FabSwingers.com forum: Dumped by email

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just my luck.... iv been dumped by email this afternoon!

Suck it up and move on I guess !! I'm hurting if I'm totally honest.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorry to hear that cocker...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. If you were as you put it "dumped" by a swinger, then you weren't really dumped were you, swinging is swinging

2. If you were dumped by your girlfriend, then why were you in a swinging site

Either way we are sure you'll move on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just my luck.... iv been dumped by email this afternoon!

Suck it up and move on I guess !! I'm hurting if I'm totally honest. "

Might have found your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. If you were as you put it "dumped" by a swinger, then you weren't really dumped were you, swinging is swinging

2. If you were dumped by your girlfriend, then why were you in a swinging site

Either way we are sure you'll move on xx"

ASS U mptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. If you were as you put it "dumped" by a swinger, then you weren't really dumped were you, swinging is swinging

2. If you were dumped by your girlfriend, then why were you in a swinging site

Either way we are sure you'll move on xx

ASS U mptions

I think the word you missed is "If" so no assumption was made eh

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Dumped is dumped and it's rubbish regardless of who does it to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prescribe lots of self administered tlc until you feel better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got dumped by my FWB of 3 years by message and that was the thing that upset me the most, that he'd not told me to my face.

It does hurt when someone dumps you, even if it's just a sexual arrangement. Try to distract yourself by keeping busy OP and move on with dignity. XXX

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Dumped by my FB a while ago, she just had to get the last word, so blocked me on phone and email, after sending her particular vitriol. It does hurt, but there's nothing we can do.

Last time she did that, it took 34 years for her to speak to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it. If someone doesn't want to be with you, then they're not worth your time or worry.

I must admit I never understand the face to face break up, despite having always adhered to the social norm. Why is it needed? Surely all it achieved is upset all round and the end result is the same but with 3 hours of being shouted or cried at/doing shouting or crying.

Give me a text or an email any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry to hear you were dumped.

I dumped a bf by post it note - he deserved to be treated much worse though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never nice being rejected, no matter the reasons why.

Be is partner, wife, FB, or person you have just "spent time" with.

And text really shows that they were not with your effort in the first place.

Keep looking....we know from experience the right one is out there!!

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By *omersetfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"1. If you were as you put it "dumped" by a swinger, then you weren't really dumped were you, swinging is swinging

2. If you were dumped by your girlfriend, then why were you in a swinging site

Either way we are sure you'll move on xx"

That's a bit righteous!

I am sure it's smarting or OP wouldn't have written it

No need to rub it in

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"Just my luck.... iv been dumped by email this afternoon!

Suck it up and move on I guess !! I'm hurting if I'm totally honest. "

Sorry t hear that, but unfortunately, it does happen.

I (female) was dumped by a FWB after 3 months all of a sudden by email, explaining that he planned it that way, as not to 'hurt' me in public. We later met for lunch that day and he explained that he wanted to get everything out and thought he wouldn't be able to do it, face to face.

I was more annoyed that he didn't have to guts to do it face to face from the oft, than being dumped. We're all adults and not silly teens surely!

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Dude, she's not even worth worrying about.. She is probably all lubed up in some other guys bed, going down on him and having wild crazy sex as he cums all over her gorgeous body..

I wouldn't give it a second thought

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Dude, she's not even worth worrying about.. She is probably all lubed up in some other guys bed, going down on him and having wild crazy sex as he cums all over her gorgeous body..

I wouldn't give it a second thought

That'll help

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

well at least you were meeting people off here during the relationship so I'm sure you'll be fine mate now you have other options.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys appreciate all the comments. Even the 'constructive' ones

I guess these things happen, I'll move on.

Just for the record she knew about fab and met girls with me! That wasn't the issue.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"It's never nice being rejected, no matter the reasons why.

Be is partner, wife, FB, or person you have just "spent time" with.

And text really shows that they were not with your effort in the first place.

Keep looking....we know from experience the right one is out there!!"

Always... xx Storm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of the times I have been rejected in a way that was not right it hurt a lot.

This looks to be bigger than it being cured by getting d*unk for the night. In those siturations I have found I had a lot of anger, so maybe some physical exercise will help? Another strategy is to distract yourself - do you have any friends/famiy to call, or go on holiday with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear of your recent situation, it's not easy what ever the circumstances. Their is no such thing as "the one"... more the right type of person to suit your situation at that time and you can only hope that the rd continues on together.

Distract yourself is my suggestion, when you horny - go to a club, but try to avoid getting into another relationship for a while until your happy with you again and you will be.

Chin up and keep smiling, don't let them get you down.

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

Email ? How old fashioned

The current way is by text or WhatApp.

Anyway best of luck.

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