FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on why i'm having no luck?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If anyone would give me some advice on why i am struggling to meet on here it would be greatly appreciated? Only genuine people who want to offer advice or people who would like to meet lol (long shot i know) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another single guy in the pool

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

You've only been around 6 weeks!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

To quote ShagTonight...

Patience is the key!

Just thought I'd get that in before he comes online lol

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By *punky-guyMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

Patients LOL I've been here 3 years now and have had some adventures through friends and parties but I have yet to have a meet from Fab. Sorry Fab is a joke for single guys. Messages very rarley even get read.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

As has previously been said, you've only been here 6 weeks.

Your photos are two identical mirror shots, use a selfie stick if needed (photos in mirrors just annoy the hell out of me as they normally just focus on the phone)

Inject a bit of personality and ask yourself this... if I got a message from this person, would I meet them?

You could also try clubs and socials

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

No face pic = no meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patients LOL I've been here 3 years now and have had some adventures through friends and parties but I have yet to have a meet from Fab. Sorry Fab is a joke for single guys. Messages very rarley even get read."

Fab is a joke? Yeah, a very funny one. The forums make me piss myself everyday

One wonders why people stick around if its so very awful

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Sadly it's perfectly normal, and you shouldn't take it as a reflection on you. I've been on Fab for about 3 years, and had one social meet: a coffee and a chat that didn't go any further. Though admittedly I do have an addtional handicap, I'm a married man in a sexless marriage, and "married cheaters" aren't popular around here.

You just have to accept that Fab is primarily for swinging couples. Yes, single women also have a great time on here, but single women are in demand on ANY "adult dating" site. Single men (or worse, "married cheaters") are at least allowed to join (on some other sites, men in my position have to lie about their marital status), and it's free. Other types of site may work better for you, and paying for it is pretty much 100% successful, so that is an option.

Your best bet is to go to clubs, and just use Fab to maintain contact with anyone of interest that you meet there. I've been to one, and am planning to visit another shortly.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"If anyone would give me some advice on why i am struggling to meet on here it would be greatly appreciated? Only genuine people who want to offer advice or people who would like to meet lol (long shot i know) x"

Hi OP. I think you need to fill out your profile a bit more, it is very bland. Tell us what you have to offer potential meets and what you would like in return. There are many excellent, single male profiles on here and some of them still struggle to meet. You have to stand out from the crowd. Good luck on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here for meets (still here for meets) but have found the forums really enjoyable! Perving is a bonus too.

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