FabSwingers.com forum: What do young lads see in older women?

By *ooneyloubylou OP Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

As a MF couple we are getting overwhelmed with messages from lads (18-21) young enough to be our sons. Don't get me wrong we're extremely flattered but struggling to get our heads around what someone so young would see in a couple our ages!

Please explain!

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By *pforit78Man
over a year ago

nor

"As a MF couple we are getting overwhelmed with messages from lads (18-21) young enough to be our sons. Don't get me wrong we're extremely flattered but struggling to get our heads around what someone so young would see in a couple our ages!

Please explain!

It's the whole milf and cougar scenario x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Please explain!

You have 18 as your starting age range so you're fair game

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By *ubswitchdomCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

Experience and confidence in knowing what they want. Thats for me anyway, as well as the slight taboo that comes from a big age gap.

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Erm, your hot!

Plus experience and guidance.

Plus the fact that guys here are far outnumbered so will try their luck anywhere just for some attention.

Don't put yourselves down as 'old' when it is merely a number. It's your personality that will define your age, not your date of birth.

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By *ooneyloubylou OP Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Happy to be fair game...just the further from 18 we get with sons the same age, the more our brains struggle to cope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm, your hot!

Plus experience and guidance.

Plus the fact that guys here are far outnumbered so will try their luck anywhere just for some attention.

Don't put yourselves down as 'old' when it is merely a number. It's your personality that will define your age, not your date of birth."

They weren't putting themselves down as 'old'

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Erm, your hot!

Plus experience and guidance.

Plus the fact that guys here are far outnumbered so will try their luck anywhere just for some attention.

Don't put yourselves down as 'old' when it is merely a number. It's your personality that will define your age, not your date of birth.

They weren't putting themselves down as 'old'

Granted they didn't say the word old. I apologize. Sorry OP couple. However they did mention YOUNG guys and then insinuated themselves as opposites. Read between the lines and come to the same conclusion. Old.

Like the rest of my post though, so what! Age really doesn't matter. I have met some.of the most boring 18 year olds and some of the most adventurous 65 year olds.

My point, age does not matter!

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By *ooneyloubylou OP Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Play nicely boys & girls

Apology accepted...we don't consider ourselves to be old it was more the connection between given life experience etc that baffles us rather than the age per say.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Happy to be fair game...just the further from 18 we get with sons the same age, the more our brains struggle to cope

Most of us have the very young ones blocked so you're possibly seen as an exciting prospect that might meet them

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My step daughter is 20, but if an 18 year old seemed mature enough after some chat then why not? Same, if I was chatting to a 65 year old who still seemed fun and down to earth then again, what not? For me it's all about the person all connection not the labels attached to the person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

there are many reasons. Some more flattering than others.

If you want to meet young men do so and enjoy it, you will both be getting what you want after all. If you don't want to meet them...don't

Don't over think, that way lies madness and missed opportunities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please explain!

I don't care why, I'm glad they do!

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

They know what they want. No head games. Mature and can hold a decent conversation without the giggling

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"They know what they want. No head games. Mature and can hold a decent conversation without the giggling "

all of them!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the experience and confidence and the naughtiness of it.

I've always been a fan of an older lady

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

"They know what they want. No head games. Mature and can hold a decent conversation without the giggling

all of them!?"

Well thats based on my personal experience. Maybe not. But there is definitely something sexy about an older woman. And im also glad some tend to like the younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please explain!

Easy, you're more tolerable than women your own age

You're less likely bro play fucking mind games and dangle sex like a carrot.

More likely bro put out sooner as you know that is the reason why we are here. You are happy with your life and we ours, we just mix when we want to fuck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"They know what they want. No head games. Mature and can hold a decent conversation without the giggling

all of them!?

Well thats based on my personal experience. Maybe not. But there is definitely something sexy about an older woman. And im also glad some tend to like the younger guys "

Some, not all, older women get a bit fed up of being stereotyped.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Please explain!

Easy, you're more tolerable than women your own age

You're less likely bro play fucking mind games and dangle sex like a carrot.

More likely bro put out sooner as you know that is the reason why we are here. You are happy with your life and we ours, we just mix when we want to fuck."

honesty!

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

"They know what they want. No head games. Mature and can hold a decent conversation without the giggling

all of them!?

Well thats based on my personal experience. Maybe not. But there is definitely something sexy about an older woman. And im also glad some tend to like the younger guys

Some, not all, older women get a bit fed up of being stereotyped.

Haha. Yes a message can be read wrong also. Dont get me wrong. I dont just meet the "older" ladies. But theres something a bit more passionate with the meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"They know what they want. No head games. Mature and can hold a decent conversation without the giggling

all of them!?

Well thats based on my personal experience. Maybe not. But there is definitely something sexy about an older woman. And im also glad some tend to like the younger guys

Some, not all, older women get a bit fed up of being stereotyped.

Haha. Yes a message can be read wrong also. Dont get me wrong. I dont just meet the "older" ladies. But theres something a bit more passionate with the meet "

I'm glad you're enjoying your meets

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

We're awesome I hear

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

"They know what they want. No head games. Mature and can hold a decent conversation without the giggling

all of them!?

