FabSwingers.com forum: New fabers

By *irtyrico OP Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Hi all, I have been on fab for about 10 months it says, and to my disappointment I've not actually met no one yet, there was this one couple who was really interested in me but I don't know what's happened to them I can't find them no more, I want to know what am I doing wrong lol? I've had more success in "real life" but on a swingers site it seems very hard, I'm phone verified but to be meet verified I have to actually meet someone lol, so it don't help when people want you to be meet verified

Some one give me a bit of advice or tell me where I'm going wrong.. thanks in advance

By *a KatWoman
over a year ago

Northwest

"Hi all, I have been on fab for about 10 months it says, and to my disappointment I've not actually met no one yet, there was this one couple who was really interested in me but I don't know what's happened to them I can't find them no more, I want to know what am I doing wrong lol? I've had more success in "real life" but on a swingers site it seems very hard, I'm phone verified but to be meet verified I have to actually meet someone lol, so it don't help when people want you to be meet verified

Some one give me a bit of advice or tell me where I'm going wrong.. thanks in advance

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The best way of meeting people, is to visit Swinging clubs. Chat to people, allow your personality to show. Should you be lucky to meet, then, they may leave a verification. I personally only play in a club, unless I know them well.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are a good shout. Go with an open mind, expect nothing more than a great social evening and get chatting.

When looking to message someone, try reading their profile first and finding out if you are what they are looking for.

By *irtyrico OP Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

See that's the thing I spend lots of time reading the profile and even coming up with good starting messages etc but yh I think clubs would be my thing but I feel awkward on my own for the first time ever just rolling up to a club like that like heyyyy let me in

I'd love to meet someone on here and then go together with them to the club so I'm not just standing about there without knowing anyone

By *irtyrico OP Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Finally had my first meet and verified !!! Wohoooo hahaha