FabSwingers.com forum: new to swinging what you would advise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi Guys we a couple new to swinging but yet to participate in any swinging activities. we have been together for 11 years we have a great relationship. were looking to try new things in our relationship but wondering what would be our best option for our first time Club or meeting people from fabs first any advice greatly appreciated. Tammie xxx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Hi and welcome.

What fantasies do you want to explore,what rules do u have,what hard limits and what soft(ie those things u only say no to cos they sound too naughty)

in other words,communicate,communicate,communicate!

i can't tell u how or where to swing cos i don't know the answers to those questions,but after discussing them, you may have a better idea of what u want to try.

in the meantime why not try to get to know ppl here,in chat or at socials

Have fun

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Hi and welcome xx

Have great fun at your pace, take time to find the right people who match what you are both looking for.

xx good luck xx and enjoy

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

whatever you decide to do, just take it all at your own pace, and don't feel rushed into doing anything.... in the end no means no and the people you play with will hopefully realise that you are new as we were all new once...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above. I've never been to a club but I have heard they are friendly relaxed places so that might be worth a try otherwise try a social and get chatting to people. Good luck on here. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

talk to each other and set your goals before you meet if unsure how about a social for the first meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hard and fast rules exist. If it feels right to both of you then it's right, if it feels wrong, it's wrong.

Do what you fancy, how you fancy and go along with your gut instincts - gut instincts are rarely wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does any body know of any socials with the west midlands thanks for your advise everyone

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Does any body know of any socials with the west midlands thanks for your advise everyone

My geography is crap...but i assume chams is near u,there is the beach party on the bank holiday.

If a club social is a bit intimidating for a first time,there are Liverpool, Sheffield and Newcastle socials coming up.lots travel to them,check out the UK forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jemima's geography isn't bad! Chams is in the west midlands. Mr has been and he said it was really friendly. Ms

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

For your first time out, a club might be better as then there will be no pressure to play and you can go there and do nothing at all and just get a feel for the scene. Set some rules before you go, so no one gets carried away which might cause problems later.

Going to the right club first time, is really important and going to the wrong one might put you off for life. We strongly suggest you go to one on a couples only night.

Chams is certainly a friendly venue, and on a Saturday night it will be packed out.

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