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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How exactly do you go about trying sex with a woman to see if you like it or not?

I'm a complete novice who would love a one on one opportunity to experience a woman but no pressure to perform if it turns out not for me after all.

I definitly am not attracted to all women or all body shapes or all pussys, just same as im not attracted to all men or cocks, but certainly the hot ladies make me curious.

I get that ladies dont want to be used as a novices trial and error so sorry if my curiosity offends it's certainly not intended to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No incentive for us, however

We'd suggest you play with a couple where you fancy both, you can experiment a little bit without pressure, hopefully they will both turn you enough for you to go with the flow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you find women attractive. ..do you think you're bi? ..could you see yourself kissing, licking and playing ..how do you feel about it? ..ask yourself these questions and depending on the answers depends whether you should persue it. ...

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"How exactly do you go about trying sex with a woman to see if you like it or not?

I'm a complete novice who would love a one on one opportunity to experience a woman but no pressure to perform if it turns out not for me after all.

I definitly am not attracted to all women or all body shapes or all pussys, just same as im not attracted to all men or cocks, but certainly the hot ladies make me curious.

I get that ladies dont want to be used as a novices trial and error so sorry if my curiosity offends it's certainly not intended to.

"

There are three ways we think you could achieve this:

1) Move to Leek (What?! We can hope can't we?)

2) Message women on here explaining exactly what you'd like and why. Tell them about you and what turns you on etc.

3) And (in our experience most likely to be successful) go to a club with private rooms, on a couples only night. You can always find a club with a couples only night where they allow single women. That way you wont get single men distracting you. And private rooms are just that. You and your lady friend can explore in private. Stacey's first time with a women was at a club, she was nervous and hadn't a clue what she was doing (although the results on the night suggest a teeny tiny bit of fibbing! ). Now she is no longer curious but hungry for it!

Oh, and there's actually a fourth option. Mo to Leek. Ok, we know we've already said that, but you'll definitely get what you're looking for x

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Whoops, the ve fell off!! That word was move x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No incentive for us, however

We'd suggest you play with a couple where you fancy both, you can experiment a little bit without pressure, hopefully they will both turn you enough for you to go with the flow...."

Couples I've spoke to want girl on girl while hubby watches or hubby just playing with her, I'm not confident to be watched. Thanks

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"How exactly do you go about trying sex with a woman to see if you like it or not?

I'm a complete novice who would love a one on one opportunity to experience a woman but no pressure to perform if it turns out not for me after all.

I definitly am not attracted to all women or all body shapes or all pussys, just same as im not attracted to all men or cocks, but certainly the hot ladies make me curious.

I get that ladies dont want to be used as a novices trial and error so sorry if my curiosity offends it's certainly not intended to.

"

Further though having read your profile - put what you've said you want here into your profile and change your orientation to bi-curious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about going to an all girl event at a club? It's a great way to socialise, practice your girl flirting and no pressure to do anything other than what you are personally comfortable with. HHx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find women attractive. ..do you think you're bi? ..could you see yourself kissing, licking and playing ..how do you feel about it? ..ask yourself these questions and depending on the answers depends whether you should persue it. ..."

Hot sexy woman yes just the same as hot sexy men... definity have body types I like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How exactly do you go about trying sex with a woman to see if you like it or not?

I'm a complete novice who would love a one on one opportunity to experience a woman but no pressure to perform if it turns out not for me after all.

I definitly am not attracted to all women or all body shapes or all pussys, just same as im not attracted to all men or cocks, but certainly the hot ladies make me curious.

I get that ladies dont want to be used as a novices trial and error so sorry if my curiosity offends it's certainly not intended to.

There are three ways we think you could achieve this:

1) Move to Leek (What?! We can hope can't we?)

2) Message women on here explaining exactly what you'd like and why. Tell them about you and what turns you on etc.

3) And (in our experience most likely to be successful) go to a club with private rooms, on a couples only night. You can always find a club with a couples only night where they allow single women. That way you wont get single men distracting you. And private rooms are just that. You and your lady friend can explore in private. Stacey's first time with a women was at a club, she was nervous and hadn't a clue what she was doing (although the results on the night suggest a teeny tiny bit of fibbing! ). Now she is no longer curious but hungry for it!

Oh, and there's actually a fourth option. Mo to Leek. Ok, we know we've already said that, but you'll definitely get what you're looking for x"

Thank you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about going to an all girl event at a club? It's a great way to socialise, practice your girl flirting and no pressure to do anything other than what you are personally comfortable with. HHx "

I'm not aware there are any clubs that are close to my area.. but good suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about going to an all girl event at a club? It's a great way to socialise, practice your girl flirting and no pressure to do anything other than what you are personally comfortable with. HHx

I'm not aware there are any clubs that are close to my area.. but good suggestion"

Yawn, hubby would be bored watching or me just playing with you then him, our FFM play is just 3 people all enjoying each other and we are sure there are many more couples like us too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How exactly do you go about trying sex with a woman to see if you like it or not?

