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"If it's an 18 year old bisexual nymphomanic with bikini pics with palm trees in the background and they say they are from Arbroath, the chances are it's fake " Agreed! Lol | |||
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"Men write differently to women " They do, but what if its a couple? | |||
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"Men write differently to women They do, but what if its a couple? " If they are looking for wank fodder then it's a single male | |||
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"Any tips/advice on spotting the fake or dodgy profiles....? " If you like then just ask them to chatvon the phone. We just ring with the block outgoing number on M's mobile so there's no way of them getting her number. If they aren't happy with that or face chat on Kik then most likely a fake. Mr | |||
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"Any tips/advice on spotting the fake or dodgy profiles....? If you like then just ask them to chatvon the phone. We just ring with the block outgoing number on M's mobile so there's no way of them getting her number. If they aren't happy with that or face chat on Kik then most likely a fake. Mr " Good advise. Thanks | |||
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"Any tips/advice on spotting the fake or dodgy profiles....? If you like then just ask them to chatvon the phone. We just ring with the block outgoing number on M's mobile so there's no way of them getting her number. If they aren't happy with that or face chat on Kik then most likely a fake. Mr Good advise. Thanks " You're welcome, take care. | |||
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"Any tips/advice on spotting the fake or dodgy profiles....? " Yep; the ones who state nonsense like, "100% genuine" - Mrs. J - | |||
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"I think if you exchange 3 or 4 messages and they don't want to chat directly on the phone or make excuses alarm bells start ringing for me." I hardly ever talk on the phone, and I'm very genuine | |||
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"If you only chat to the man from the couple " I must disagree I am male half of a couple and do most of the secretarial (lol) work filtering out who I know 100% the Mrs will say no to. I then save messages from decent people for her to view later or to give me permission to continue chats too See if we are looking for same thing. I think the old adage of if it looks fake then it probably will be, if not evident straight away it should be after a few messages. | |||
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"If you only chat to the man from the couple I must disagree I am male half of a couple and do most of the secretarial (lol) work filtering out who I know 100% the Mrs will say no to. I then save messages from decent people for her to view later or to give me permission to continue chats too See if we are looking for same thing. I think the old adage of if it looks fake then it probably will be, if not evident straight away it should be after a few messages. " this is exactly how we work | |||
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"They have instant photos on here now. Can ask for one that way. As I don't hand out phone numbers or chat on the phone. This is a good alternative x" Actually that's pretty pointless in proving that you're genuine. All that feature does, is allow users to send people a photo not already uploaded to Fab. It still doesn't mean it's not fake. You could always ask them to write your name on some paper and then take a photo, but how many people would stand for that rigmarole? I know I wouldn't personally. | |||
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"Any tips/advice on spotting the fake or dodgy profiles....? " The best way to spot fakes is to get to know them online before meeting. Getting to know people online first you can out the shag now? people, I want another notch on my bedpost people, idiots, fakes, fantasists and also hopefully the timewaters. Getting to know poeple online first means you can get to know each other with no pressure. As I have said you can out the ones looking for a quick fuck or another notch on their bedpost. Also if you do decide to meet as you have spent time getting to know each other online you will avoid the awkward silences. Another way to spot the fakes is ask them to go on web cam. Then ask them to do something like wave there little finger at you or blow a kiss at you. That wil prove it is a live web cam and not a recorded video. Nowadays most people have a webcam. Especially if using a laptop. Webcams have been a standard thing in laptops for over 10 years. If you do decide to meet someobdy after getting to know them online make the first meet in a very puiblic place like a pub, coffee shop, cafe, Hotel bar, tc. If you move onto meeting somebody at thier house/flat always tell a friend where you are going and tell her or him you will text them on the way home. When you get to the house/flat take a photo of it and send it to a friend. The photo contains information of the location where the photo was took. The easiest way to avoid fakes is meet people who have meet other people. Meet people who have a few verifications. If the person has only met one person they could be fake. They may have found a way to verify themselves. If your gut feeling tells you something is not right go with your gut feeling. | |||
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"Men write differently to women This! " gizza shag | |||
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"I think if you exchange 3 or 4 messages and they don't want to chat directly on the phone or make excuses alarm bells start ringing for me." A few messages then phone chat. Sorts out the men from the boys (women) lol. | |||
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"Men write differently to women This! gizza shag" Very true they do. Also women or couples asking very straight questions about size or wanting cock pics is normally a big give away. | |||
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"They have instant photos on here now. Can ask for one that way. As I don't hand out phone numbers or chat on the phone. This is a good alternative x" This We dont give out our phone numbers until we've actually met and are happy to give them out, no phone chat / chatting to the female half doesnt mean they are not a genuine couple x | |||
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"If you only chat to the man from the couple " You won't chat to my mrs on here, but we are real. | |||
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"I think if you exchange 3 or 4 messages and they don't want to chat directly on the phone or make excuses alarm bells start ringing for me." I'm not chatting to anyone after 3 or 4 messages. | |||
