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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? "

Could be either/or. Not everyone deletes. Some ppl reply days after

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't delete all messages as too many so I wouldn't read anything into this. If pepople reply then that's more interssting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah, right fair enough.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Yes I had it to don't worry to much what will be will be just trying to make friends and chat buddy's but at end of the day it's there choice to talk or not.

Also got a block for saying a profile picture was nice ?? Wow !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised."

That sounds like a really good idea actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means they're keen, send them another message.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London

The Fab inbox only displays the most recent 75 messages received so it could have dropped off and won't reappear until they delete newer messages. A frequent problem we have trying to find messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The Fab inbox only displays the most recent 75 messages received so it could have dropped off and won't reappear until they delete newer messages. A frequent problem we have trying to find messages. "

That makes a lot of sense. So say if my message is number 76, once they delete the first 75, mine will go to the top?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

75 wow really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? "

Don't overthink padwan. *Can't believe me, of all people has just said that to somebody!

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London


"The Fab inbox only displays the most recent 75 messages received so it could have dropped off and won't reappear until they delete newer messages. A frequent problem we have trying to find messages.

That makes a lot of sense. So say if my message is number 76, once they delete the first 75, mine will go to the top?"

It could be that reason or it could be that they're already having conversations with a few people already about meets so haven't got around to replying to other messages.

Could be a whole host of reasons sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it?

Don't overthink padwan. *Can't believe me, of all people has just said that to somebody!"

I have a problem with overthinking, I really need to break that habit. Just trying to get the lay on the land, once I get it all sussed out I should be alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised."

Why didn't anyone tell me that little beauty.. they let me go mad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"75 wow really lol "

Accrewed.. in totality. Not.. sat waiting to be read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it?

Don't overthink padwan. *Can't believe me, of all people has just said that to somebody!

I have a problem with overthinking, I really need to break that habit. Just trying to get the lay on the land, once I get it all sussed out I should be alright."

It's not that easy lol... remember the advice I gave you. live that advice. and you will figure out the rest. Then you know what you will become. Life first, Fab Second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it?

But I'll cryptically leave you with the words.. don't overthink it still. it doesn't make any sense.. till you've figured it out

Don't overthink padwan. *Can't believe me, of all people has just said that to somebody!

I have a problem with overthinking, I really need to break that habit. Just trying to get the lay on the land, once I get it all sussed out I should be alright.

It's not that easy lol... remember the advice I gave you. live that advice. and you will figure out the rest. Then you know what you will become. Life first, Fab Second."

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Are these going up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised."

Yup this is what I do.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Have my post gone up in forum ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? "
if they read it give them one day if they don't reply don't message them they are not interested just block them n move on that's what I do n I am happy with the result lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? if they read it give them one day if they don't reply don't message them they are not interested just block them n move on that's what I do n I am happy with the result lol"

Don't block them! Don't block anyone. Unless they are crossing the line for you. You may be unknowingly mailing some big fish.. who like games.. learn to swim first

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We've just replied to a guy 5 months after he first messaged us. We meant to get back to him sooner but shit just happens unfortunately and it sometimes takes longer than you think.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow, fair enough. Its just a waiting game really. All about timing and luck. I might not be someone's cup of tea today, but I could be tomorrow.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"The Fab inbox only displays the most recent 75 messages received so it could have dropped off and won't reappear until they delete newer messages. A frequent problem we have trying to find messages. "

I didnt know that! I had alwats just assumed tbe other persin had blooming pages and pages. Im hoping my last message to someone still makes it then. Was in the middle of a nice convo.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

I know right. There's people on here who do chat and talk and give you advice and info and help its quite nice I'm finding and also have some great chats with some opening my mind and views

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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Staines


"Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised."

This 100%

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By *omeo1stMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton


"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.

Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? "

If a message that I send gets deleted within days or I get a 'Thanks but no thank you' reply, I leave myself a private note on here saying 'Not interested, do not contact again'.

This works for me. Many women/couples receive so many messages that any message I might send could potentially get lost amongst the masses and never actually get read.

I have re-messaged people who never opened my message many months later and then received positive replies and resultant meets.

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