I'm a complete novice who would love a one on one opportunity to experience a woman but no pressure to perform if it turns out not for me after all.

I definitly am not attracted to all women or all body shapes or all pussys, just same as im not attracted to all men or cocks, but certainly the hot ladies make me curious.

I get that ladies dont want to be used as a novices trial and error so sorry if my curiosity offends it's certainly not intended to.

Further though having read your profile - put what you've said you want here into your profile and change your orientation to bi-curious x"

Bi curious women do contact me but I've not been attracted to them or neither of us could accom or afford alternative setting...

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"Further though having read your profile - put what you've said you want here into your profile and change your orientation to bi-curious x

Bi curious women do contact me but I've not been attracted to them or neither of us could accom or afford alternative setting..."

That's good that they're contacting you, but you'll get more if it doesn't say straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about going to an all girl event at a club? It's a great way to socialise, practice your girl flirting and no pressure to do anything other than what you are personally comfortable with. HHx

I'm not aware there are any clubs that are close to my area.. but good suggestion

Yawn, hubby would be bored watching or me just playing with you then him, our FFM play is just 3 people all enjoying each other and we are sure there are many more couples like us too xx"

Think it's more a case of the men aren't allowed to be with the other woman... conversation goes from asking if id like to join for a 3some, to just girl on girl, to hubby only playing with her!

Then I decline as goalposts keep changing and I'm not looking to be watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With great difficulty! Iv managed to meet one person and I know I'm no longer curious anymore.

I get lots offers from couples who want me to join them, or him to watch but i don't want to perform especially when I don't really know what exactly I'm doing, it's like being a virgin again lol.

Iv talked with my husband about us going to clubs but not sure I'm ready for that yet either.

It's all very frustrating!! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I realised I was bi as I was turned on my lesbian porn and seeing women kissing, I found this a bigger turn on then watching other porn. So when I started out swinging we met a couple and I told her and she was amazing, I knew after being with her I'd gone from the curious stage and definitely bisexual now and adore woman as much as men, maybe even more so!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We subscribe to: if it's not fun, don't do it....

That tends to be if everyone clicks, the place and the dynamic.

It's great to have an outcome, just don't let it get in the way of fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a similar situation. I'd like to explore more but not convinced it's for me. I don't want to offend anyone if it's not and I want to be with someone I'm comfortable with so things can develop naturally. I don't feel this could really happen in a club as it'd all feel too forced x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did the meet a couple thing. Found a couple I was attracted to both. Was open about never tried but was curious. Worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

find a lady you like - chat and see if you get along - maybe talk about a scenario where you might lead to touch and kiss - whether just with one lady (or more at a ladies event) - or as a 4sum - but dont force somthing that isnt there - nothing worse for all concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about going to an all girl event at a club? It's a great way to socialise, practice your girl flirting and no pressure to do anything other than what you are personally comfortable with. HHx

I'm not aware there are any clubs that are close to my area.. but good suggestion

Yawn, hubby would be bored watching or me just playing with you then him, our FFM play is just 3 people all enjoying each other and we are sure there are many more couples like us too xx

Think it's more a case of the men aren't allowed to be with the other woman... conversation goes from asking if id like to join for a 3some, to just girl on girl, to hubby only playing with her!

Then I decline as goalposts keep changing and I'm not looking to be watched.

"

If any couple you chat to have any rules like that just block and move on, they obviously have issues xx

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I was in this predicament a couple of years ago, then I met a very lovely lady who made me feel totally relaxed and allowed me to explore as much as I wanted, it was the BEST afternoon

As a single woman I know how hard making that first move can be, I only ever meet 1:1 to explore in total privacy with no pressure - any lovely curious (or experienced) ladies who are in Norfolk feel free to check out my profile and message me if you like what you see

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"I'm in a similar situation. I'd like to explore more but not convinced it's for me. I don't want to offend anyone if it's not and I want to be with someone I'm comfortable with so things can develop naturally. I don't feel this could really happen in a club as it'd all feel too forced x"

Pity we're so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first was quite recently as part of a ffm threesome and I was really nervous but if you make sure there's that spark and you find her sexually atractive then that's a good start.

Make sure there's no rush or pressure then take things slowly and start with a bit of hugging and kissing and if you still think it's nice then just go with the flow and let it happen and relax and enjoy yourself and if it's anything like my experience you will soon find yourself going for it fully and and having the most amazing full sex and orgasms ever.

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