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Culling friends list advice please

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By *otchillicouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

all over

I'm thinking of putting up a status saying we are looking to cull our friends list and if anyone wants to remain then make themselves known, that way people who haven't contacted us for a while will either show interest or self select to be deleted. Is this a good idea, I'm not sure whether it comes across as arrogant or rude, which is definitely not the intention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may not get a good response as only members who actually look at updates during that time will reply or not. It doesn't come across as rude or arrogant though xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of putting up a status saying we are looking to cull our friends list and if anyone wants to remain then make themselves known, that way people who haven't contacted us for a while will either show interest or self select to be deleted. Is this a good idea, I'm not sure whether it comes across as arrogant or rude, which is definitely not the intention. "

It's your profile, do as you please.. it's nice that you're considering how they may feel if you do remove them though. And that you're concerned it looks arrogant. You're just keeping it fresh and relevant.. no need for your entire catalogue to be on display.. people just need to know you are for real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete people off my friends list fairly frequently as i only want people in it that iv met or am likely to meet.

If i have contact with a guy we might meet or have met then i have them on my friends list. I chat (via messeges) to them. If a meet never happens, or they dont seem to want to actually agree a date to meet, or its always me who contacts them first, then i delete them. Some notice and some dont. Im not bothered about offending them as its just a swingers site.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I just delete, no warnings nothing.

It's funny when they notice straight away and make contact, when they haven't actually spoke to you in months lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All a bit face book, but go for it. Your profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We delete regularly. If you have to remind each other to stay in touch what's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just delete

People who are in contact with you and you meet will be the only Ines to message you anyway x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm thinking of putting up a status saying we are looking to cull our friends list and if anyone wants to remain then make themselves known, that way people who haven't contacted us for a while will either show interest or self select to be deleted. Is this a good idea, I'm not sure whether it comes across as arrogant or rude, which is definitely not the intention. "
communication is a two way thing so if your not contacting the other party ask yourself why and then decide if your going to remain friends or delete them.

Its YOUR profile so YOU decide not them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete regularly. If you have to remind each other to stay in touch what's the point?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a list of contacts on the internet. They are not actually friends, UNLESS they are real friends in which case don't delete them, that would be wrong.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"It's a list of contacts on the internet. They are not actually friends, UNLESS they are real friends in which case don't delete them, that would be wrong.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just do it. It's not like you are actually culling them is it? It's just a button on a website.

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