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By *azz26 OP   Woman
over a year ago

wrexham

Ok so I have been feeling under the weather for last few weeks and made the big decision to wee on a stick this evening......blue line confirming that I am pregnant.

Mixed emotions at the moment of shock and happiness.

I am ready for the Fab Police condemning etc but when should I stop meeting? Now, at 3 months, 6 months, full term?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever you want to. You will know best how your feeling, and what you want. Congrats btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations i don't have any kids so i can't really give you any advice. But just do what you feel is right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations I would say, judge for yourself, if you feel ok and your meets are comfortable then carry on enjoying yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your chap doesn't mind then....it's between you two

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's your choice OP but you have a little person growing inside of you.....how exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww congratulations.

It's your body.

Sex when pregnant is amazing, once you get over morning sickness.

An at the end I recommend having sex, to start the labour off works better than pineapple an what ever over old wife tales they tell you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about it with dad. It's hes child aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever you want, not when anyone else tells you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would say research the risks associated with swinging then make your mind up.

The decision is totally yours and your partners.

Congratulations!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Congratulations, it's entirely up to you what you do, with whom and when.

It's got bugger all to do with anyone else.

You may feel differently with each trimester.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope its a good surprise for both of you.

This may sound a little strange but I knew before my wife that she was pregnant and had this thing at the back of my head that I may in some way hurt the baby having sex while inside her so there was no sex between us until a while after she had given birth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk about it with dad. It's hes child aswell "

Hmmmmm............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk about it with dad. It's hes child aswell

Hmmmmm............"

I didn't read through the thread so didn't see you already put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were meeting up till 7 months.

Had to start tern in down meets.

I was pregnant with twins though and they were lying in such a way I was permanently horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what feels right for you, OP

Just be extra careful with condoms tho as picking up an STD whilst pregnant can have massive impact on baby's health - condoms for oral too unless with very trusted partner I would recommend

And congratulations! Having a new baby is a lovely thing! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations

On my you and your partner should decide. You're still you, pregnancy is not an illness and as long as you stay safe then ignore the negative judgemental police on here.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Mazz congratulations! I'm excited for you! I'm sure you will make whatever decision feels right for you about playing.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Congratulations OP, it up to you what you do, whatever you feel comfortable with xxx

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London


"Ok so I have been feeling under the weather for last few weeks and made the big decision to wee on a stick this evening......blue line confirming that I am pregnant.

Mixed emotions at the moment of shock and happiness.

I am ready for the Fab Police condemning etc but when should I stop meeting? Now, at 3 months, 6 months, full term?

"

First, congratulations!

Second, do what you like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations!! If go by how you are feeling!pregnancy can be a mixed bag of emotions. Like someone said make sure you are EXTRA careful protection wise including oral as a lot of who's can be passed to baby!

But congratulations!!hope you are feeling ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congratulations!! If go by how you are feeling!pregnancy can be a mixed bag of emotions. Like someone said make sure you are EXTRA careful protection wise including oral as a lot of who's can be passed to baby!

But congratulations!!hope you are feeling ok xx"

Thanks auto correct . Who=sti's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations!

Along with the others it's your body do what you feel is right, just be extra careful. For me personally my sex drive was next to 0 when I was pregnant, but all women are different X

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Who says a meet has to include penetrative sex?

Oral sex with a pregnant lady would be so hot...both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ask unless you wish to invite criticism? It's your own decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who you are playing with. If you're meeting a regular partner and you are confident of negative STI status then I'd say enjoy.

Personally I'd avoid meeting new partners while pregnant, putting yourself at risk. And I don't care what precautions you take, nothing is 100%.

Some infections can pass to your baby through the placenta or be transmitted during labor and delivery or when your water breaks. Newborn infections can be very serious (even life threatening), and some may lead to long-term irreversible health and developmental problems. What's more, some STIs raise your risk of miscarriage, preterm premature rupture of the membranes (PPROM), preterm birth, uterine infection, and stillbirth.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to add my thoughts but hey I'm a guy what do I know,

I do happen to think there is nothing more beautiful than a woman carrying a child.

