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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Newbies looking to visit a club for the first time, our local ones seen to be in jaydee's and VA..

Any suggestions which might be best to break us in gently..?

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Seem lol..!

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple
over a year ago

london

We went to Vanilla Alternative Friday to Dark Desires Party nite. Very laid back atmosphere. No pressure to play or swarms of single men. Good atmosphere and music. Ideal for newbies altho no closed rooms so play is all open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on a night when single guys are not allowed in, some (not all) are like vultures and will spoil your night.

Biggest advise though see if you can meet up with another couple then theres less pressure.

The first time we went to a club we met up with a guy for mfm, then we went exploring on our own after that.

Meeting the guy first was a good ice breaker and got us in the mood and gave us a bit more confidence.

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Thanks for the input guys, liking the sound of playing in the open areas, if we feel comfortable enough..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just post up a meet on here and try to get another couple to go with at first even if it's just a social affair. Anything more is just a bonus.

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford


"Just post up a meet on here and try to get another couple to go with at first even if it's just a social affair. Anything more is just a bonus. "

Mmmm.. That's a good idea..

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

So, VA then.. Saturday soiree..? sounds fun..

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"So, VA then.. Saturday soiree..? sounds fun.. "

This weekend festival of fun at Va will be awesome;)

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford


"So, VA then.. Saturday soiree..? sounds fun..

This weekend festival of fun at Va will be awesome;)"

Unfortunately we're away, not back until next Monday

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"So, VA then.. Saturday soiree..? sounds fun..

This weekend festival of fun at Va will be awesome;)

Unfortunately we're away, not back until next Monday

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That's a shame. VA was our first club and we would thoroughly recommend it. Look for an event weekend

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford


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That's a shame. VA was our first club and we would thoroughly recommend it. Look for an event weekend"

Yeah, would've been fun camping too..!

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Torn between jaydees and va.. Hmmmm

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

V/A has no private rooms all in open

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Yeah, somebody mentioned that, not sure that would deter us from playing on our first visit, depending on the circumstances etc

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over a year ago

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

You also have Arousal's...

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By *edsNewCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford


"You also have Arousal's..."

Where's that..? The other two are fairly local, well, about half hour away..

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside


"Yeah, somebody mentioned that, not sure that would deter us from playing on our first visit, depending on the circumstances etc"

To be fair the open playrooms are really good and you tend not to notice everyone else unless you're specifically watching them.

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By *ebbie360TV/TS
over a year ago

huntingdon

The VA has the better social space as well.

Always my 1st choice

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"You also have Arousal's...

Where's that..? The other two are fairly local, well, about half hour away.."

Dunstable, it's about 67 miles each way for us but always been worth it...

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