the site provides the tools to meet they cant do anything else ?? people are responsible for there own actions off the site not admin or the mods "

Exactly this!

always do your genuine checks and don't travel so far if you haven't. Learning curve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?"

Take a serious look at yourself that's what you can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all fallen prey to this stunt,"

Have we ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuff driving for 4 hours for sex!

Sadly people bottle it OP, personally I rarely rush into meeting anyone for just this reason.. lots of people love the fantasy but fail when it comes to the reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its one of the reasons I stopped private meets with people I haven't before.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?"

All you can do is move on.

Pointless in reporting it too.

Take this as a lesson, make sure you've spoken to them over the phone. Politely asking for a video call to.

Don't take it personal either. Your no fool.

You did nothing wrong in this situation so don't let it dishearten you mate.

Another woman would more than appreciate you driving 4 hours to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep you live and learn!

Chalk it up to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?"

Piss funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep you live and learn!

Chalk it up to experience

How's the loitering going hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

Piss funny"

Bet u wouldn't think that if it happened to u

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

Piss funny"
why are you finding someone else's misfortune funny??

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?"

Report them and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick to local meets OP, if you're going to travel then don't go more than an hour away XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

Report them and move on"
---what is the point of reporting if they have gone UNLOS?...doubt Admin can even find them if they create a new account?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

hahahaha oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

Piss funny"

Nice hun, real nice. I'm sure you would'nt think it piss funny if it happened to you.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

Piss funny"

No it isn't at all -

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By *ogue30Woman
over a year ago

Hackney

"They've blocked me from viewing their profile.

Even if you're blocked you can still report them. Click on their profile name, and select "report" from the menu list.

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By *untimescolchester OP Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Sorted now guys, thanks for the input.

In hindsight it is ridiculous to have travelled so far, it's just a learning curve.

Everyone is correct, there are some odd people out there. Some local meets have had me going somewhere then no one is around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

Piss funny"

Only to immature idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I went to Kent and back today, 4 hr round trip. To find an empty pub and no one online. Then my messages were deleted & I was blocked. What can I do please?

Piss funny

Only to immature idiots"

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport

"hahahaha oh dear"

Another comedian who finds pleasure in anothers misfortune

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