Congratulations good luck and hope all goes well for you xxxxx

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By *azz26 OP   Woman
over a year ago

wrexham


"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves ."

Ummmmm no I don't but didnt we meet about 5 or 6 weeks ago?!!

In all seriousness yes I do know the father as we have been together for a considerable length of time.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves ."

WHAT!!!!

I'm sure the OP is aware who dad is! Can't believe someone would write this!

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .

Ummmmm no I don't but didnt we meet about 5 or 6 weeks ago?!!

In all seriousness yes I do know the father as we have been together for a considerable length of time."
haha.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .

WHAT!!!!

I'm sure the OP is aware who dad is! Can't believe someone would write this! "
really that shocks you.shelterd life you must lead lol.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Depends who you are playing with. If you're meeting a regular partner and you are confident of negative STI status then I'd say enjoy.

Personally I'd avoid meeting new partners while pregnant, putting yourself at risk. And I don't care what precautions you take, nothing is 100%.

Some infections can pass to your baby through the placenta or be transmitted during labor and delivery or when your water breaks. Newborn infections can be very serious (even life threatening), and some may lead to long-term irreversible health and developmental problems. What's more, some STIs raise your risk of miscarriage, preterm premature rupture of the membranes (PPROM), preterm birth, uterine infection, and stillbirth."

Sorry to be a killjoy but this really!

Sounds old fashioned but bringing a life into the world is the most important job anyone can ever have, and it's important to do everything you can to give a child the best chance possible!

My views on (full) swinging during pregnancy are exactly the same as my views on smoking, drinking or drug taking during pregnancy - i.e. All just not worth the risk!

Congratulations op! Being a parent is amazing!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .

WHAT!!!!

I'm sure the OP is aware who dad is! Can't believe someone would write this! really that shocks you.shelterd life you must lead lol."

Who said I was shocked? I think you are plain rude asking a woman if she knows who the father of her baby is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .

Ummmmm no I don't but didnt we meet about 5 or 6 weeks ago?!!

In all seriousness yes I do know the father as we have been together for a considerable length of time."

Does he know your on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .

Ummmmm no I don't but didnt we meet about 5 or 6 weeks ago?!!

In all seriousness yes I do know the father as we have been together for a considerable length of time.

Does he know your on here "

*high five Clitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your choice I reckon. Don't pregnant women get bossed enough without being denied sex into the bargain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations!

I think it's up to you whether you want to play or not and how long you want to keep playing for. Just listen to your body. I'm 26 weeks along and probably going to stop meeting soon. Sex during pregnancy can be very, very good with the extra sensitivity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congratulations!

I think it's up to you whether you want to play or not and how long you want to keep playing for. Just listen to your body. I'm 26 weeks along and probably going to stop meeting soon. Sex during pregnancy can be very, very good with the extra sensitivity. "

And partner surely? Don't fathers, husbands matter anymore

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't discuss peoples profiles if they have not asked for it

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Congratulations!

I think it's up to you whether you want to play or not and how long you want to keep playing for. Just listen to your body. I'm 26 weeks along and probably going to stop meeting soon. Sex during pregnancy can be very, very good with the extra sensitivity. "
congratulations to you as well x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, I think I must be old school as I personally think the safety of your baby should be more important.

Yes I know sex is OK for most women when pregnant, but STD's are not and if you are sleeping with multiple people while swinging you don't know whether you will catch one or not even with safe sex.

So the answer for me would be, congratulations, but think of the safety of your baby and I think now is the time to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

orgasms are good for inducing labour - so if you are date close or go over - plenty of them - combine with a curry and away you go - worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP, I think I must be old school as I personally think the safety of your baby should be more important.

Yes I know sex is OK for most women when pregnant, but STD's are not and if you are sleeping with multiple people while swinging you don't know whether you will catch one or not even with safe sex.

So the answer for me would be, congratulations, but think of the safety of your baby and I think now is the time to stop."

Agree...9 months is a short period in your life and emotions always change as your body goes through preparing a new.life. Your immune system is also slightly down, infections are easier to pick up so I would stop in the meantime personally.

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