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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need help in how to turn my misses in to a swinger

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By *nforcer68Man
over a year ago

leeds

You cant my friend. Swinging as a couple is something you want to do together whether is playing together or seperate. It requires trust, openness and a lot of talking. A lot of people like the idea but the reality of watching someone have sex with your partner and is better at it than you is too much for some.

Best way is to speak about fantasies with her, tell her yours and see what she says. If she is dead agaist it then you have to respect her decision then decide if you want to cheat on her and risk her finding out and the consequences that brings. It never ceases to amaze me the amout of guys who would never let their partner swing but are happy to cheat on them.

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You cant my friend. Swinging as a couple is something you want to do together whether is playing together or seperate. It requires trust, openness and a lot of talking. A lot of people like the idea but the reality of watching someone have sex with your partner and is better at it than you is too much for some.

Best way is to speak about fantasies with her, tell her yours and see what she says. If she is dead agaist it then you have to respect her decision then decide if you want to cheat on her and risk her finding out and the consequences that brings. It never ceases to amaze me the amout of guys who would never let their partner swing but are happy to cheat on them. "

Agree 100%.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging..

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "

Damn, son.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Forget it . You can't make a person do something they don't like .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "

Or packing your bags

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By *andDeeCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Sweetheart if you were mine and been on here for 3 months I know what my response would be.... You wouldn't be swinging... Yd be nursing it... Be honest!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "

I couldn't have given better advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "

hahaha love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cant my friend. Swinging as a couple is something you want to do together whether is playing together or seperate. It requires trust, openness and a lot of talking. A lot of people like the idea but the reality of watching someone have sex with your partner and is better at it than you is too much for some.

Best way is to speak about fantasies with her, tell her yours and see what she says. If she is dead agaist it then you have to respect her decision then decide if you want to cheat on her and risk her finding out and the consequences that brings. It never ceases to amaze me the amout of guys who would never let their partner swing but are happy to cheat on them.

Agree 100%.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Forget it . You can't make a person do something they don't like . "

What makes you think she doesn't like it?

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge


"I need help in how to turn my misses in to a swinger "

Stand her in veg aisle of ASDA whip out your cock, wave it at her and say three times

Abracadabra

I'm sure it will work

Pp

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I need help in how to turn my misses in to a swinger "

What do you normally do to force her to do something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a neuro surgeon rewire her. I've got a scalpel and some very fine tweezers. Happy to open her up and see if we can't fix the problem.

Have you tried turning her off and on again?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I need help in how to turn my misses in to a swinger

What do you normally do to force her to do something?"

What implies she needs to be forced?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

What makes you think she isn't one already? ...just not with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She probably already is a BBC queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you think she isn't one already? ...just not with you..."
exactly this you have a good veri from a couple, what's to say she hasn't met them as well ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your Forum post OP is like sticking a big stick into a hornet's nest LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie her to the bed then blindfold her and then tell her to pretend there is another man in the room. Leave the bit out about the other man actually being there and see if she likes or not.

There a positive idea instead of slagging you off for whatever reason.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "
there's only one word for that - magic darts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried turning her off and on again?"

Hahahaha this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sweetheart if you were mine and been on here for 3 months I know what my response would be.... You wouldn't be swinging... Yd be nursing it... Be honest!!!! "

Swinging from a rope?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I need help in how to turn my misses in to a swinger "

Will your "misses" have a say in the matter? Or have you already made up her mind for her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your Forum post OP is like sticking a big stick into a hornet's nest LOL. "

I love a wound up hornets nest , full of angry sentry that try to inflict as much damage as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cant my friend. Swinging as a couple is something you want to do together whether is playing together or seperate. It requires trust, openness and a lot of talking. A lot of people like the idea but the reality of watching someone have sex with your partner and is better at it than you is too much for some.

Best way is to speak about fantasies with her, tell her yours and see what she says. If she is dead agaist it then you have to respect her decision then decide if you want to cheat on her and risk her finding out and the consequences that brings. It never ceases to amaze me the amout of guys who would never let their partner swing but are happy to cheat on them.

Agree 100%.

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110% lol. Very true

Otherwise I'd love to see my missus with another guy. Sounds great.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

perhaps shes not into it ..dont force her do to do anything she's not into

doing.. love her for what she is

and discuss your fantasy's with her ..

maybe she will give it a go if she trusts you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You broke the first rule of swinging- trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It ain't going to happen unless she wants too

Maybe start with the basics, communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You broke the first rule of swinging- trust"

This. Why don't the cheating fucktards have the conversation BEFORE they break their vows. Jesus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby


"I need help in how to turn my misses in to a swinger "

WATCH PORN! and talk..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Try talking to her, having said that you should have done that before joining here and meeting others for sex

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I need help in how to turn my misses in to a swinger "

I'll put in a good word for you the next time I'm shagging her, or I can send you her fab user name if you want to try messaging her

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

When Boo and I first started dating she was quite...innocent to say the least, I was quite open about my lifestyle choices.

We got talking about her fantasies and experimented with toys to see if she would enjoy taking things to the next step

then lots of talking, I do mean lots! her setting her boundaries for this site, for meets and me listening and respecting her wants in it all... from setting up on here to our first meet was several months but again, lots of talking.

first meet happend and it was kept very quick. then we discussed it more and now we are looking at lots of other meets down the line but again at her pace.

Talk to her, listen to what she has to say and respect her wishes whether you agree or not

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"What makes you think she isn't one already? ...just not with you..."

Took the words out of my mouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you talk to your wife you will find out about her opinion of swinging, fantasies, sexual fulfilment etc....we don't know her so we can't comment -

having a single male profile and then putting a question up on the forum about wanting your wife to be a swinging gives us the impression that maybe you have not been open with her yourself in the past 3 months - don't cheat, be honest now before you get further apart from each other xxx

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