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By *eachlife49 OP   Man
over a year ago

ocean

I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?"

Yes get a new profile and lie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?"

nope as with the filters for age its their preference as to what age range they wanna meet

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Trying to "get round it" by deception is wrong, it's taking away their choice! Lying won't do you any favours!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope, it's called suck it up buttercup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time travel, buy a Delorian

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

No way round it so just search for those who want to meet people your age

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?"

You could fab their photos, and hope they look at you... and like what they see.

Other than that, don't waste your energy on people who don't want to meet you, that's a waste of your time. Concentrate on those who ARE interested.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old

- ser meryn trant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/08/17 20:52:57]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've missed out, it's tough shit basically. They've chosen their age filters. Respect them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You've missed out, it's tough shit basically. They've chosen their age filters. Respect them."
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence but- haha

Sorry

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"You've missed out, it's tough shit basically. They've chosen their age filters. Respect them."

Harsh way of putting it but yup spot on.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?"

Message women where you are within there age range preference #simples

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Buy yourself a box of kleenex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age limit is my absolute limit, move on and accept ur 2 old!!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I'm too old for 90 percent...so sucking up is quite normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?"

Unless you lie then no. It's like if you are 17 you are not allowed to buy alcohol in a bar....unless you have your cousins ID etc!

Users set limits for reasons. THEIR reasons... not yours. Accept and move on. I'm getting ever closer to that big barrier myself btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to have a good chat for me, that's y u get a msg saying ur over the age!!!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wonder y the op hasnt responded to any of the comments in his thread

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"wonder y the op hasnt responded to any of the comments in his thread "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely wrong. Why the hell would you lie. Let alone publicly ask how to lie.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?"

How about you respect their wishes and move on.

Your post is basically asking how you can be devious in order to get what you want. This won't do you any favours.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"wonder y the op hasnt responded to any of the comments in his thread

Spot on "

He doesn't have to

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Blimey, some harsh replies here and people wonder why they say the forum is unfriendly at times.

To the OP...once an age changes on a profile all of us could be missing out on someone just that one year older/ younger. Sometimes people set their ages just as a limit to mails so if you can send them a wink do that instead, they may notice you and think the one year age makes no difference to them. If not, move onto the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the people we've played with via Fab have shaved a few years off their age. I now assume the age on a profile will be incorrect and ask on a first meet what the real age is. Doesn't bother us though. I don't know if the forum have a tendency to attract the extremely honest people, or if those who fib go into hiding during threads like this.

Mrs

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Most of the people we've played with via Fab have shaved a few years off their age. I now assume the age on a profile will be incorrect and ask on a first meet what the real age is. Doesn't bother us though. I don't know if the forum have a tendency to attract the extremely honest people, or if those who fib go into hiding during threads like this.

Mrs"

I must be to naive my age is my age within a few months, so what age will people think I am?

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

I have just turned 41 and the amount of Ladies that I can't message now I'm over 40 is huge. I could have my date of birth changed but whats the point as they would be more pi$$ed off that I had lied about my age.

I just need to change the filters in my head

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By *illupMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?"

Comical my friend.. Enjoy the age you are ( and act it!)and respect others choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no way to get round it I'm afraid. Some may not have it as a hard filter, so you could still try your luck with some. Or perhaps wink someone and hopefully they may get drawn to your profile. Other than that, there's not really anything you can do. Hard filters need to be respected. You still won't be out of some people's age range, so perhaps concentrate on messaging them, instead of being concerned about those you can't message. Good luck OP

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Do you have sex with men, when those men say they want women op? If there's a boundary, then it's been created for a reason. They may. Like people in their forties but push their limit on site labels to 50 - but not particularly like 50 year old. So assume they aren't interested in 51,52,53 etc year olds.

Just because you are flexible, it doesn't mean that another is.

Go to clubs and chat, where people may not ask you your age.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I try messaging women but since i am 51 and their age goes up to 50 i get blocked.Any way around it?"

Stop being so old?

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

When searching check the box that says you only want results who's age range you meet. It'll save any anguish down the line.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Not sure why you are trying to message people who have clearly stated, via their preferences, that they aren't interested!?

Spend your time looking for ladies who are compatible x

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