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Why does no one reply to my messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because they don't want to....Next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you'd messaged me, which I fully appreciate you haven't, my non-reply would be due to your photos and your profile. Why anyone else doesn't respond, I couldn't say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What will make that change then? Starting to feel like an ugly fuck

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because they use the profile to decide if you are for them. Yours is poor in comparison to other peoples. Ask for advice in that forum section.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I'll add more photos then but other than the photos what's wrong with my profile?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"What will make that change then? Starting to feel like an ugly fuck"

Make your profile interesting and get some decent pics, all I can tell just now, is your a cock....is that all you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you do get replies to some messages then...

Look around the gazillion profile advice threads and sell yourself.

It is a buyers market after all...

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"What will make that change then? Starting to feel like an ugly fuck"

I'm sure you're not ugly but your profile isn't terribly appealing if I'm honest - remember that most folk view the profile before reading the message and so it needs to be the best representation of you that you can make it. Good tip: read profiles before messaging to make sure you match what they're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to sell yourself a bit more..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you reply to 40 messages from women with no profile pic or anything interesting in their profile? Let alone meet them?

You are the shop window....would you be attracted to your profile?

Plus we all have preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What will make that change then? Starting to feel like an ugly fuck"

How can people tell just by looking at a close up of your willy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type "

Spend some time writing your profile in better detail. What your looking for, what you have to offer etc. And perhaps take some more appealing pics other than 2 hairy cock pics. Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone appreciate the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 pretty awful cock shots and text is poor.

Look at some blokes profiles for inspiration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type "

OP Approximately how many times since you joined the site have your messages been ignored of rejected?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'll add more photos then but other than the photos what's wrong with my profile? "

More photos yes, but not of your cock! Try some body shots, bum, semi naked etc.

You need to rewrite your profile, or certainly add to it. It is currently bland and boring. Your profile is your shop window, sell yourself.

Sadly (for you) your age will go against you for many people, but nothing you can do about that. Also remember this isn't instashag...it's a swinging site, and people like the social side to so like to meet people who they have things in common with.

Good luck

Poppy

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Hairy cock pics are not a good first impression ... get some ideas by looking at other peoples text....be more creative .... good luck

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

Trim


"Oh I'll add more photos then but other than the photos what's wrong with my profile? "

Everything.... Pics are awful, not much about you, no profile pic, no fun.

I'm surprised you got any replies to even say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How come there's so many time wasters on fab swingers ? To meet or not to meet , that is the question, right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants to meet me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type "

Hello mate, I'm no expert but I'd start by getting rid of the two photos, one is at an unflattering angle and the other just looks untidy, your bedding looks a mess and you've got white socks on and black boxers, girls see these details. Try and take some better photos and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants to meet me ?? "

why are you hijacking someone elses thread to ask that question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at your photos to start with... Say no more

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman
over a year ago

East


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type

Hello mate, I'm no expert but I'd start by getting rid of the two photos, one is at an unflattering angle and the other just looks untidy, your bedding looks a mess and you've got white socks on and black boxers, girls see these details. Try and take some better photos and go from there. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.Your gender

2.Your age

3.Your profile

Two of them you can't change, but one you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to make a good profile and a profile pic would help XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type

OP Approximately how many times since you joined the site have your messages been ignored of rejected? "

Two days no reply.....

Now I know what its like to be ignored

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type

OP Approximately how many times since you joined the site have your messages been ignored of rejected?

Two days no reply.....

Now I know what its like to be ignored "
oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you'd messaged me, which I fully appreciate you haven't, my non-reply would be due to your photos and your profile. Why anyone else doesn't respond, I couldn't say. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type

OP Approximately how many times since you joined the site have your messages been ignored of rejected?

Two days no reply.....

Now I know what its like to be ignored "
sorry I didn't check the thread! But all the time I either get ignored completely or get told to send a face pic then bam they disappear like Houdini

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1.Your gender

2.Your age

3.Your profile

Two of them you can't change, but one you can"

Why would my gender be the reason if they're looking for men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type

Hello mate, I'm no expert but I'd start by getting rid of the two photos, one is at an unflattering angle and the other just looks untidy, your bedding looks a mess and you've got white socks on and black boxers, girls see these details. Try and take some better photos and go from there. "
lmao cheers mate, I just added these one and didn't know what people thought and obviously they suck too! What kind of pictures should I upload then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I'll add more photos then but other than the photos what's wrong with my profile?

More photos yes, but not of your cock! Try some body shots, bum, semi naked etc.

You need to rewrite your profile, or certainly add to it. It is currently bland and boring. Your profile is your shop window, sell yourself.

Sadly (for you) your age will go against you for many people, but nothing you can do about that. Also remember this isn't instashag...it's a swinging site, and people like the social side to so like to meet people who they have things in common with.

Good luck

Poppy"

Thanks I'll update my profile now!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type "

Well fuck me sideways, women have the cheek to not fuck you ?

They'll be given the right to vote next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile does need work, but try meeting people at social events it gets your face out there. Fab isn't easy for single guys and your very young, which isn't a problem,unless like us we won't meet anybody our children's age or younger. Just keep trying

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

No picture = no meet!

Simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1.Your gender

2.Your age

3.Your profile

Two of them you can't change, but one you can

Why would my gender be the reason if they're looking for men? "

Because you are a single male in a sea of thousands per female and couples so u will have to stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're crap?

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