Well thats based on my personal experience. Maybe not. But there is definitely something sexy about an older woman. And im also glad some tend to like the younger guys

Some, not all, older women get a bit fed up of being stereotyped.

Haha. Yes a message can be read wrong also. Dont get me wrong. I dont just meet the "older" ladies. But theres something a bit more passionate with the meet

I'm glad you're enjoying your meets

Me too hahaha.

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

"We're awesome I hear

No disappointment on my behalf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few who I'm pleased to say like the company of us older ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been mentioned earlier but they just want sex. They're probably mailing all the women and couples, not just the older (relatively) ones.

Saying they 'prefer' a mature woman is an ingratiating tactic to try and secure the sex.

If a young woman says yes they aren't going to say no I prefer more mature.

As a man in your early 20's you're a walking hormone.

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

"Been mentioned earlier but they just want sex. They're probably mailing all the women and couples, not just the older (relatively) ones.

Saying they 'prefer' a mature woman is an ingratiating tactic to try and secure the sex.

If a young woman says yes they aren't going to say no I prefer more mature.

As a man in your early 20's you're a walking hormone."

Couldnt be nore wrong.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"They know what they want. No head games. Mature and can hold a decent conversation without the giggling

all of them!?

Well thats based on my personal experience. Maybe not. But there is definitely something sexy about an older woman. And im also glad some tend to like the younger guys

Some, not all, older women get a bit fed up of being stereotyped.

This

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

They just want sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They just want sex!"

Depends on their age x

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

"They just want sex!"

Depends on the connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, just sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"They just want sex!"

Phew! I thought they wanted to marry me. I suppose it's not too late to send the dress back...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

On a recent thread I mentioned that the eons of a friend of mine had added me on social media and there was no more to ot than them being friendly. Someone laughed at my naivety and said that they probably wanked themselves silly over me.

Now that about sums up the young man older woman thing. Nobody or very few is in it for the long term or a relationship. However as long as both parties consent and nobody is disrespectful where's the harm.

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

"On a recent thread I mentioned that the eons of a friend of mine had added me on social media and there was no more to ot than them being friendly. Someone laughed at my naivety and said that they probably wanked themselves silly over me.

Now thats stereotyping young lads. If you never had any intention on meetimg the chap why add him and in a way lead him on. Yes your probably right about him wanking. Each to there own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met and slept with plenty of women older than me.

Age doesn't provide a blanket attraction.

Some women older than me I find attractive, some I don't.

Every time these threads come up, there's the usually bollocks about young guys just looking for a shag and being out of control hormonal messes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met some amazing younger guys ! I find them easy going and great company. Im glad they like older women as I dont find older men attractive so its win win for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Now thats stereotyping young lads. If you never had any intention on meetimg the chap why add him and in a way lead him on. Yes your probably right about him wanking. Each to there own."

How is accepting a friend request on social media leading anyone on or stereotyping young men? Are you saying that I'm wrong and the young guys on here who want to meet older women actually want to date them, take them to pubs and restaurants...introduce them to their friends?

Read what I wrote again, it wasn't me who said they were wanking, I assumed they were being friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are of the view that older women have the experience to teach them a few skills or two or it can just be a natural attraction/turn on. I've always been attracted to women older than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I as a young man have always had a fantasy about an older woman. Think it's about the whole experience but also a taste of what's to come in life it's he only thing you can try befor it happens kind of thing lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to be fair game...just the further from 18 we get with sons the same age, the more our brains struggle to cope

might have something to do with your mrs being damm sexy

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Just try avoid any called Oedipus I hear they can have a quiet complex, complex. (Well at least according to Tom Lehrer.)

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton

Please explain!

Same as any other female....a pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here , weve had several young cples wanting to meet us in the last few mths, one cple we have met socialy at a club and they were chasing us not us them,

we have kids in thier 30s ,mildred don't feel comfy playing with 20yr old ish cples.

like yourselves were not sure what we have that younger cples want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older the fiddle. .. The better the tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as i see in young women, an attractive woman who id like to shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love the experience. definitely into older women x

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

I would not to stereotype but for what I have found younger ladies play more games.are.more bothered what they will look like with you and what their friends would think

I find older ladies are easier to get on with are a.lot.more friendly and less hung up on the silly things but thats what I have found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please explain!

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i just tell them no thanks as sure they just think we will be easy as many will be flattered at a young guys attentions..although it makes me uncomfortable anyway

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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I'm 34 so not old (

) But have had a few young guys contact us, despite our preference being late 20s. Never met any of the youngsters yet as I feel a bit uncomfortable about it. Always feel a bit self conscious, anyone else feel that? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 36 and i love a cougar . they are more passionate and carefree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be looking for a mother figure we have on our selves in his teens my mrs has a daughter older than him,but the thought of a young lad learning how to fuck is strangely exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 26 now but when I was 18-19 I could not get enough of the older women tbh I still can't now and me personally still don't no why

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

When I was 18/20..i really fancied women 35_50...at the time I saw them as(proper women).. As at the time potential partners my own age had only been out of school a year or 2... I pulled in a night club a 46 yr old post woman and was 21 I think... God she could fuck.. Stayed over,again 2/3times in the morning... I've never been so empty in my life.. Didn't produce much sunk for a day or so after x

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