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By *lwaysdiscreet OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

I am finding it more and more on here that i am getting tar with the same brush as other guys.

Meaning that they don't turn up and rude on there messages etc.

I had said i am nothing like that but it just not working.

So how do you show some one that your 100% true and you want a meeting.

By just messaging.

Please help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Human nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont tar them all the same and have met a few single men. Your profile gives off the impression that you are married which is a no for a lot of people (Not Judging btw just stating)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am finding it more and more on here that i am getting tar with the same brush as other guys.

Meaning that they don't turn up and rude on there messages etc.

I had said i am nothing like that but it just not working.

So how do you show some one that your 100% true and you want a meeting.

By just messaging.

Please help "
its fab for you LOL a bit of luck is required too but unfortunately some things are not in our hands ...keep plodding away. Lol PMA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am finding it more and more on here that i am getting tar with the same brush as other guys.

Meaning that they don't turn up and rude on there messages etc.

I had said i am nothing like that but it just not working.

So how do you show some one that your 100% true and you want a meeting.

By just messaging.

Please help "
well i would agree with they tar us men with same brush mainly those who cannot accommdate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am finding it more and more on here that i am getting tar with the same brush as other guys.

Meaning that they don't turn up and rude on there messages etc.

I had said i am nothing like that but it just not working.

So how do you show some one that your 100% true and you want a meeting.

By just messaging.

Please help well i would agree with they tar us men with same brush mainly those who cannot accommdate "
90% are married or other I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make your own luck on here.

"We" are not all tarred with the same brush because not everyone is looking for the same thing.

Some people will make assumptions based on your profile and will move on to those who meet their needs.

Buyers market and all that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's a winner !

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

How do you know you're being "tarred with the same brush" as others OP? Have you specifically been told that or are you making assumptions because you aren't getting meets/replies etc?

Either way perhaps the best way to not be tarred with the perceived, or otherwise, 'all single men are awful' brush is to avoid coming across as the same as a vast number of single men on here - and that means having a well written stand out profile that has an equally stand out set of pics that show off your body and not your cock.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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unless you give off a hint of wanting wank chat then most women will presume you want to meet. there's no problem really.

women tend to bu fussy though and don't wanna meet everyone who wants to meet them, and so you won't get all women wanting to meet you.

and i good majority of men won't get anyone wanting to meet them, or struggle to meet, because of their location or looks, or something that isn't really their fault.

rude/shit messages on here make the decent guys stand out somewhat and the site a better experience but even that won't guarantee you a fuck.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I am finding it more and more on here that i am getting tar with the same brush as other guys.

Meaning that they don't turn up and rude on there messages etc.

I had said i am nothing like that but it just not working.

So how do you show some one that your 100% true and you want a meeting.

By just messaging.

Please help "

Don't have your cock as your avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to have an appealing profile and pictures for starters XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to have an appealing profile and pictures for starters XXX"
blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to have an appealing profile and pictures for starters XXXblah blah blah"

What's that supposed to mean, I wasn't talking to you was I??

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You have to have an appealing profile and pictures for starters XXXblah blah blah

What's that supposed to mean, I wasn't talking to you was I??

"

Reaching for the emergency supply of popcorn..

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By *lwaysdiscreet OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Well i took the cock pictures down so thats a start i hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i took the cock pictures down so thats a start i hope "

erm...your profile pic is a cock....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the constant complaint that 'they tar us all with the same brush' holds no water at all. It makes absolutely no sense if you think about it. If this were true, taken to its logical end, then there would be no women on here at all except those wishing to meet other women or couples.

It is a very lame, and very tired excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whining moaners and the terribly "hard done to" go to the bottom of the pile for me I'm afraid. Everyone has an equal opportunity to create an interesting and appealing profile. If your premise was correct no one would meet. Some members just have to face the fact that they are not an attractive prospect, looks or personality wise and not blame others for their lack of success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whining moaners and the terribly "hard done to" go to the bottom of the pile for me I'm afraid. Everyone has an equal opportunity to create an interesting and appealing profile. If your premise was correct no one would meet. Some members just have to face the fact that they are not an attractive prospect, looks or personality wise and not blame others for their lack of success. "

^this

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By *entleman and SassyPussCouple
over a year ago

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Your avatar is your cock. If that's all you have to offer, I think I'll pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am finding it more and more on here that i am getting tar with the same brush as other guys.

Meaning that they don't turn up and rude on there messages etc.

I had said i am nothing like that but it just not working.

So how do you show some one that your 100% true and you want a meeting.

By just messaging.

Please help "
your avatar is your cock hmmm yes course your not same as all the other men your avatar would put me straight off even looking at your message female here get them all in private send if asked for xx good luck

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By *rive_me_crazyWoman
over a year ago

Calne

Having just received a message from you, I can give honest feedback.

Your avatar is still a cock, which is not appealing.

Without looking at your photos, I'd be rejecting you based on what you wrote To be told exactly what you'd like to do to me, without any precursor of what I'd like to do, is an instant no. I won't go into details, as that would not be courteous, but would you approach a lady in a bar and be telling her that within 2 minutes? Why should on here be any different .... where's the build up, flirt etc?

Did you even read my profile, or just saw that I'd looked at you earlier and saw it as an invitation?

Sadly you will get tarred with the same brush as I've seen this kind of approach hundreds of times.

Good luck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Another moany "tarred with the same brush" thread, perfectly simple OP, if you aren't what we are looking for why would we meet you? Don't blame your lack of success on here on every other guy on fab, take a look closer to home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and still the cock avatar is there....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"...and still the cock avatar is there...."
indeed it is, however, since OP hasn't asked specifically for profile advice, we can't give it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...and still the cock avatar is there.... indeed it is, however, since OP hasn't asked specifically for profile advice, we can't give it lol"
it wasn't advice...that would be a complete waste of oxygen ..it was in response to him saying it had been removed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies on here are no different to if you're on a club, be a gentleman and flirt and see if there's chemistry

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