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By *ixFoot2nFun4U OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport

So after a little advice, went out last week on a works drinks night. I knew before going out that this attached lady was interested in me, and to be fair i would happily take her to bed, however she is attached.

Since that night some very heavy flirting both in work and via text has been happening.

Do I take action and go through with some of the things discussed or should i leave the situation and calm it all down?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Keep her to your WankBank

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Workplace flings...really best avoided, even though the sexual tension can become almost over whelming.

It never ends well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, crack on. It'll all be alright, consenting adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Till one of you loose your job

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Work sex is never nsa sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great point

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Id just keep it to flirting ... it wont end well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!"

How do you do that in only a flirty email?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!

How do you do that in only a flirty email?"

With the exception of being in the lift, like I said, but if we were in the lift together I would rub his willy though his trousers, was funny to make him have a hard on.

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By *w214Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!"

How did this end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!

How did this end?"

I was pregnant in 2009 (by my partner not him) kind of inappropriate then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!

How did this end?"

Sticky trousers lol

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By *ixFoot2nFun4U OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport


"Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!"

This is very nearly the point we are at. Just taking all my energy not to return the favour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same position op last week I went on a works night out while we were out the young girl started feelin my dick.

Point is as hard as it was ( an trust me it was

But I'd keep it to flanter, I really like her and wish we could have more. But it would never work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!"

We have some positions that have just come up where I work I could put in a good word for you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bern there done that a few times and never ended well. Best stick to just flirting and being friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much you love/need your job.

It's fun whilst you're both happy but if things go wrong then....not good.

I used to work in a large office. Two colleagues got together, dated. It ended, she made his life in work hell, he finally snapped and called her out on something in a spectacularly public spat. He got sacked.

She actually sat there smirking as he was escorted off the premises. She left the job two months after that because everyone didn't take her seriously after witnessing what they did.

Drama drama drama!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it to flirting, it passes the time.

I used to flirt with a guy in my old office, he was attached so was I. Was only flirty emails but if we were in the lift together I would stand in front of him and rub his dick through his trousers!

We have some positions that have just come up where I work I could put in a good word for you lol"

I'll be known as the creep that hangs around the lifts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wilkesy where you work? I'm getting a job lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any line management or team link or do you literally just work for the same company and your 'work' never crosses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Work sex is never nsa sex.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never rock on a works cock.

So the opposite for men

Never flick a works clit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how much you love/need your job.

It's fun whilst you're both happy but if things go wrong then....not good.

I used to work in a large office. Two colleagues got together, dated. It ended, she made his life in work hell, he finally snapped and called her out on something in a spectacularly public spat. He got sacked.

She actually sat there smirking as he was escorted off the premises. She left the job two months after that because everyone didn't take her seriously after witnessing what they did.

Drama drama drama!"

Ooof to be a fly on the wall that day.

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By *ixFoot2nFun4U OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport


"Is there any line management or team link or do you literally just work for the same company and your 'work' never crosses?"

There wasnt any team link until yesterday. My view has now swung round as she is joining my team! Certainly wont be actioning any thoughts.

Thanks everyone for the advice

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Just stick to oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I'd keep things at that level. Stick to flirting and become very good friends. Nothing wrong with that at all.

Mixing relationships and work always seem like a fantastic idea when you're on that special high, but when things go wrong it can be a complete nightmare, more so if you have to work together and/or with people who take sides and aren't grown up enough to handle about the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a work mate and attached, hmmm, let me think.....don't go there, it'll just end badly.

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