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"I think if you exchange 3 or 4 messages and they don't want to chat directly on the phone or make excuses alarm bells start ringing for me. I'm not chatting to anyone after 3 or 4 messages. " Us either, we both hate talking on the phone for a start. I'm always wary of people in a rush to move the chat off-site. We do use Kik for simplicity once we've got a bit of a feel for people though if we think we're likely to want to meet them, and think used with caution the fact it differentiates gallery pics from ones just taken is useful. Any pics that look too good to be true I reverse image search. I look at veris - interesting how many are from a profile started at the same time with only one veri from the first profile with virtually no text or suspiciously similar. Could be legit but makes me cautious. If they start asking for more pics (other than a face pic) I don't take that as a good sign when we have plenty on the profile. | |||
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"I think if you exchange 3 or 4 messages and they don't want to chat directly on the phone or make excuses alarm bells start ringing for me. I'm not chatting to anyone after 3 or 4 messages. Us either, we both hate talking on the phone for a start. I'm always wary of people in a rush to move the chat off-site. We do use Kik for simplicity once we've got a bit of a feel for people though if we think we're likely to want to meet them, and think used with caution the fact it differentiates gallery pics from ones just taken is useful. Any pics that look too good to be true I reverse image search. I look at veris - interesting how many are from a profile started at the same time with only one veri from the first profile with virtually no text or suspiciously similar. Could be legit but makes me cautious. If they start asking for more pics (other than a face pic) I don't take that as a good sign when we have plenty on the profile. " Not sure if you have both experienced this too but if it's a single woman and she's new but has a lot of veri's would you check to see if any of those were from other women? As I know guys are a little easier to just leave one and say she's the best thing since sliced bread. Women leaving other women verifications are always a good sign for me as even in vanilla life women like to have someone to shop with and in particular seek advice from etc. A lot of women on here have some kind of friend in another female so female to female veri's are always a good sign for me. | |||
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"I think if you exchange 3 or 4 messages and they don't want to chat directly on the phone or make excuses alarm bells start ringing for me. I'm not chatting to anyone after 3 or 4 messages. " Genuine question. Why not? If you are looking to have sex with someone what is the objection to speaking to them on the phone? We are not talking a long intimate conversation. Just a minute or so so that both sides can be satisfied there are actual real life women involved. Given the number of fakes around that seems entirely reasonable. | |||
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"Some pics are fake so if fake I guess the person is also .I do pic reverse so it tells you how many sites it's on if it's fake .if it's there pic should be none found .Been a few lately on profiles .I'm also suspicious if person been on a while and hasn't been verified . " excuse my ignorance but how do you do a picture reverse | |||
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"Some pics are fake so if fake I guess the person is also .I do pic reverse so it tells you how many sites it's on if it's fake .if it's there pic should be none found .Been a few lately on profiles .I'm also suspicious if person been on a while and hasn't been verified . excuse my ignorance but how do you do a picture reverse " We'd like to know that too. | |||
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"People with black and white profile pics are always fake " Ooohh slander lmao | |||
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"I think if you exchange 3 or 4 messages and they don't want to chat directly on the phone or make excuses alarm bells start ringing for me. I'm not chatting to anyone after 3 or 4 messages. Genuine question. Why not? If you are looking to have sex with someone what is the objection to speaking to them on the phone? We are not talking a long intimate conversation. Just a minute or so so that both sides can be satisfied there are actual real life women involved. Given the number of fakes around that seems entirely reasonable. " I've found no real need to speak on the phone, especially after 3/4 messages (never get off it!). Women dont generally pretend to be men so I'll get a genuine man. Plus a lot (not all) of men want phone sex and start wanking the minute you're on the phone, then you end up getting annoyed and not meet anyway or you try and talk normally, they get off, then you never hear from them again. Guys who want the real thing are what I'm after. Plus I don't have time or inclination to talk on the phone I do enough of that at work | |||
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"People with black and white profile pics are always fake Ooohh slander lmao " People claiming to be women - FAKE! | |||
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"Any tips/advice on spotting the fake or dodgy profiles....? " If it seems to good to be true.its probably fake. | |||
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"Verification. Even if they are verified, look at the people who verified them, to make sure it's not just several profiles verifying each other. " Exactly this ....... just because a profile is verified doesn't mean they're genuine! | |||
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"If they have been on a while and have no veries... fake. If the picture you put through Tineye come back as having multiple hits form porn sites... fake. If its only ever the guy online, and when questioned the female is "at her mums/at work/visiting sick relatives/in the kitchen/painting the humber bridge/piloting the space shuttle"...fake. If they dodge requests for both to be on cam/phone together...fake. If the messages tend to go rapidly to "so.. what would you like to do to/with us?"... fake. " I disagree, just because someone has been a member for a while, certainly doesn't make them fake! I've been a member on and off since 2005 as part of a (very verified) couple and as a minion, to ostracize on that basis alone is very sad in my humble opinion....but hey, each to their own way n all! Personally I think fakes make themselves apparent very quickly....a specific face pic works a treat | |||
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