FabSwingers.com forum: Issues with two faced users

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is anyone else having issues with users who have one thing stated in their profile and then go against that.

Just had someone who messaged me instantly demanding a face picture, which I refused to send. Yet on their profile they state they don't share their face picture until a meets arranged and happening that day!

Doing this more to vent my frustration then anything

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By *y PussyWoman
over a year ago

Crickhowell

Yep this happens all the time unfortunately. You also get the photo collectors that have no intention on meeting at all. If i was you just move on, there is plenty more out there who are willing to show a face pic from the Start. For me there has to be a connection, because lets face it I could not fuck or play with anyone I do not think is my type. Good luck

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Is it two faced or double standards?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do, typically the block button gets used. My general rule is I won't do face images instantly, that is normally one of the last things I would send, unless they have decided to send me one first then I would return the favour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it two faced or double standards?

Think it can be both, both have near identical meanings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read a profile yesterday that said-you must put effort into your first intoduction message.You must tell us everything about yourself Inculding clear face and body pics,Your likes,What your looking for,What your ideal meet would be,And please put 'I want you' as the message heading or we will delete your message and block you.

After reading that ego boosting nonsense I didn't message them.

A hour later I recived a message off them with no pics attached and it simply said-You viewed our profile fancy a good fucking now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The other thing is people messaging saying "you any pics" and yet to message me they have had to go through my profile which has images on.

I have had the exact thing happen to me, really demanding first message requirements so I just don't do it cause they are either too high strung or pic collector, for them to message me with "hey" not long after

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I do, typically the block button gets used. My general rule is I won't do face images instantly, that is normally one of the last things I would send, unless they have decided to send me one first then I would return the favour. "

So if for instance somebody like myself contacted you with face pics clearly on show to all - would or wouldn't you send me a pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it two faced or double standards?

Think it can be both, both have near identical meanings "
two faced is very different to double standards imho. One means they say one thing to your face.. another behind your back.

The other that they expect you to do something but wouldn't do it themselves x

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Is anyone else having issues with users who have one thing stated in their profile and then go against that.

Doing this more to vent my frustration then anything"
they didint go against anything though.they say they don't share there pic untill the day of meet.they can ask for face pics all they like and they will get them due to the number of guys compared to couple's/ladies.if that isint for you it's best to move on to the next person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if for instance somebody like myself contacted you with face pics clearly on show to all - would or wouldn't you send me a pic? "

I'd love to get a message / friend request from you and you can be sure I will respond lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read a profile yesterday that said-you must put effort into your first intoduction message.You must tell us everything about yourself Inculding clear face and body pics,Your likes,What your looking for,What your ideal meet would be,And please put 'I want you' as the message heading or we will delete your message and block you.

After reading that ego boosting nonsense I didn't message them.

A hour later I recived a message off them with no pics attached and it simply said-You viewed our profile fancy a good fucking now."

Perfect example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading that ego boosting nonsense I didn't message them.

A hour later I recived a message off them with no pics attached and it simply said-You viewed our profile fancy a good fucking now."

ha, isn't that a little ridiculous

still, what one wants and what one wants to give may well be very different. - equity isn't always highly valued. alas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do things your way and let others do the same, works for me. I never let how others go about their business on here bother me.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Both of our faces are in our public pics so if someone likes the look of us enough to send a message then we feel we should know what the messager looks like to decide if we want to take things any further.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I love this new feature of sending a picture direct from your phone...I've sent pictures of dinner, shit I've got on eBay... Yeah mate, I'll send you pictures alllllll day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So if for instance somebody like myself contacted you with face pics clearly on show to all - would or wouldn't you send me a pic? "

If they have visable face pictures then of course I would send if they requested, its the ones who say they won't send them until such a time or won't send them at all, but demand them from you I have issues with

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We sent a message to a couple,they had stated they always reply as they hate their messages being ignored.

Guess what. ..never replied to us lol

Miss

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"Do things your way and let others do the same, works for me. I never let how others go about their business on here bother me."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We sent a message to a couple,they had stated they always reply as they hate their messages being ignored.

Guess what. ..never replied to us lol

Miss"

Happens all the time to me, quite a piss take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an internet site, people will say one thing and do another, it happens often. Don't worry about it, just move on to the next.

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