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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trying to get my wife to take that first step, we have talked about it during sex in a role playing basis, but i want to take it further, are there any kind of good hotels that swingers use in scotland, so that it looks like an accident if we chat to couples or guy. thisis our fantasy, but she doesn't know i'm planning to take it to te next level.

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

First rule of swinging is honesty so trying to mislead / coerce her is not the correct way IMHO

Plenty of people have the fantasy but very few can go beyond that.

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First rule of swinging is honesty so trying to mislead / coerce her is not the correct way IMHO

Plenty of people have the fantasy but very few can go beyond that.

Good luck though

Even though I'm clearly happy to swing, if Tod had done what you are planning without my knowledge I would of been seriously pissed off.

There's nothing worse than being in a situation that you feel pressured into & can't say no to.

I totally agree with Horny, fantasy is one thing, but reality is another. Just because she has fantasies about it doesn't mean she's willing to make it reality.

Talk to her & find out how far she's willing to go, before you make any "accidental" meetings, last thing you want to do is screw up your relationship over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't have put it better myself.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

YOU want to take it further ....your wife maywell be happy keeping it purely within role play or fantasy .that can only be discussed between you and your wife . there has to be totaly openess and honesty between a cpl for them to even comtemplate swinging or you are going to be looking at a car crash ! there is no room for sneeking about ,hidden agendas and dishonhesty .

you are being very selfish , putting not only your wife but another couple in a very volatile situation just to get what you want ! what if your wife throws a hissy fit at you and the unsuspecting couple ! or all goes well and by mirical your wife is up for it ,then couple find out she had no clue and was "set up" ??cant see that ending happily either ! under no cercumstances should you be placing innocent people in to such situations ! your wife is the person you should love and respect ,none of that showen in your approach here .if my hubby ever done anything so disrespectful to me hed be pouring his balls from the blender !

if you can speak to her and involve her every step of the way an do it AS A COUPLE then you dont do it at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you just make it sound ceedy and manipulative i no i carnt spell

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

sorry ment if you CANT speak to her and involve her every step of the way .

and young and willing i agree with you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

least just say this is my life style i would like you to join me but at your own rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"least just say this is my life style i would like you to join me but at your own rate "

And then help her pack her stuff as she buggers off.........

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Trying to get my wife to take that first step, we have talked about it during sex in a role playing basis, but i want to take it further, are there any kind of good hotels that swingers use in scotland, so that it looks like an accident if we chat to couples or guy. thisis our fantasy, but she doesn't know i'm planning to take it to te next level."

Do not force your fantasy,no matter how shared onto her,you are seconds away from rape.

Swinging works when both partners consent,what you want to do is so wrong i feel sick,

If this is her fantasy do it together or not at all!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"you just make it sound ceedy and manipulative i no i carnt spell"

who cares, u have sound morals!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has she enjoyed the roleplaying? If yes, then why not ask her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I should have made this clearer, she is up for this but does not know when it is planned for as we are away every weekend for an overnight stay. janet wants it to be a suprise when and if it happens, part of it is to be chatting at the bar and having a few drinks and then the bar closes and you all know what happens next. she has tried before by flashing in the bar showing her sussies and no nicks and even went swimming naked at a hotel near luss, but no one was on hand to take us up.....

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